I've noticed guys with visible autism do not acknowledge my existence either. Ive encountered two guys who were clearly autistic, and one of them ignored me and ogled at Stacy the whole time and the other well, I had to say hi to him first for him to say hi to me but he didn't even get to try to know me. when we were supposed to say our goodbyes he just stared at me without saying anything. I know I'm ugly but it's just blackpilling to know that autistic men are no different from men in general. All men are Stacy obsessed.
>>84160192Maybe you should commit suicide then
>>84160192>visible autism???
>>84160192>inb4 date me or idc!!!I'm sorry you went through that but you clearly know nothing about autism if you're calling him out on just staring at you and forgetting to say goodbye. He was probably calculating whether or not he'd ever see you again and if he did then in what context would it be? Should he say goodbye with a wave or should he say see ya later. On second thought the latter sounds cringe and i can't pull- oh she's already left.
>>84160192I don't know nona, I'll be honest, I (probably) have ADHD and BPD and managed to find a partner thanks to /soc/, and I'm a fattie who likes staying at home, cooking, and likes spending time with my family and friends, and my partner's into the same stuff I am, I just... Looked for someone who's available to date, and ended up finding someone amazing.And keep in mind I'm a fatass, assigned female at birth woman, and I'm not a virgin. My partner isn't a virgin either, he's 28 and I'm 23. It can happen, I managed to meet some amazing people thanks to this website, but you gotta filter through a LOT of people to get to the good stuff. Like in all things in life, honestly.
>>84160192>femceIKEEEKAROO
>>84160232hampter!!! omg he squish
>>84160192Ugly girls try harder so I want the ugliest girl there is. I will not try at all. She works for money and comes home and works my dick for cum. What's the point of a pretty girl if I've got to work for it?
>>84160223It really is amazing how much easier dating is for womenI'm a male fatass who's ten years older than you but a virgin
>>84160192I largely ignore everyone irl because of autistic tendences. I'm also scared of Stacies because I know they just want to ridicule me.
Why dont ugly women just wear make-up? 95% of women look very plain without it in current year for obvious reasons.
>>84160259I can't disagree sadly, I mean... There's more women than men on this planet, statistically it's likely a lot are going to end up single. I'm really sorry you're going through it, anon. My partner used to visit r9k a lot but is leaving 4chan behind for lent, and he tends to tell me how hard it is for men in the west to get a decent date.I personally lost my virginity with someone who was a virgin too, and I know it's hard for men, but... Don't focus too much on if your partner's a virgin or not. Sometimes I repent a bit losing my virginity, but my partner's got a higher body count than me. It's not a bad thing to have too much or too little experience.Just take care of not getting an STD. Always use protection of some kind, for pregnancy and STDs.>>84160273I don't know, I sometimes wear makeup for fun, I don't think I'm like... Ugly, just... fat. And a lot of people will see me as inferior or disgusting just for being fat. I'm thankful my partner's into it, and my partner's lucky I don't mind him being a bit overweight and having a receding hairline, hahah. I find it cute to be honest.
>>84160192They probably thought you were trying to trick then. Understand that men, especially autist men, are suspicious of women trying to interact with them.
>>84160232This hampster is literally being murderedHis skull is being crushed and his brain is being turned into mush
>>84160223>I managed to meet some amazing people thanks to this websiteLiterally how the fuck. What are the odds a person you meet here and happen to vibe with lives anywhere near you in this big wide world??
>>84160323The notion of the concept of "femcel" is so ridiculous it can't take it anymore
>>84160337Oh, the issue is I'm quite far away from everyone, I'm from South America and I've got some friends from my home country (Argentina), I've got some friends from Central America, friends from Europe, and I got a lot of online friendships. But my partner and I managed to find a way to see eachother. That's the good thing of having money, hahah!He's REALLY far away though, and he'll be staying a month in my country, and who knows, I might be able to go live with him if everything goes well. I want to be able to work too if I live with him in another country.
>>84160354>But my partner and I managed to find a way to see eachother.How long did that take? I'm quite far away from anybody too and i've creeped people out by asking too soon i guess.
