>>83969446
Do the responsible thing and cyt contact with this kiddo. You should be kind and polite, but make it CLEAR she is a kid and should NOT get close to strange adult men. Trust me she will thank you 5 years later. Make it CLEAR to her that you are wayyy to old for her. And yes she probably has a crush on you.

>>83969489
I'm worried she might find actual predatory men since she seems like the lonely type who would look for friends online.
>Make it CLEAR to her that you are wayyy to old for her
How do I do that without making it weird? Bringing that I'm too old for her out of nowhere seems somewhat flirtatious and that I was thinking of us together or that I assume she wants me romantically.

>>83969568
When you message her, call her infantilizing things like "kiddo", "kid". Its gonna be easy to see wether she is into you, if she doesn't want to be called kiddo or she is trying to prove she is "mature enough" its a pretty dead give away. If you want to deter her from predatory guys, you should probably tell her up front, and say that some people may take advantage of you. She might not take this well. Make your niece befriend her, too.

>>83969595
>When you message her, call her infantilizing things like "kiddo", "kid"
Great idea.
>If you want to deter her from predatory guys, you should probably tell her up front, and say that some people may take advantage of you
People already tell that to kids and it doesn't stop them from being stupid and still being taken advantage of.
>Make your niece befriend her, too.
I can't force my niece into being her friend. It would just things even more awkward between them.

>>83969446
You enjoy it, don't you?
Don't do anything bad to her, she is a kid. Leave sex out of it.

>>83969656
>People already tell that to kids and it doesn't stop them from being stupid and still being taken advantage of.
Well, you should still tell her. If she doesn't want to listen you need to keep it a buck and tell her than many girls lives get ruined for ever because of these things. If she still insists, you need to tell her parents. She may hate you for this, she may even hate her parents for this but in the long run its the best possible thing you can do.
>I can't force my niece into being her friend. It would just things even more awkward between them.
Well, it would teach you niece a lesson about including others. I know you cant force her, but try to encourage her at least.

Just be her big bro faggot. Be her friend, try to hold back on the sex for a few years, not necessarily because shell be more mature at 18 (she wont, its a meaningless number) but just so if anyone finds out you got her 15yo puss filled you wont go to jail

>>83969671
>You enjoy it, don't you?
Talking about kpop? Yes.
>Leave sex out of it.
???

>>83969706
Thanks anon. I'll try that out.

>>83969727
I do not have any interest in having sex with her now or in the future.

>>83969446
Just marry her, pretend you're evangelical and suddenly the laws cease to exist

>>83969824
You don't really have to bring sex into it OP (by that I mean telling her you're too old/she's too young), could always just tell her that it's not appropriate for an adult to be DMing with a minor regardless of the context. Or you could let her parents know she's messaged you but depending on how they react it could cause a huge mess

>>83969446
Probably. She's at her peak breeding age.

>>83969568
>I'm worried she might find actual predatory men since she seems like the lonely type who would look for friends online.
Try to help her find other friends her age. Is she not friends with your niece? Maybe ask your niece to hang out with her.

>>83969446
Groom her to be your wife

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>>83969446
Just be careful OP. Break it to her you cannot be together and that she should be with someone her age. You got this man. There is also plenty of other advice these cool dudes are saying too. Update us if ya can or whatever.

>>83969838
I don't think it works like that.

>>83969924
That's a good idea.

>>83970094
>Try to help her find other friends her age
So you want me to talk to even more teen girls and try to make them all friends?
>Is she not friends with your niece? Maybe ask your niece to hang out with her.
From what I saw in the party I don't think they are friendly with each other because the other girls didn't seem to try to include her. She just kept to herself the entire time even before I started talking to her. I don't think they actively bully her either. She is just left alone.

>>83970182
No.

