Step 1:Befriend womanStep 2:Build a connection Step 3:Ask her out on a date. React accordingly Step 4: If she agrees, take her out, have a good time Step 5: ???Where the fuck do you go from here? What if she's not feeling it?
>>84017436thats the problem you arent supposed to be friends with them first like if you want to romantically pursue a woman make that shit clear to her asap like ideally first maybe 2nd meeting ask her out otherwise you'll just fall into a friend zone
>>84017486And I can do this with any girl? Seriously?
>>84017519this is what girls want you to do retard just start from step 3ask out a girlif she agrees take her out if she doesnt say np wish her well be on your waylike ill give you a scenario you start a new class in uni and you sit next to a girl now instead of slowing building a friendship over weeks with her and asking her out just ask her after the first class or 2nd class together if she would like to have coffee or idk some small date after the class almost every girl prefers this
How do I achieve step 2
>>84017532Im a 23 year old khv and a hugr social retard, I only interacted with women on dating apps and in real life sparingly but thank for the tip anon I appreciate it.
>>84017551do this on dating apps too btw like if youre on hinge some guys tend to talk to a match for like a week or two before setting up a date never do this make sure you setup a date for that week a day or two after you match and be direct too like dont ask her do you want to go on a date ask her like are you free on x day at y time i could take you to this z spot
>>84017537youre supposed to build a connection after the first date obviously there are some exceptions like my best friend irl was best friends with this girl for 2 years in uni before he asked her out and in this case the girl had a crush on him too so it worked out but irl these cases are rare asl usually you ask out a girl whos like a classmate but not a friend and then you build a connection
>>84017555Okay one morr thing bro should I get my body in shape before I pursue women? Im skinny fat, like around 210, 6 foot, I have a car and a job so money and transportation is no issue.
>>84017579brother no like obviously a good body will be a positive but you dont need to look like brad pitt before you start dating i mean just the fact that youre 6 foot is good youre like 4 inches taller than me and you got a car and a job too so you should be good just start gym rn simultaneously you dont need to "finish gym" before you move to dating women
>>84017486This. I do NOT want to "be friends" with a guy first. I want to be courted then decide if I like him during the dating process. Men that want to be friends first are just cowards that want to use sunk cost fallacy, guilt, and weird op-gathering to pressure a woman into dating him.
>>84017555This is amazing advice and actually used to be the standard (asking a woman out with specific plans not just "do you wanna go out). Asking her out with a nice date idea is your side of the arrangement, hers is deciding how far she wants to take it
>>84017436I deserve a white washed latina but they only want white guys
>>84017436Step 1: don't be a loserFtfy
>>84017599Naw that's part of the problemFriends to lovers and mature communication is where it's at because even if it's not romantic you still can help each other out in life as far as getting a guy's input and meeting peopleAlso as you get to know someone and decide whether there is a spark or not a friendship can blossom too
