how does one acquire connections
I think the new york times website has that daily
>>84020136This. It's so hot.
>>84020092You have to be a kiss ass and effectively lose all your dignity.Are you up for that OP?
>>84020092by talking to new people, learning if they're any good and then opening up
>>84020092>someone higherkiss ass>someone equalmeet up with them and spend time with them; brunch/lunch meetings, golf, whatever you guys do together>someone lowerwhy would you want this?
>>84020092i have speech impediments and social anxiety which inhibits me from doing so.
>>84020092you have to have a connection to make a connection. otherwise, god intended for you to have no connections atp and there's nothing you can do about it.https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Af-k9sTAYEQ
>>84020092wake up one day as a woman, the only people on this planet anyone care about. if you wake up tomorrow and still have a penis then kys
>>84020092one needs to put one end of the cable where one wants to connect to, and the other end of the cable where one wants to connect fromit sometimes doesn't work but you have to keep trying until you figure out somewhere that'll accept the connection
>>84020092you're born into it or you get hooked up during your early years. When you're out of education, it's over, you will never make a new friend.
>>84020092step 1 be outsidestep 2 be outside where other people are outsidestep 3 respond with more than haha yeah when they say something to you, ask what they want to doin my experience you basically have to be in a big walking city like nyc and it helps if you dress in an eye catching waybut it really depends what kind of connections you mean. if you mean like linkedin professional references, i havent the foggiest clue. be good at work i suppose and shake lots of hands.
>>84020866i just made a friend two weeks ago, a guy who'd been in the us two weeks asked me what the cereal boxes i was carrying were. we got to talking about lots of things just standing on the corner, and we've hung out twice now already. now i am 10 yrs older but he thought i was only 2 yrs older, and that matters a lot less out of school. but the commonality is, neither of us have standard jobs/careers so we have pretty open scehdules as long as we get work done sometime. ninetofives seem like they absolutely kill hanging out with their rigidity, unless youre friends with the people at your work. that seems nice but it seems weirdly rare in real life compared to tv.