>>83970201
I don't even know she wants us to be together. Hopefully not and she is just looking for someone to talk about kpop.
>Update us if ya can or whatever
I'll probably wait until tomorrow to message her so I can have time to read the thread and think about the situation

Guys stop replying to obvious pedo bait

>>83969446
Mohamed would be proud

>>83969446
>Think nothing of it

Why is this nigger lying??? Probably fapped to the idea of fucking the shit out of her the second she left with her parents

>>83970215
>From what I saw in the party I don't think they are friendly with each other because the other girls didn't seem to try to include her. She just kept to herself the entire time even before I started talking to her. I don't think they actively bully her either. She is just left alone.
And that's what I'm saying! Ask your niece if she can include her because you notice this girl is lonely.

is this just a brag thread? Rubbing it into our faces?

>>83969446
Op, got a gf, nice...

>>83970246
I did it right in the middle of the party so everyone could see.

>>83970316
I'll ask her what the deal is with the lonely girl but I'm not picking sides here. Even more so because I would rather not make my niece annoyed with me over someone I had one conversation.

>>83970333
It's not. I wanted to ask if she might have a crush after a one time conversation and get some advice on how to proceed to make he stop if it was possible she had one.

>>83970388
I'm not dating her.

I had something similar to this happen, she definitely has a crush. Poor girl is attention starved, maybe even was raped when she was younger or something. Just keep watch of her, don't groom her but keep her close, or else some other idiot will groom her judging by how desperate she was just because you talked for a couple of hours

>>83970510
Also to add: be a mentor or something towards her, make it clear you don't have any feelings. If she does show feelings just push them away.

>>83970482
>I'm not dating her.
*yet

>>83970510
>I had something similar to this happen
How did it go? Did you manage to get her to stop crushing on you?
I won't groom her, I would rather she stopped liking me romantically.

>>83970532
>be a mentor or something towards her
I don't even know what that means. What would I need to do?
>If she does show feelings just push them away.
How do I do that?

>>83970544
There is no yet. I'm not dating her, not now and not in the future.

>>83969446
I'm male but this girl reminds me of myself when I was younger. I didn't have crushes on adults but I was very isolated from my peers and got my socialization from them. Teachers. school staff, people online, and so on. I recommend to not mention anything romantic as she may not necessarily have that intention but rather she added you because you were kind to her and seemed like a safe person. Just stress that no adult should be befriending or talking kids under no context

>>83970718
Just read the rest of the thread. For further actions I would have only one conversation and then unadd her, maybe even block her if she presses further. It would be different if you had a closer relation to this girl but she's a classmate of a niece. It's not your place to be a 'mentor'. It might also send her a message that she really shouldn't be talking to adults and any decent adult would distance themselves

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>>83969838
>Just marry her, pretend you're evangelical and suddenly the laws cease to exist
hmm

>>83970718
>>83970753
Thanks. It's good to know that she might just be looking for someone to talk with and has no other intentions.

You're making it weird you stupid fucking faggot, just be her friend or advisor, you have the experience (albeit that of a retarded faggot) that she doesn't have yet, so guide her with life stuff and steer her away from shit that could haunt her later on in life when she's mature enough to connect 2 braincells together. If she turns 18/19/20 and makes it crystal clear she wants you, then that's a bridge you'll have to cross but until then, just be a decent human being if that's what you really want.

People with no teeth surely get the best cuts of meat, ffs

>>83970962
Also this doesn't mean you have to listen for hours upon hours about teenage drama or pretend to be a part of girls night and go to their sleepovers or whatever stupid teens do these days

>>83970962
>>83970973
Thanks for the advice. Do you think there is a way to burn the bridge down so she doesn't get any ideas about romance or even thinks she could have a chance when she is older?

>>83969446
100% yes she did and at the minimum you should ask your parents to talk to her parents about this so they can let her down gently

>>83970215
>I don't think it works like that.

Some states allow it, like two though and both require parental permission.

