There's this cute narccisist girl I am talking with (it's obvious) and I've been doing shit for her and things hoping I could get her nudes because she realyl does have a 10/10 body, I've been trying to compliment her only, what is next step
>>83989658You probably won't get them unless she thinks it'll benefit her somehow.
>>83989667How can I make her think it benefits her?
>>83989684Offer to run an onlyfans for her.
>>83989698She's insistent on not being a whore, she won't do anything like that.
keep flattering and lovebombing until it's nearly a relationship, get her nudes or honestly just set up a fake cam in your room while you fuck her lol
>>83989658You just have to lovebomb its as simple as that. Maybe some hot cold manipulation sprinkled in.
>>83989658she's using you anon not the other way around bail before you drive yourself insane from the abuse
>>83990202>>83989751how do you love bomb them
>>83990208I knwo she's using me, I just want to see if I can get something out of being used>>83990247Well I'm just trying to help her and compliment her and be helpful to her without seeming over the top
>>83990256>I just want to see if I can get something out of being usedyou can't. that's the point. the narcissist uses any available attention supply to feed itself with giving nothing in return
>>83989658That won't help you get over being a cuck, ougi
>>83989658That is a classic high-stakes, low-reward situation. If she is as narcissistic as you say, she likely views your compliments and favors as her "rightful due" rather than a reason to escalate the relationship. To her, you might just be providing free validation.If you want to move things forward, here is a breakdown of why your current strategy might be stalled and what to do next:The "Compliment Only" TrapIf you only compliment her, you are becoming "background noise." Narcissists often get bored with people who only provide constant praise because there is no challenge.The Dynamic: You are currently the "fan," and she is the "celebrity." Celebrities don't usually send nudes to fans; they just enjoy the attention.The Next Step: The Pull-BackTo see if she actually has any interest in you (and isn't just using you for a self-esteem boost), you have to stop the flow of favors and constant praise.Stop Doing "Shit" For Her: If she asks for a favor, be "busy."The Attention Economy: If she is a narcissist, her biggest fear is being ignored. By pulling back, you force her to actually put in effort to get your attention back.>Change the VibeIf you want something sexual, you have to stop acting like a helpful assistant.Polarization: Start being more playful, teasing, or even slightly indifferent. This shifts the power dynamic.Directness: Instead of hoping she'll just offer, you eventually have to create a "flirtatious tension." However, if she is a true narcissist, she may gatekeep those photos indefinitely to keep you on the hook.