Any 30+ male anons here who are kissless, handholdless virgins? How are you coping/holding up? I'm 28 and have never kissed or held hands with a woman. I've been on a few first dates that led nowhere and I've had sex once with an escort, so I might as well be considered a virgin.
Good on you for going on some dates. I just shut down in any social situation so i really cant even attempt that. Plus i aint got anything to talk about with another person
>>84155602>I've had sex once with an escortReminder to all 25+ femanons reading that almost every one of your potential Nigels has done this
>>84155602You're not a virgin and don't deserve a virgin woman freak
>>84155651Wouldn't have done it if I could get a gf the normal way. I actually did it only last year, after 27 years of making the most out of the cards I've been dealt.>>84155659>don't deserve a virgin woman freakNever said I do, faggot.
>>84155685You're being deceptive by coping and saying you're "basically a virgin." Your excuses don't matter, you have no self control and deserve to die alone.
>>84155602Not a virgin because I'm not a woman, but it's kind of my own fault as I blew it when I was much much younger.
>>84155659>>84155695Go away retardProbably a christcuck>>84155696What did you mean by this?
>>8415560228 yo here. Never had a girlfriend, never had any contact with a woman (neither sex nor hand holding). I gave up long time ago. I realized I won't get anywhere because I'm 4/10 looks wise and because I'm not really rich nor charismatic. I realized that women only want winners and are hypergamous, so I'm never getting a partner unless it's some fucked out roastie who is coping about missing out on her prime years.
>>84155759I think the trap is that once you get older you become incapable of seeing women for what they are, and there is very little reason to fuck them if they have a lack of desire for you, especially compared to previous partners. Masturbation is superior on a purely physical level, sex without connection or intimacy is pointless, but women are shallow and fast to move on. Ultimately the majority of relationhips are a temporary shared delusion.
>>84155719>what did you mean by this? By what? Be more specific.
33.Perma virgin for life with a good job, but I waste all my money on dumb tech shit.Been a heavy drinker for almost 10 years so there's probably no happy ending for me in the long run with the damage I've done to myself.
>>84155602It was hard for me in my 30s, but now I just don't care about anything any more and just coast through life waiting for death.
>>84155602Soon to be 36It used to bother me, but with time less so. It's a permanent weight on my shoulders, but I hardly think about it anymore, just used to it by now
>>84155639I'm sorry to hear that, anon. Lately, I have found myself shutting down too in group settings. Most of my HS friends and acquaintances in my circle have gfs and wives and are on a different stage of their lives than me, so I barely have anything to talk about with them anymore, sadly. I was the best man for a close friend of mine recently, so I guess there is at least one person (other than my family) who sees value in me. And I can still talk about lots of stuff with him, but in group settings, most of the guys and their gfs/wives talk about apartments, houses, rennovations and shit I don't really care about at this point in my life (no woman to build a nest with). I really want to make a family of my own, but that is unlikely to happen, seeing that I'm ugly, short, weird and somewhat asocial.>>84155759>I realized that women only want winners and are hypergamousFacts, not all, but 95% of them are like that.>so I'm never getting a partner unless it's some fucked out roastie who is coping about missing out on her prime years.Honestly, fucking hot escorts is better than dating a blown out 30+ year old whore.>>84155816Hey anon, I'm in tech too (Mechanical engineering). What kind of tech shit do you buy?And please, anon, find the strength within you to quit drinking. You're better than that.>>84155835>>84155850Grim, anons. But yeah, that's more or less how I feel. It's like a permanent weight on my shoulders, feeling like an abnormal freak.
>>84155602>so I might as well be considered a virginStolen valor, ywnbaw (you will never be a wizard)
Pretty much all of my high school classmates were sexually active by 2018: some were married as early as 2023. I prefer to paint pictures. I need money to buy another 30 yards of canvas
