This is just a theory I've been developing for a little while now:I think that women choose to date 'bad boys' to validate their feminist mindset that they 'don't need men' and can live independently. Women want to believe their boyfriend/husband is a predator so they can justify leaving him later if someone better comes along.A 'nice' man can't be criticized. If he's nice, she can't date him. It's too boring, not enough drama, no gossip for her friends. I see that more clearly now working alongside divorced moms and thots on a daily basis. I get friend zoned and other guys have one night stands because in modern society love can't exist. You're either a nice guy or a fuck boy, there is no middle. And I don't want to be a rapist. I hate society's standards.