I struggle with lust and monogamy greatly. I am 26 and im so miserable and bored having a girlfriend because I just crave sex from many other girls. She is pretty and nice to me, and I am lucky to have any girl at all in the 2026 dating market. But I cant help it. I genuinely cant contain it. I have so many pornographic fantasies. If im being honest if I knew that I could regularly get pussy I would probably leave her. Im terrible and guilty
>>83861461ragebaitorganello
>>83861587Not ragebait unfortunately. I dont really care about much else in the world besides hot girls right now. Im not sure why ive become so obsessed. Its simple biology I guess
>>83861461man I love girls who are petite like that
stop looking at lewds nudes and porno. you can train your body to want sex less
So, you never get bored of that shit?For me, it just doesn't do it, but then, for example, a buddy of mine, looks like prince harry, no hair up there.He would fuck 1-3 different hot girls every weekend for like years.
>>83861940I never really tried it. We were 20 when we first got together. She is the only woman I have been with. I dont know how many experiences I would need before itd feel out of my system, so to speak
>>83861461On top of that, you're also an attention whore
>>83862191On some level I guess. I definitely crave validation. Knowing girls want to fuck me would be a big ego boost
>>83861917I dont watch porn that much surprisingly. I do see a lot of pretty girls just through social media though I guess
>>83861461You don't need to be a monogamist anon. Probably better to find a gf who's more of a freak like you than to stay with this poor normal-brained woman who's expecting you to be just as normal and will blame herself when it turns out you aren't.
>>83863894I feel like there isnt a girl like that out there for me. Someone attractive and bisexual and horny and likes to explore
>>83861461>>83861754>>83862130>>83862557holy shit brother are you me? i'm exactly in the same position. only difference is i have a roster of women who send me nudes, and one of my stacy friends near me wants to come stay with me for a weekend. the sexual attention from other women is great but i love my girlfriend so i don't know if i could physically fuck one without feeling like a complete piece of shit. but every day the lust grows stronger, i don't know if i'll be able to control myself soon
>>83861461Acknowledgment is the first step. This is good OP.OP if you are serious about wanting to get better, you'll have to stay with me on this one. To combat temptations of lust, like with any temptation, you must not give in to it. Just as an obese person struggles to not overeat, you struggle to not desire to cheat.You mentioned pornographic fantasies. This to me reads as a core driving force, as it is for many who struggle with sexual perversions and lust. You need to choke this off, no more porn. Not now, not ever. Delete anything you have saved, block all porn websites, and don't come to 4chan anymore (at least so as long as these temptations exist). Coomers on here will bait you, much like you have with your own suggestive image (you should delete that too). You will get next to nowhere, if not deeper in your depravity, if you continue to engage with porn in any measure.Additionally, you need to stop masturbating. Cutting off porn is not enough. Your mind is a playground to act out fantasies and you will quickly adapt without the visual stimuli. You will always visualize someone other than who you love, it doesn't matter how strong you think you are, you simply aren't. This is what must happen OP. You're free to do as you please, call me a nutcase and continue as you are, modify these actions to your liking, or going scorched earth and eliminating the perversions from your life. It's entirely your choice.
my girlfriends friend is now kissing my neck and breathing down my shirt whenever my gf is not around
>>83861461Good news OP. You don't have a girlfriend so this isn't an issue for you. Simply stop making things up in your imagination. Your pretend girlfriend won't have to worry about it. >>83864159You don't have any women at all.>>83864414You mean your girlfriend who doesn't exist?
>>83864159Sounds like you are already cheating on her, retard
>>83861461>I just crave sex from many other girlsHave u though abt... idk... killing urself? Just saying...
>>83861461Get the fuck off porn if it makes you talk like this - like a legitimate retard. Dk what else to tell you.
>>83861461Just do it. Your girlfriend probably has the same thoughts and may have or one day will act on them. Most relationships are temporary. You may regret what you didn't try one day.
>>83864434melty>>83864940well technically maybe but that's because she's often too tired or busy working to do anything, and she never sends me nudes. i'm a man, we need a regular sexual release. it's not like i'm emotionally invested in any other women or anything. i just feel like physically fucking another woman would be a step too far that i wouldn't be able to take back
>>83864978Can sense the seething roastoid hand that typed this KEK
>>83861461>>83861754what specific fantasies do you have OP? i found one girl who's really hot and i love who does all my fetish stuff and we love each other. that was all i needed. i don't care to go through the effort of cheating. i just want a normal family.
