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>>84009956
I don't get it. Why can't you jerk off around her if she's not taking care of it for you? What kind of health problems are/is you/she having that makes sex impossible? Why can't she at least jerk you off while you suck her tit or something else intimate that isn't full on sex?

>>84010375
I don't like jerking off if people are going to know I'm jerking off, I can't even get it up. Sometimes I'll do it very late at night if I know she's asleep but I can't stay up until 2am to wank on a weeknight. I don't know why she won't do it for me I never asked and she never offered.
The health problems were headaches, a vaginal biopsy, antibiotics messing with her birth control, hives, the pharmacy messing up her birth control, her birth control needing to time start working again, etc.

I've told her if she no longer finds me sexually attractive that's fine let's figure something out but whenever the topic gets brought up it always results in a lot of crying and telling me I'm wrong and so on

>>84010641
1) you should leave her because you are unhappy
2) if she cared about you she'd find other ways to please you

>>84010641
Good lord she sounds like a hot mess
Break up with her and find someone that the medical industry hasn't raped

>>84009956
I've only had one girlfriend and I experienced with her essentially the same thing. She was religious so no sex before marriage (not even kissing). It's retardedly frustrating and I began to hate it so much. It feels like constant rejection. We ended up breaking up because her family convinced her that she had to be with a muslim man and I'm not converting to that mentally retarded religion (also she was bpd which was pissing me off).

>>84010641
She doesn't wanna fuck you take a hint genius. Probably getting railed by some other guy on the side too. God men are so stupid

>>84010641
Tell her you don't care about her birth control, you're going to fuck her anyway, and if she doesn't want a kid she better learn to take a pill once a day correctly.
...is what I'd say if this weren't bait

>>84009956
I think picrel is a lie.

My gf broke up with me like a year ago and for a long while I thought I was missing out on stability in my life due to sexual frustration. However a couple months ago I started to have sex casually and it changed nothing (I dont want to gaslight anyone, obviously sex feels great, but it's akin to eating a good meal or smoking a cigarette - good in the moment, forgotten by tomorrow). So now I'm volceling again, I jerk off twice a week or so and ignore sex, there's literally no difference in my mental state between sex and jerking off. I understand if not getting laid is something you see as a personal fault due to looks or autism, it's a different situation of course

>>84010688
>muslim
>bpd
Next time you'll make a post complaining about how unpleasant it feels to jerk off with a cheese grater

>>84010641
she sounds mentally ill as hell

>conveniently means we can't have sex for half a month or so
Bait, no man in 2026 would accept a sexless relationship, it's just not in the zeitgeist anymore, it's an old people thing. Low information males don't exist anymore and every single one of them would bail from such an arrangement.

There's just no possibility that this isn't some weird r/deadbedrooms troon bait.

>>84010755
everything on the fucking board is bait.

>>84010693
Yeah that's what I think even though she swears up and down it's not the case. Why doesn't she just fuck off and move on then? She rushes home and doesn't go anywhere else but work so the only place she could cheat would be there, where everyone is gay or a woman. We also have an open phone policy and she's always yapping about getting married and told her family she wants to get married.
She gets upset whenever girls smile at me too long and stuff so she should know I'm not too ugly for her.

>>84010755
It's not a sexless relationship, it just involves no sex for extended periods of time for reasons
But yeah every time it's been brought up it resulted in crying but if this is what it's like when we're still dating I'm not going to marry into a fucking dead bedroom

>>84010641
I don't know why you and other normies I've talked to put up with shit like this. Like, women demand so much investment in terms of time, effort and money that I can't imagine dealing with such bullshit in return. I'd jack off with her in the house and if she gets pissy about it, I'd probably get abusive and start planning my exit. If there's one thing I've learned from being exposed to normies, it's that it's 1000x better to be single with your freedom, peace and money than to be in a mediocre/shit relationship with a woman who gets headaches when sex is brought up. Women like your gf deserve to be femcels, yet there's always some loser willing to put up with this crap. You are contributing to hoeflation and ensuring that absolutely shit women have no reason to ever improve themselves.

>>84009956
Imagine having a ''gf'' but you're just worse off then some loser who's alone. That's even worse. rofl

>>84010641
god just fucking dump her. it's obvious she doesn't care.

>>84009956
why havent you dumped her?
bro, if you arent getting sex from her shes just taking money from you that could be put towards a woman who will have sex with you

there are tons of women who want your money, just leave this bitch.

plus, women are ALWAYS having sex. if she isnt fucking you, she is fucking someone else.

She sounds manipulative af like she knows all she has to do is turn on the waterworks and you'll back off and even feel bad about trying to get whatever you were trying to get out of the relationship.

She sounds kinda toxic desu. I'd even tell her so and be like "what are you gonna start crying again bc you know that'll get me to back off? Why are you even wasting my time with this shit?" See if she doesn't become abusive at that point bc you just took away her cru-card.