>>83970999
Checked. To burn the bridge with a hormonal, immature and apparently socially-inept teenager is to make her immediately hate you forever, you can't really set a rope ladder ablaze and expect to only burn half of it. Another angle you could try is to (assuming you decide to continue with said friendship) include your niece in hangouts to let's say the movies or maybe an amusement park (also assuming you have time to entertain such a friendship with both her and your niece)

It's a bit of a pickle tbdesu

You could also get a gf and that'll send her a clear message

>>83970999
>Do you think there is a way to burn the bridge down so she doesn't get any ideas about romance or even thinks she could have a chance when she is older?
yeah just keep being a homosexual OP, she'll figure it out eventually

You will want to limit how much you interact with them so to not let them get too attached to you so it reduces the likelihood they get attached to you any further than friendship if you even want to have friendship with someone a lot younger than you are. You can talk to them but take long periods of time to answer them when possible as an example. It is odd in most peoples eyes to be talking to someone that young at your age especially if they are not a family friend but as long as things are not dirty it should be fine though keep yourself distant. It is evident she is one of the kids that other kids think are slightly odd or does not fit in the cliques and they stay away from her so it is obvious she needs some friends especially around her age group to prevent her from talking to older strangers who could do her harm so see if there is anything that your niece could do to either befriend her or find someone who could be friends with her. If that is not possible you need to think about being like a sort of distant big brother to watch over her and give advice if you end up talking about other things than kpop or whatever you bonded over. If they try anything fishy either act completely oblivious to all advances made on you or confront them about how wrong it is for them to do so to shut them down and cut contact but do not be mean about it cause that will cause more harm than good. At the end of the day just be nice to them and hopefully they will make other friends in time and if not try to guide them towards ways to make friends. Do not overthink things as well cause it could just be them just following you on insta cause you were nice to them and it might not go any further than that.

>>83971001
That's a good idea. I'll ask my aunt to talk to them since my aunt should know them from school stuff.

>>83971031
That's weird as fuck.

>>83971037
I would rather avoid getting her to hate me and don't even know how I would go about doing that in a way that is ok, even more so because of our ages.
If I kept being her friend I have no plans to ever be with her IRL. It would be an online friendship at most.
I'm a widower and have no desire to be with anyone else.

>>83971309
Fuck off. Being hetero doesn't mean you have to be with any woman who shows any interest.

>>83971450
Thanks. I'll reflect on everyone's advice and see the best outcome. Maybe I'll talk with my aunt and niece first too.

>>83969446
Fantasy thread. Unheard of in western culture. Trash responses. Did not read. Fantasy.

>>83971815
>Unheard of in western culture
Would you consider latam as western culture? Because I live in latin america.

>>83970564
>How do I do that?
Ignore when she's openly flirting with you
The girl I used to talk with vented to me a lot, I tried giving her advice but well there's not much I could have done there.. it happened because my friend would invite his little sister and she'd spend time talking to me.. I don't remember what I did to get her to stop crushing on me, just time and ignoring her attempts, she kind of just got the point

this very young girl started chatting with me in this game even after i told her how old i am. it was very obvious she was lonely and felt special having an older guy take interest in her. i realized how insanely easy this must be for groomers. i told her never tell anyone she meets online anything about her. hopefully she took my advice before she ran into a bigger creep than me.

i wish girls my age were lonely and desperate for male attention.

>>83971975
Unfortunately girls our age have already been groomed 1000 times and to them it's just another dude chatting with them. I don't understand why they're so into getting groomed. Like what goes on in the foid brain

>>83971933
I didn't plan to flirt with her if I kept in contact so that's an easy one.

>>83969568
Tell her parents, they should beat her. But i guess they dont care if they are not seeing this things

Just tell her parents and cut contact, anon. It's not worth it in any way.

>>83972098
Maybe her parents saw it and didn't see anything wrong with it? I mean it was one message saying who she is and a follow on instagram and while I'm an older guy I am related to her classmate. It's possible they didn't see any problem with it. That said I think it's more likely that they don't care that much.

>>83972126
I'm thinking about it. If I'll cut contact straight up or talk with her in a more distant and detached way.

>>83969446
God imagine how tight her holes would be. You should Epstein that shit.

