She tries contacting me every few monthsOk I message her and we talk for a little, next thing I know she blocks meWhy reach out to me if you were just going to do this hahaha, she still holds a grudge against me or something
>>84153451They don't even understand themselves dude. Just stop entertaining it, seriously. Mine blocked me after dumbass episode and I just refuse to even talk to her again.You're not a punching bag for some mentally ill whore man
>>84153451Fuck em block them on everything
reel her back in then discard her when shes at her most limerent
>>84153458I try to stop entertaining it, but the bitch always messages me when I'm at my most vulnerable, like the hoe knows>>84153473Believe me, I've tried to reel her back in, but it's like an invisible force stops her from ever liking me at all>>84153464I have, she just messages me on a new acc
>>84153451Of course she hates you. You're ougi
>>84153513I'm not, leave me tf aloneHow schizo do u have to be to comment on every one of my threads
>>84153458This. They're completely detached from reality during a split and they'll project everything you're upset about them back on to you, to the point they'll forget the whole conversation and do what you're asking them not to all in the same sentence. They'll dodge any kind of accountability by any means, and when you back them into a corner with their own logic they'll go nuclear. As soon as they realize they have nobody, they try to lure you back in to repeat the cycle.I used to disagree with people for saying this but they are inhuman and they're only capable of damaging everybody they come in contact with.
kidnap her and lock her in your basement and then laugh that she can try to block/ghost you now
>>84153451>why is my bpd ex like thisHow can you call her an "ex" if your relationship was so shallow that you haven't even researched BPD?If you are asking "why" as in "Commiserate with me about my loved one being mentally ill." Okay. Yes, her behavior makes no sense even for the highly irrational modern human (more so modern woman).If you are genuinely asking "why" as in "For what reason would she do this?" The answer: BPD.Either......she was just testing if you'd still be there, not blocking her....she reached out to multiple "ex"/FPs and someone more interesting answered.......she remembered why she discarded you and got the ick. "I don't like him. That makes me feel bad."...she remembered idealizing you and doesn't want to go through that again. "I really liked him and it hurt, was embarrassing. That makes me feel bad."...she forgot she even blocked you because she's busy fucking her life, her roster, and her drug dealer - or just bed-rotting because no one cares about her (except you but you don't count)....or literally a dozen other things that are even less rational.Remember that BPD is all about trying to avoid "feeling bad" because "normal" negative emotions are like the apocalypse.
>>84154642>I used to disagree with people for saying this but they are inhuman and they're only capable of damaging everybody they come in contact with.DBT works/helps, but they have to do it. So we have to ask: Will they do it while you are selflessly absorbing their slings and arrows like a "good guy"? How much pain do you take on only to be cycled through?More BPD shit-shat here>>84149777
>>84153451>>84153527Why make a thread if you're not going to engage? Hope you're busy getting good texts from your beautiful princess demon.
>>84154710this needs to happen more why are more why are most of us incels pussies that wont kidnap and rape girls
>>84155803We dated for a yearI just never researched into it because I was honestly a bad person and whenever she did things that were considered BPD I'd just ghost her until she acted normal againI think it was probably the idealizing cause I was sorta a piece of shit
Yeah she came back for a few days, saying how she missed me and I'm the one she wants to stay with, then nothing. I wish she stayed away, I wish I didn't respond, now I'm back on the hook. I almost didn't because I felt scared when I saw the message I guess I should have trusted it