>>84160365We've known eachother for like half a year, and decided to date 2 months after getting to know eachother. I'm honestly baffled he wants to come to my home country, but, seeing as he's getting older and wants a family, and I'm also excited to see him, he said "Aight, I'll go there, meet you, and see how it goes".I honestly think it's WAY easier for americans maybe to find eachother on soc, or europeans, but I can at least say you *CAN* find someone alike to you, with your same morals and needs, even in a shithole like 4chan.
>>84160375>We've known eachother for like half a year, and decided to date 2 months after getting to know eachother.I guess i'm not made for this online stuff. I can't seem to keep anyone around for two weeks nevermind two month.I'm glad you found each other.
>>84160354ok that makes sense, I'm just fundamentally a cautious person so I'd hesitate doing some long distance thing unless I really made a connection with the girl since I am a guy. I guess im in the wrong thread lol but I am just so so lonely.
>>84160192Femcels aren't real. If they were real, I wouldn't be single. But none of you femcels will ever settle for me. This is because you just want chads. You have options and just refuse to take them, and then say the lie of "actually men are Stacy only" to deflect from you being Chad only
>>84160393Thank you anon, and hey, don't give up hope! I will... Definitely say both me and my partner are fucking insane for this, but- I literally never felt a connection so strong to someone, the only time I felt a connection like that was with a previous partner, but it wasn't THIS intense. Like, we just... Clicked. Like it was meant to be.And I absolutely believe anyone can find this type of love if they're humble, and understand that their partner has needs, wants, flaws, and are human. Not idolizing them.I don't think my partner's perfect even though I adore him, and he definitely knows how to pick me apart too kek. I probably have BPD so it's hard when I feel like shit, and he's been cheated on before. So there's a lot of fear in between. But you just gotta grind your teeth through it and look for someone that's right for you, there's like 2 billion people in the world.>>84160397It can be really hard having a long distance relationship, specially with someone you like a lot. So I'd try to look for people in your same area, and I'd look for hobbies, things you'd like your partner to do too. Book clubs, sports, internet stuff, fandoms, discord servers, hell, even in doujinshi translation discord servers it's got a lot of women. And I mean AFAB women. No diss to trans girls, but I know a lot of men here would look for biological women.
>>84160192Im also a femcel and I've tried talking to autists but they've always been so fucked up. Autistic men are literally sociopaths but with lower IQs KEK. I also fell for the meme that autists would be easier to date since they are obviously retarded and no women would want them but nope, they have higher standards actually. I still want an autistic bf though since I hate normies.
I will absolutely say women have some fucking HIGH standards for men sometimes, like having a lot of money, being really tall, being sexually active, I mean... If you want a chad thundercock you better be a stacy gigaslut who looks like Megan Thee Stallion, frfr. But there's smart women who know that looks fade. And that there's beauty to normalcy, to just being average, and that's okay. I don't need to be Megan Fox to make someone like me for who I am.
>>84160432What are the things that have put you off? What would you like your bf to be like?
>>84160432As an autistic man i would never date you because of your retarded view of autism. What you mistake for sociopathy isn't and i don't care to explain it further because it's probably based on prior experience with a sociopath larping as an autist, you do know they do that right?
>>84160432You only want autistic Chad and would never settle for incels. Fuck your bullshit standards, you horrid pig.
Any fembots wanna be friends on Discord? I don't care if you're ugly or whatever, I just want a friend I can relate to and that might be interested in a relationship later on if things go well
Any fembots wanna sext on Discord? I care if you're ugly or whatever, I just want pretty nudes I can fap to and that might be usable later for more fapping if I get horny again
>>84160450Everyone know that you autists dont even know what empathy is or basic human fucking relations. Ive interacted with clearly autistic people had had no reason to larp, and they are just so fucking rude because they dont understand social cues or whats appropriate to say in conversation. They are basically like apes that haven't evolved socially. Why do you think so many school shooters are aspie. >>84160446Just blatant rudeness and being unaware of it. The inability to understand that the world doesn't revolved around them>What would you like your bf to be like?a qt autist thats nice and has the same interests as me
>>84160223being fat doesn't matter if you don't look ugly. women naturally have more subcutaneous fat. despite all the larping it's better for a woman to be nicely fat/chubby than have a normal weight and ugly
Any fembots wanna get groomed on Discord? I care if you're not underage or whatever. I just want a loli I can groom and that might be interested in getting broken in by a group of pedophiles if things go well.
