i met a new online friend, and just when i was starting to get a bit attached, i was totally abandonedi should honestly just stop trying
>>84154582I've got used to it by now, I don't even cry about it anymore.
>>84154592it's just really upsetting because i thought this one was different. we shared the same hobby, and it's relatively rare for me to find someone into itugh
>>84154582Are you an bpdemon?
>>84154597Name the hobby
>>84154640no, if anything i am kind of the opposite (avoidant)that's why it's particularly upsetting to get thrown away like this>>84154649i like reading chinese fantasy webnovels
>>84154655>my roommate who I have a weird complicated relationship with caught me texting you and got jealouslol wat
>>84154665yeah, right?? it's really bizarre
>>84154655okay I actually feel bad for you now because almost everytime I have seen a post like this the op turned out to be a bpdemon and that (sometimes) blew up in my face.I hope you can find another cool friend, or a few :(
>>84154674it's okay, i know the type you mean, so it's understandable to be a bit paranoid about thati don't really want a lot of friends :( just one who has the same hobby as memaybe one day i will find one who is normal... but honestly sometimes having hope is just more depressing than not
>>84154582my only online friend abandoned me recentlythe situation was a bit different though, I was in love with him and probably too clingy
>>84154691It is always worth searching I think. but I am a dumbass that gets myself into bad e-friendships, so I am probably huffing a heavy dose of copium and hopium...>unrelatedcan you give me some webnovel recommendations? I like Chinese stuff, but never got into webnovels
>>84154711it's more just extra upsetting because normally i don't get so attached, but i really liked this one. i was getting along well with him and was probably going to end up quite attached after a whilebut i guess it's better for it to happen sooner rather than lateri like lord of the mysteries. that's like the all-time classic https://www.novelupdates.com/series/the-speedrun-manual-of-miss-witch/ is also good
>>84154582My only fren is online and he is married. We play games sometimes but I wish I had a wife to spend time with. I've added a couple ppl from here over the years but the conversations always die or they just ghost. I tell myself it's fine but if i was invested at all I always go a few months before even trying to add someone new or being able to try properly, so I guess it isn't fine.I tried /soc/ but ppl are too degen/crazy and not just "kinda weird".Most ppl seem to want many friends and i don't like being around many people.Keep trying, feel better and goodnight
>>84154718>it's more just extra upsetting because normally i don't get so attached, but i really liked this one. i was getting along well with him and was probably going to end up quite attached after a whileBeen through a few? I understand it though. I have gotten attached pretty quick with someone before, and they ghosted me and that messed me up for a week or two>i like lord of the mysteries. that's like the all-time classicThank you, I'll check it out!
>>84154752>Thank you, I'll check it out!Oh, and the other one too. Sorry didn't mean to be rude
>>84154655>i like reading chinese fantasy webnovelsAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHA GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE
>>84154752it's more like i don't have many/any friends. so i try to make them online a lot, and most of the time we don't end up being compatible. which is fine! it's normal, and part of why i don't get attached. i just really liked this one and he seemed really compatible with me. so i'm kind of upset >>84154758oh you're fine lol. you can read or not read it as you like! it's just a suggestion>>84154762i don't understand?
>>84154765>it's more like i don't have many/any friends. so i try to make them online a lot, and most of the time we don't end up being compatible. which is fine! it's normal, and part of why i don't get attached.Yeah, I get it then. I've tried quite a few times too. So many failures, so few successes :(
>>84154804sigh. i shouldn't dwell on it i guess. nothing good will come of it
>>84154814Yeah I guess, if you can control that. I never could. And good luck out there looking for someone
>>84154829oh, i definitely can'tbut i might as well try to cope i'm just really butthurt
>>84154834How do you cope? I never found a real good coping mechanism, just waited it out.
>>84154582I met an online friend and we got really close and then he moved away I was so sad, cried for days
>>84154963i don't, not reallyi guess making this thread to complain counts as coping>>84154965that is really sad :( i'm sorry to hear that anon
>>84154965are you a girl? if so then that sucks, if not then you shouldn't be relying on male companionship
>>84154988>complain counts as copingI miss having a person I can rely on, someone I can talk to every day and who accepts my affection.so far every attempt to emulate that kind of relationship failed spectacularly.
>>84154988>i don't, not reallyDamn.>i guess making this thread to complain counts as copingTalking is good I suppose.
