Why do men allow women have close "male friends"? even zoomers are waking up to this bullshit
post yfw 8+ years of education down the drain
>>83998285at least i can still get high
because they have no choice and they put up with the constant threat of cucking for access to pussy.
I post the same porn every time
>>83998270That's another part of why I swore off dating after just one relationship. It was stressful having to constantly play gatekeeper for an oblivious girl and trying to walk the fine line between defending what is mine and being overprotective. If the girl isn't assertive enough to tell other men to fuck off herself then I don't want to ever try my hand at another relationship for as long as I live.
>>83998270>Was a backup BF to a girl for like 4 years after I got swooped and friendzoned because I pussyfooted around asking her out>Didn't go to a basketball game she wanted me to go to her with where she met the guy who became her BF >Still hang out and flirt the entire time she dated him, our relationship never changes at and if anything we were even closer >She eventually tries to monkeybranch to me years later>Blew that opportunity too because I'm an oblivious autist who can't escalate relationships >She moves on and decides I'm too retarded to ever be more than friends, >Gets married a few years later to a guy she met after she broke up with her BF >10 years later still dwell on it because she was the only girl I ever could have loved and was probably my last chance at ever having a normal love lifeHaha yeah
>exgf starting new job in one month where she is basically the only woman in the entire company>I'm getting jealous even though she's not my gf anymore>feel like I need to fuck a new woman before she can fuck a new guy at her new job Welp, time to try and bang some waitresses at my new weekend job
>>83998990I would had block the whore in the first year. You ARE REALLY RETARD. >but i love her! I loved a girl that used to monkeybranch as well, it didn't stop me from calling her a whore and then block her. Grow some balls.
>>83998270Because modern men are weak as fuck
>>83999005>have to keep pace with the old whore so you don't "lose"I know this feel bro
>>83999055yeah, neither of us have started seeing or fucking anybody new but I will be damned if she does before me. especially because she stopped putting out at the end of the relationship
>>83998270That is a question that usually touches a nerve because it sits right at the intersection of trust, insecurity, and social evolution. The "Zoomers waking up" comment suggests a shift back toward more traditional boundaries, often driven by the realization that "platonic" dynamics aren't always as simple as they look on paper.Here is a breakdown of why this dynamic exists and why the pushback is growing:The "Default Trust" vs. "Naivety"In the modern dating world, "allowing" a partner to do something is often seen as a red flag for controlling behavior. Many men stay quiet about male friends because they want to be the "cool, secure boyfriend."The Logic: If I trust her, I should trust her judgment in friends.The Reality: This often ignores the fact that while the woman may have zero sexual interest in the friend, the "male friend" is often playing a long game (the "orbiter" phenomenon).The Emotional Labor GapA common point of "bullshit" that people point to is when a woman goes to her male friend for emotional support that should be reserved for the partner.This creates a "triangulation" where the boyfriend provides the physical/financial stability, while the male friend gets the deep emotional intimacy without any of the responsibility.Evolutionary Psychology and "Mate Guarding"The reason Zoomers and others are "waking up" to this is often rooted in basic pattern recognition.Men generally understand how other men think. When a man sees a "close male friend" hanging around, he isn't necessarily distrusting his girlfriend; he is recognizing a competitor who is waiting for a moment of weakness in the relationship.The Shift Toward BoundariesThe "waking up" you mentioned is likely a move toward "Relationship Realism."High-status or high-value men are increasingly setting boundaries early on, stating that they aren't interested in competing with "besties" for attention.
>>84000000wasted digits by a reddit spacing nigger
>>84000000>it goes to a triptroon2 wasted gets in a row
>>84000000I aint readin all that. Was that all Anon's words or did he use ai? If so, insanely lucky timing.
>>84000000Tripfag wasted the digits... BOTH digits got wasted, the 6 nines by a piss guzzling faggot and this one by a tripfag, we're never gonna make it...
>>84000054yup. shit digits all around
women are more likely to fuck their female friends than platonic males theyve friendzoned for being unfuckable.
>>84000000fukkin clanker chatGPT ass get
>>84000046Reddit spacing isn't paragraph indentation, newfaggot.
if a woman has any male friends at all who are not gay that is a red flag. whore alert.
>>84000000ai tripfag waste its over
>>84000230I got the number because I am favored by the 4chan Gods.