>>84160192Asperger's are fixated on Stacy. Fucking stacysexuals
>>84160486I'm not the greatest socially so I might be rude sometimes but I'm not sure. I'm not qt though so I guess it doesn't matter.
>>84160486>Everyone knowI don't accept appeals to popularity.>Ive interactedI don't accept anecdotes.I will argue against the following, with my own fallacy to show you how retarded and bigoted you are.>Why do you think so many school shooters are aspie. >Why do you think so many school shooters are trans.If you want to have a legitimate conversation without logical fallacies we can do that. I've already made my case that you only interact with sociopaths and have no idea what autism is.
>>84160486What are your interests and were you born with a vagina?
>>84160524Honestly my biggest pet peeve when dating neurodivergent people is the fact that they can't handle commitment sometimes, or lose interest after some time goes by. And I have ADHD, imagine. I don't get mad if people want to leave but... I hope my partner stays forever, y'know?
>>84160423>look for people in your same area, and I'd look for hobbiesI guess ill have to wait for the next comic con which i never go to and wear a Ruri Rocks T-shirt to see if I find any retards willing to go look for minerals in the local rivers with me... A long shot XD
>>84160540>I hope my partner stays forever, y'know?What I wouldn't give for someone who's committed even when there are dips and things aren't ideal.
>>84160192Fuck off faggot ugly cunts like you treat me worse because I'm not visibly ultra autistic and because I'm brown You should take the advice of the first response to this thread
>>84160544Dude, this is kind of unrelated but I'm THE BIGGEST (well, idk, maybe some japanese people or programmers can defeat me) Earthbound nerd, if I saw anyone in a con wearing a Ness or Lucas or anything earthbound related I'd go bollocks. That's why I say that doing things that you like can end up landing you with someone just like you, that's literally how I met most of my partners. (Many were online, but only 2 managed to be IRL)>>84160549I'm terrified of fucking things up or making my partner leave me, but he said the only thing that'd turn him away is if I cheated on him, and HELL fucking no. If I'm committed to someone I don't even want to imagine laying with anyone else.And if I didn't feel like I still loved my partner, I'd rather be upfront about it. I don't know if I'm dumb but I like saying things straight up.
>>84160540>the fact that they can't handle commitment sometimes, or lose interest after some time goes by. And I have ADHDI can say as a guy with ADHD you are very right, I have always had issues with committing to things and losing interest but I can also be very loyal to people and it hurts when its not reciprocated. So Idk maybe your partner wont necessarily leave you?
>>84160540>when dating neurodivergent people is the fact that they can't handle commitment sometimesI can't relate and don't understand why your post is a reply to mine. I have never been offered the choice of commitment so I can't claim to be any better or worse with commitment as it is untested. I am too boring to keep others' interest. I hope you find your whoever forever.
>>84160572>And if I didn't feel like I still loved my partnerThis is the most terrifying one. How people say they can simply fall out of love.
>>84160580He's not exactly... I mean... We're both wondering if he might be autistic 'cause he's surrounded by autistic/adhd people, but he's only ever been close to being diagnosed with schizoid personality disorder by an actual doctor, but... He didn't make it???I'm kind of surprised that at my young age I seem to have had longer relationships than him, including one for four years (my longest), but Spanish women are... something. (notgoodfordating)>>84160586I'm sorry anon, I didn't want to generalize in the sense that "ALL neurodivergent folks have it hard to commit", rather, I found that personally after dating like 3 very neurodivergent men. I absolutely imagine that some neuro people can be faithful and loyal forever, and hope they can find just the same type of love.But it can be hard to focus on love when your mental health is slipping through your hands.>>84160592People can change. People can end up becoming victims of their demons, or shit happens, and you can't stay in places where you're only hurting yourself, or the other person.I had to break up one relationship 'cause his mother was being abusive to me and he didn't stand up to me. I'm a bit sad still, but someone amazing came my way two years after, and here I am.
