honestly, how do i get rid of my sexual desire? It feels like a hassle genuinely and i'm a degenerate. if i went to a therapist they'd just tell me "ur not hurting anyone so it's fine" but it's not fine
SSRIs+aging+try to become obsessed with a hobby. Works every lifetime.
>>84006870What's wrong with being a degenerate
>>84006870You can't get rid of it, but you can learn to control it. Are you hoping to stop masturbating or to stop having lustful thoughts? Semen retention has helped me with both. I haven't ejaculated in 235 days
>>84006870date someone that fulfills your desire. why get rid of what is a core part of you?
>>84006891I'm a girl, but i just tell people i'm asexual even though it isn't true because i'm nervous>>84006888I want to be normal i hate myself and feel disgusting
>>84006870what kinds of fucked up fetishes do you have
>>84006894it's isolating to be deviant and i don't like people making fun of me lol
>>84006895Nervous about what? Let me guess, you have the typical "I wanna get raped and degraded" fetish cluster and it clashes with your self-esteem when you're not horny.
>>84006905not at all that's pretty normal. if that were it i wouldn't care.>>84006896what would telling you do?
>>84006870jesus literally says in the bible to cut off your dick and gouge out your eyes if you can't get rid of them so get to work faggot
>>84006895>I'm a girlIt's more about not indulging in porn, masturbation, orgasm, and casual sex. Semen retention is just the popular term because it's basically only men doing it, but it can help women just as much. I suppose celibacy would be an appropriate term as well?
>>84006912Well if it's something genuinely extreme I don't know what to do with that, but you have my sympathy. But I think just being rid of whatever you find degenerate would be a lot easier than extinguishing your libido entirely.
>>84006912Well at least your fetish isn't as boring as that. Without knowing what it is, it's hard to understand what bothers you about it so much. Is it a fetish that can actually happen in real life, or is it some extremely specific thing that can only happen in the imagination? Is it disgusting and gross, or does the taboo nature of it make you too ashamed?
>>84006936i don't really think that's possible though, right? sexual attraction is set in stone, isn't it? that's literally why gay conversion therapy reportedly doesn't work
>>84006870Lexapro brother
>>84006946it can happen irl but it's taboo-ish, social stigma (no, not pedophilia or zoophilia).i feel bad because i'm just venting. I haven't acted on any desires yet and probably won't. i do find it cruel i was made to be this way, but i keep it to myself.
>>84006953>gay conversion therapy reportedly doesn't workFag propaganda, they're afraid of the fact that it can work. Nothing about human psychology is immutable, certainly not something as minor as fetishes, which people gain and lose all the time.
>>84006954i should probably just get on SSRIs somehow yeah.
>>84006963Nooo anon they're #bornthisway yaaas
>>84006960If it's not pedophilia or zoophilia, you're heavily overestimating how socially stigmatized it is in 2026.Anyway just take SSRIs and avoid erotic stimuli. Masturbate to relieve stress only.
>>84006999They use that argument when they feel threatened, but it's so obviously learned behavior because guys do become gay and stop being gay.
>>84007053It's interesting to me when progressives say a lot of attraction is socialized and FAKE except for being gay, somehow. I am not homophobic and get along with gay men or whatever i'm just intrigued by the logic there
>>84007074It's the same nonsense used to justify troonery. Gender (and even sex) are fake and totally artificial, but at the same time some men are hardcoded with a "woman brain."
>>84007098AFAB and AMAB are some of the most ridiculous terms of all time.
