The most blackpilling thing of all is that if you werent gonna make it you are never going to make it. Only the people who can make it make it. Even take non incel things for example. You were never going to be tom brady. Tom brady was always going to be tom brady. Its all genetics, even down to the mental. It never even fucking began.
You are who you are from mid-late adolescence until you die.If you don't want to be shitty you need a huge support system of parents, family, money, education, peers, rivals, romantic partners, etc. If you didn't get those things in childhood, you're shitty until the end. Even if you have all that, bad genes can make sure you never succeed or just become an addict.