>>84160572>if I saw anyone in a con wearing a Ness or Lucas or anything earthbound related I'd go bollocksI'm not usually one to wear anime shirts but I guess It could help me meet someone likeminded. The biggest issue i have is that i have no friends so I cant go out and do the things I like alone. I mean I do go out sometimes but its exhausting always being alone the one random guy by himself. Mind you I'm not bad at talking to people and stuff but i guess I've just had terrible luck.
I honestly have no idea where you even meet non-normies.
>>84160629Dude, I had a jojo's shirt some years ago that was STRAIGHT FIRE, I went everywhere with it, but... now it has some holes in the armpits... I'm devastated frfr.I get you, honestly depending on your region you can find more or less likeminded people. I've found that americans and europeans are very... Internet-savvy, and know at least a bit about 4chan or meme culture. And online game communities, specially adult-oriented ones (no, not porn, but rather mature themes and dark stuff) are good to meet people in.The Yume Nikki Online community is cool as fuck for example. >>84160651Internet, mostly. At least in my experience, soc and int have helped me a lot finding some cool ass people.
>>84160672>I had a jojo's shirt some years ago that was STRAIGHT FIREOh man I do Love Jojo's id bet thanks to Araki's fashion flair there's some great looking shirts
>>84160672>Soc userWomen literally just can't be normal people. They have to constantly be meeting new people because they're able to
>>84160192I drove 3 hours to have sex with a guy and he came before putting itI lose once again
I'm definitely a weird woman, and I like weird men. However, they never like me back or enough for a relationship. Why is that? Do men not like eager women?
>>84160735It was a shirt of Jotaro doing the finger pointing pose, it was peak fr. Honestly I'll be for real with you my nigga, you have to withstand women being a lil' bit ugly and femcel looking if you want them to be otakus or gamers or be non-normies. Just as how some women gotta understand not all men can be 1.80 plus, 20 cm dick gigachads with millions to blow out. Money is great, yeah, but making your own money is important too.>>84160743Honestly I don't use soc that much nowadays, I found who I needed to find. I just like posting in normal threads to talk when I'm bored now, out of soc.
>>84160192the second guy you mention probably just has bad social skills and is afraid of women.t. bad social skill haver and afraid of women
>>84160743>implying you wouldn't if you couldThis board is full of the pettiest jealousy, a jealousy ignorant of itself and it's repulsiveness. I seem immune to blackpills but the blackpill that i share such a place with the likes of you and that others may view me as the same is super effective.>>84160752He couldn't summon the stamina to try again? Or did you not give him the chance...
>>84160759Lower your standards for looks
>>84160759Men often suspect eager women, there is no way around this. The ones on this board are most suspicious and their desire for safety also traps them.Was it called porcupine theory?
>>84160783I came in the bathroom and just drove home
>>84160797It seems a waste to drive so long and not try again but the toothpaste has already left the tube.
>>84160790I only talk to people online and most of the time I don't even know what they look like or even have a physical description>>84160792What is suspicious about eager women exactly?
>>84160802he tried but couldn't get hard again
>>84160803>What is suspicious about eager women exactly?Imagine a billionaire offers you a million for nothing. Are you not suspicious that he thinks he is secretly buying something from you?It is like that.
>>84160816Perhaps masturbating and cumming in front of him would have helped but i have never had sex so i wouldn't know.
>>84160819I'm not offering anything but my attention and wanting to get closer to see if a relationship would work though. What is suspicious about that?
>>84160828>I'm not offering anything but my attentionYour attention is like water in a desert. Do you really struggle with my analogy? I will retry.>A drug dealer offers you a free hit of non-addictive crack
>>84160845So what should I do then? Be aloof? Idk I feel like the right person would be receptive to just how I am
>>84160849>So what should I do then? Be aloof?No. Persevere unless you think it is harmful to you or being mistaken by the person.>Idk I feel like the right person would be receptive to just how I amTrue. This is what i said in the first place. The anons here are suspicious with good cause but their suspicion is debilitating. It is their issue, not yours.
