>friends are ignoring me and being distant>ask if i have done anything wrong of if there's an issue>no anon, it's the same as always to me :^)>continues to never initiate chats or reply with much more than a single wordi hate being alive. why do i have to feel any need for human contact or attention? life would be so much easier if i could be alone but i want A friend at least. i can't even have that much without being treated like i'm everyone's back up loser they go to when their real friends are busyguess i'll spend another day watching twitch so i can pretend i have anyone that wants to talk to me
>>84002554Some of them did really get busy with real life stuff, some just moved on from our group.And now I only talk to one who has a lot going on at home but I like to keep in touch everyday.I had someone special but she ghosted me.Now I just play youtube videos or music to drown the silence.
>e-friendships That's your mistake. There's no way to mantain e-friendships in the long run.
>>84002554>>friendsLol, lmao
>>84002554Just ghost everybody and remain alone forever, it's pretty great
>>84002595>real life friendsfuck you normalnig
>>84002554i used to do that with youtube streamers. bad times. im sorry op
>>84002607As someone who wasted their teens and twenties on e-people, I can confirm it's a complete waste of time, and more damaging in the long run than pretty much any drug could be. Don't waste your time. The pattern OP just described is inevitable.
>>84002554hi OP. i'm just curious, what is your daily life like? for the most part, people on r9k aren't good at talking, so if you met them on here then chances are you're going to get ghosted sooner or later.i ask about your daily life because more or less people are looking for fun. it's very uncommon to find a person that will unconditionally care about you. this means, if people talk to you, then they expect some sort of entertainment, like a pic of something you did during the day, maybe some talking, sharing some experiences... so if your day or life are limited to doing nothing all day, making small talk or starting conversations will be hard for everyone.if your friends are ignoring you but not deleting you, then that means you are probably a kind, nice person, but you're not exactly fun to talk to.
>>84002810you sound like a very boring, shallow and obnoxious person. kys faggot
>>84002554its okay to be alone anon, dont feel lieke you have to be obligated to talk to peoplemaybe set some goals for yourself and try to do that instead of seeking validation through othersvalidate yourself(i dont have friends anymore...not for a long time)luv you anon
>>84003029i have friends that like me already, i don't need your approval :)
>>84003041you have vapid shallow freaks like yourself that only care about how "interesting" you can be. you're like a performing ape. sad
>>84003058am i supposed to be hurt by your words or anything? do you need attention?
>>84003084you keep replying instead of closing the tab so it looks like you need the validation
>>84003108>no udude, you suck at both trolling and baiting, just give up
>>84003124>still replyingoof touched a nerve huh
>>84003134i don't mind giving the poor some food
>>84002554It's hard to actually find a long-term friend so it's just life that people grow apart or talk less.If someone doesn't initiate conversations with you anymore, you just have to let go, trying to save that friendship only makes everything worse.Sometimes they may actually dislike you though, but if they won't tell you then there's no point in losing sleep over it in the present, you also have to simply let go.