>>83972181
No. I shouldn't. Don't be such a creep.

FYI, OP and his niece look way uglier than in your head so keep that in mind.

>>83969446
You are not rich or powerful enough for a teenage gf

>>83969446
keep her close and once she is 18 turn a ring on that bitch (metaphorically speaking)

>>83972501
I'm ugly indeed but my niece is beautiful. She is basically stacy.

>>83972523
I don't want a teenage gf so that's alright.

>>83972539
I don't have what turn a ring means.

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>>83969446
>at my niece's 13th birthday party
fakest shit ever or you are an idiot

if its true, just dont talk to her man, teens are fucking idiots and you are not one

make her understand she is a kid and you are an adult,its upon adults to make kiddos understand for their own safety in future too

altho seems like others have already made you understand, distance herself from you preferably slowly by barely looking at her messages or cut it right there if you can

keep kids safe and keep being amazing

>>83971756
>I'm a widower
why?

>>83972787
Because my wife died.

>>83969446
Just let her orbit you and don't do anything, relax bro. Personally I have quite a few orbiters, and I enjoy the attention from teen girls, but I will never cross a line. It's as simple as not making moves, that's it. No big deal!

>>83972880
Seems weird to me to act like that. I don't want an orbiter.

>>83972967
I don't think you have a choice. Cut her off then you seem like an asshole, groom her then people call you pedo. The winning move is to do literally nothing. That is what I do.

>>83973024
as an adult, literal children hating you is not a loss.

>>83973035
>they're not even people bro

>>83973024
I'll either keep talking to her as a friend or cut her off. Not grooming anyone.

>>83973061
Well that's what I meant by "do nothing", talk as a friend and only when spoken to. Deny any advances. It's really not that hard. Don't just cut off people because you're afraid of being a pedophile, that could actually mess her up worse than if an actual pedo groomed her. Be a good rolemodel, and she may grow up thankful for it. This is traditionally how people were back in the 20th century, when we still lived in a high-trust society. It was beneficial for people growing up. I had family friends I looked up to when I was a kid too.

If it was legal to plap a girl that age I would say go for it but since it's illegal you should simply ignore her

>>83973082
I'll take that into consideration.

>>83973091
I'm not going for it, legal or not. I'm not looking to date.

>>83973082
exactly , this is the correct way, teens are stupid they will try for attention somewhere else

just try to be that one reliable older person/senior , there is nothing more that should be done

>>83973099
Did you get a good look at her body type? Did she look like she could be pretty much fully developed?

>>83973139
She looked like a normal teen.

Just keep it platonic until shes 18

>>83973218
I'm keeping it platonic before and after. Not looking for a girlfriend.

>>83973055
>pedo tries to rationalize letting kids be around him

>>83969446
>>ask her about it
i'm sorry, dude, but i'm 28 and i would NEVER initiate a conversation with a 13 year old lmao
that was your first mistake

>>83973263
I knew someone would say this. You people are delusional and insane. Result of (and contributor to) a low-trust society.
>RAAAAHH MUH PEDO!!!!!

>>83973275
I don't see talking to her about kpop at a public setting as a mistake.

>>83973306
it's on me for engaging this thread in earnest not realizing it was a stealth pedo thread. hopefully, you end up in a wood chipper someday :)

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didn't read op or this thread but just b urself bro and it'll work out

President Joe Biden met his wife with a comparable age gap. Stay in contact, you don't have to touch her until she's legal.

This is going to bite you back and you'll be in jail for the rest of your life unless you cut ALL contact NOWWWWW YOU PEDOPHILE

>>83969446
4chan pedo threats have gone so luke warm. I remember how they used to be in late 00s

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>a female talks to you
>uhhh chat I think she's in love with me

>>83969446
Is fucking instaram how people meet and contact now? Does it have better chances of finding someone when dating apps are filled with bots and single mothers?

>>83969671
This. Nothing wrong with being a positive influence or role model for a child. Even better if you are a male as society is doing it's best to cut that out of the lives of children.