>>84155006it's honestly just over for us i think>>84155010we were made just to suffer
>>84154992I mean yeah, I am? what's with the egregious double standards
>>84155024seems like it.Im sick of it.
>>84155024>we were made just to sufferwe will all make it out eventually... I hope
>>84154582It happens to me and many others to you are not alone people like us should make friends with eachother
>>84154597They're always the same
>>84155030>>84155187>>84155060;___; maybe i should just give up on trying to make friends...>>84155048i would like to think that, but it's hard to be optimistic
>>84155333its okay to vent, but not to give upgotta try even harder
>>84155333It sounds like you get obsessive, which turns most people off. But other BPDs love obssessive (me) You'll find your people
>>84155345uggghhhh it's hard not to give up though>>84155351i really don't think i got obsessive at all. if anything, he was the one getting obsessive. this is how he replied after i sent him a selfie. that's why it feels so bad to get dropped like this
The only good online friendships are the ones that turn into IRL friendships. Otherwise, people only care about themselves and your feelings never compute to them.
>>84155368you should drop a contact here to make new friends, you sound really cute
I wish I could enjoy being friends with fellow guys but all I yearn for is feminine companionship
>>84155378r9k has a lot of mean people so i would be a little scared to post it here
>>84155427you can make a throwaway email if you want
>>84155368and you thought that was attractive lol
>>84155368>some guys are drowning while others die of thirst I wish I could find a girl like this at some point that doesn't want to break contact
>>84155473no i guess i can just post my discord it's fine and not the end of the world"this.is.my.tag">>84155495not attractive so much as kind of silly/cute in a way? like it was so over the top that i laughed at it a bit
I want online friends but I don't use discord anymore. Sad that most people still use it. I was emailing back and forth with someone on here but the emails were getting so long that it turned into an hours-long chore just to respond, and I work so it took up all my free time. Wasn't ideal. Fluxer's cool but the lack of a mobile app right now sucks.
>>84154582Who? Was it someone you don't even know by name?
>>84155853The girls on here are all narcissists and bpdemons. They'll act like you're the perfect man for them, talk about having a future and kids with you, chat with you for hours and hours for a week or two and then just ghost. Or they'll just be purely friends, you'll be talking like normals for months, then one day they just ghost. It's fucking maddening. Good girls aren't posting on social media like this. It's probably easier to just meet a normie girl and get her into the same hobbies as yourself.
>>84155887what do you mean who? do you think you're gonna know him or something?
>>84154696stop being gayor stop being hypergamous
>>84156134No I am asking if OP knows the ''friend'' or just pretends to know that person.
>>84156005I have quite literally never met a girl like this, at least not that I have pursued for longer than a 15min chat. Seems like youre the problem and youre searching for them.
>>84156338Is that why I can meet girls on other websites and irl, and they don't behave this way? It's my fault that only /r9k/ girls ghost me, and not just a common behavior amongst fembots? Reeeaaally? Because I've personally never run into this behavior anywhere but here.
>>84156291noI'm not hypergamous at all
>>84156419Youve never run into a girl that ghosts you? Normies ghost even more than the girlfailures orbiting 4chan.
>>84156425how do you meet online friends ? I want an hypergamous foid to be too clingy with me
>>84156441I don't know, sometimes I add people that seem interesting.>I want an hypergamous foid to be too clingy with mehow?
>>84156427The normies have been the ones who stayed in my life the longest. Second are the non-4chan shut ins, who will remain friends for at least a year until things get complicated and you drift apart, but with clear communication about things ending. 4chan girls just ghost within a few months max, no sign of things being wrong, nothing. Just vanish.
>>84156454nigga I just want to breedit's that simple
>>84156803why are you people so weird and creepy like this
>>84156803and I just want bread. If I stay broke 1 more week I will kms
how do you even make internet friends anymore? is it even worth it? it's impossible for me to make irl friends (never had any) and I'm too shy to join and interact on discord servers, is it over?
>>84157822>>84156441im just as clueless as you are. my dc is ilmph. you can add me if you want
>>84157919what do you like?I'm not gonna add you just because
>>84155368As someone who is just visiting this board this kind of reply to a selfie is an instant turn off. Even if they are joking it's not the kind of message you spring on someone shortly after meeting. This shit is weird as fuck and not normal.
>>84157981yeah it's pretty weird i guess. i'm sort of just used to 4chan type responses
>>84157822I guess you just try to find something in common to keep talking regularly about and see how it goes.
