Guys that only want to date/marry a virgin girl, would you still date/marry a girl that was molested when she was a little kid?
>>83995446weird hypothetical, feels like a honeypot question.
Depends if you consented to the molestation or not
>>83995446DAMN HE THICC
No damaged goods
>>83995446Depends on how it affected her mentally but that's one of the few exceptions to the purity rule. You didn't choose to get lested as a kid.
im gonna answer your question with another question>Girls that never want to date a virgin guy, would you still date a guy who was a virgin due to circumstances out of his control?
>>83995446Yes, I will gladly accept you into my life. I will make sure that we can lighten this burden so we can move forward together <3
yes, i would. That's not your fault.
>>83995446Nope. Simple.
Yes i would get anything to this point
>>83995446I don't see how answering yes or no to this question would significantly change anything in my life.
>>83995446I was molested as a little girl. it took me 20 years to get over it. pedos who touch kids sexually are the worst. and I'm not talking about lolicons or people who shitpost about kids
>>83995570At what age did it happen and how did it affect your development? are ptsd for life now?
>>8399557020 years to get over someone touching you, when you'd let other men fuck your pussy? Victim mentality
>>83995681while* not when
>>83995681Not a victim mentality. I didn't even know I was getting molested until I was in high school and learned about child sexual abuse via the internet. Also my pussy hurt a lot afterwards, so there's that.>>83995597I believe I was in elementary school. I don't recall most of my childhood but I was definitely a little girl.I don't like talking about it since people online claim I lie about it plus my own family silences me on the rare times I speak up about it
>>83995446would I count it against her virginity? well probably not, thought I see why others might, others who value more heavily the literal quality of virginity rather than the choices that she may have made, others who perhaps are less willing to compromise on their preferences under "morality" pressure. would I date/marry her? well that depends on how mentally well she is as a result
>>83995496expanding on my previous post. this would be i think a preference that regards a quality of an individual rather than the choices they made. women who wouldn't want to be with a virgin guy feel that way because they believe it will reflect on certain qualities like his ability in bed, whether he's socially awkward, whether he has something that has "filtered" him out, etc. they don't disagree with celibacy as a concept, like how I disagree with sleeping around, so they won't really care about whether he chose or didn't choose to be a virgin, at least past the implications it would have on whether he's a loser or not.it's a preference more similar to height, attractiveness, age, race, where it's not a moral judgement of the other person necessarily (though it can be) but rather a feeling that a certain quality is not met. when it comes to virginity, I and it seems many other people in this thread care more about the decisions behind that virginity than the literal quality of having had sexual relations or not. so we can "forgive" women who were raped / sexually assaulted (that sounds strange I know) but not because we're just better than women, rather because the nature of our preference is different. that's what i think at least.
>>83995446Guys obsessed with virginity are deeply insecure guys who know they suck at sex. Personally, i find virgins disgusting. Like, what's wrong with you that you haven't been laid yet? Also, incompetence is never sexy, a virgin won't know what they're doing..
>>83995446Sure. I don't mind. I'd love her all the same.
>>83995446I never understood questions like this. Like, the whole reason we want a virgin is because she willingly chose to be a virgin. Being abused was no fault of your own.
>still a virgin but got molestedSo what she just got felt up or something? I'd rather be with a girl with a little trauma than a slut who fucked a bunch of guys and is still hung up on her first love/exes. How is this even a question? A more interesting choice would have been between a girl who got raped as a kid but never been in a relationship vs a normie slut with multiple exes
>>83995446There arent many reasons for someone to not want to date someone who's been assaulted or raped other than being corrupt, they can't love you and would think of you as tarnished for something outside of your control, not the kind you'd want to be with if you want anyone who cares beyond appearances anyway.This goes for both men and women btw
>>83996740would you date someone with a severely deformed face, or who generally has an appearance which disgusts you and does not sexually attract you whatsoever?
>>83996312You are a cuckLMAO
>>83995446>Guys that only want to date/marry a virgin girl, would you still date/marry a girl that was molested when she was a little kid?I don't think either virginity and having been molested are "deal breakers" or whatever you want to call them.t. virgin
>>83995446I actually tried once.And after we got together, she insisted, INSISTED, that we be intimate.And then as soon as my dong touched her, she screamed.SCREAMED. As loud as she possibly could, at the top of her lungs.Naturally we stopped. The cops showed up. I had to explain things. Had to have her explain things.They were treating me like a criminal the entire time.She wanted to try again after.I went home. Broke it off via text and blocked her everywhere.Never again.
>>83995446if you're willing to be a sister gf then yeah
Yes, its out of her control. Problem is, with virginity, you can verify if the hymen is there or not (So whether she lied and had sex with others or she was truthful)If you lost your hymen, we can't verify the diddling story and whether or not you went nuts and fucked dozens of guys to gain back power.Guys want to own you and to be your one and only. We want to provide for you.But without the proof, its extremely difficult to trust a female, let alone in the modern age.Hope this helps.
>>83997697Bruh majority of girls hymens break from rough activity unrelated to sex and sports. Its more likely a girls cherry was popped off bumpy road on a bike, or touching themselves a little to excitedly than a guys cock.
>>83997822Yeah that's unfortunate too, but like I said it doesn't help with distinguishing truth from lies. Hymens are made for a specific purpose, whether or not that fits modern life is irrelevant. Modern life is pretty much shit for everyone.I wish males had a similar thing, so that neither men or women have to guess if their partners were whores.
>>83995446what, you mean like all foids at this point? Show me one who hasnt been? And no, I dont mean the ones who think a shoulder touch is rape
