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There's this cute narccisist girl I am talking with (it's obvious) and I've been doing shit for her and things hoping I could get her nudes because she realyl does have a 10/10 body, I've been trying to compliment her only, what is next step
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>>83989658
You probably won't get them unless she thinks it'll benefit her somehow.
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>>83989667
How can I make her think it benefits her?
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>>83989684
Offer to run an onlyfans for her.
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>>83989698
She's insistent on not being a whore, she won't do anything like that.
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keep flattering and lovebombing until it's nearly a relationship, get her nudes or honestly just set up a fake cam in your room while you fuck her lol
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>>83989658
You just have to lovebomb its as simple as that. Maybe some hot cold manipulation sprinkled in.
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>>83989658
she's using you anon not the other way around bail before you drive yourself insane from the abuse
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>>83990202
>>83989751
how do you love bomb them
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>>83990208
I knwo she's using me, I just want to see if I can get something out of being used
>>83990247
Well I'm just trying to help her and compliment her and be helpful to her without seeming over the top
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>>83990256
>I just want to see if I can get something out of being used
you can't. that's the point. the narcissist uses any available attention supply to feed itself with giving nothing in return
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>>83989658
That won't help you get over being a cuck, ougi
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>>83989658
That is a classic high-stakes, low-reward situation. If she is as narcissistic as you say, she likely views your compliments and favors as her "rightful due" rather than a reason to escalate the relationship. To her, you might just be providing free validation.
If you want to move things forward, here is a breakdown of why your current strategy might be stalled and what to do next:
The "Compliment Only" Trap
If you only compliment her, you are becoming "background noise." Narcissists often get bored with people who only provide constant praise because there is no challenge.
The Dynamic: You are currently the "fan," and she is the "celebrity." Celebrities don't usually send nudes to fans; they just enjoy the attention.
The Next Step: The Pull-Back
To see if she actually has any interest in you (and isn't just using you for a self-esteem boost), you have to stop the flow of favors and constant praise.
Stop Doing "Shit" For Her: If she asks for a favor, be "busy."
The Attention Economy: If she is a narcissist, her biggest fear is being ignored. By pulling back, you force her to actually put in effort to get your attention back.
>Change the Vibe
If you want something sexual, you have to stop acting like a helpful assistant.
Polarization: Start being more playful, teasing, or even slightly indifferent. This shifts the power dynamic.
Directness: Instead of hoping she'll just offer, you eventually have to create a "flirtatious tension." However, if she is a true narcissist, she may gatekeep those photos indefinitely to keep you on the hook.



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