>>84160803if youre actually a woman, then it might be the way you are writing. you kind of write like a guy and its sort of dry. I dont know how you would fix that though. Like i dont mean you need to add dumb shit like teehee and dumb smiley faces, you just dont write like a typical woman. Not trying to be a dick or anything just saying what i see
>>84160856Thanks anon>>84160866This is not the first time I've been told that. When I was a teenager people actually assumed I was a lesbian just based on my typing style too for whatever reason
>>84160759Why don't they like you? A woman that's eager to like me sounds so nice. >>84160752He must have found you extremely pretty.
>>84160866And also yeah, my style in general is dry, including my sense of humor. Think Mike Stoklasa but a woman
>>84160879I was on his dick so it was already stimulation, rubbing it between my lips and his stomach
>>84160879From what this anon >>84160866 and other guys have told me, maybe in their mind I am too dude bro-y for anything romantic. BUMMER but I'm definitely not super feminine and I can't force that (I tried years ago, it was extremely uncomfortable)
>>84160881Based RLM knower
>>84160878i really dont know how to fix the writing thing, people kind of develop their own writing style and it doesnt seem to change. Its like a voice, you cant really change your voice and everyone has a unique one. some people are better writers some are better talkers too so you might be a better talker. Im the complete opposite i am complete ass at talking and i hate my voice
>>84160884That still says he must have found you really hot to lose after that little stimulation. >>84160892Is it that an actual thing people complain about? It sounds fairly nice to me.
>>84160904I'm not sure this is true. You change your writing to suit the context, same with accent and vocabulary. At least I do. I grew up around alot of slang. Being a bong and from the north everyone uses the word "cunt" to refer to a person. Any person. E.g everycunt, nocunt, somecunt, theycunts, etc. And as a teen I used it compulsively around friends but never in front of family or formal settings. I also slow my speech and put more effort into pronunciation.
>>84160896I never knew old people could be so hilarious>>84160904>>84160910Yeah, it's not really something I can fix, just something that may be somewhat offputting to men.
>>84160937>likes rlmwife material>insults mikei dont like you anymore
>>84160951>insults MikeWhat? He laughs at old people...
>>84160959he insults everybody thats why hes my spirit animal
>>84160937That's not off putting to me, do you have things that are an instant no for you?
>>84160972>instant noI don't like coomers, so I think a lot of men also lose interest when they realize I will never send them nudes. Someone who lacks intellect (i'm not asking for a genius, but I cannot deal with a retarded spirit), and people that lie to me. I'm tolerant of a lot of things otherwise
>>84160768>you have to withstand women being a lil' bit ugly and femcel looking if you want them to be otakus or gamers or be non-normiesHonestly it sucks for me to say it because I don't like being mean but the few disqualifying characteristics i got is a girl being fat (like fat fat not just kinda chubby) and having curly hair, not just wavy but like really curly idk something about it doesn't do it for me.
>>84160981Is there anywhere I could add you?
>>84160201If OP is an actual woman she probably wouldn't use a very effective method
>>84161001If you post your contact information I'll reach out. I think we should get your instant no's out of the way first though before that
>>84161020Are we talking about relationship wise or just friends? The latter doesn't have any hard no's. The former would be single mother or obese.
>>84161030Okay cool, we're in the clear. Just wanted to get that out of the way. What's your contact
>>84161035Different guy but I would mind talking to an eager fembot. I'm after people to chat yo more than anything. Drop me an email and we can share contact details: citadelwaterpot@proton.me
>>84160192>I had to say hi to him first for him to say hi to me but he didn't even get to try to know me. when we were supposed to say our goodbyes he just stared at me without saying anythingThis could be because he wasn't sure on what to say and wasn't used to girls giving him interest, I'm the same way.It does not mean he isn't interested in you at all. Unlike girls, guys don't try to constantly talk and say stuff if we are interested in you, we try to be a bit more covert about it.
>>84160192>talk to "ugly femcel" with "zero requirements">over time learn she actually has requirements>surprise! i don't meet them
>>84162461What were her requirements
>>84160995These are preferences my brother, and it's fine. I personally didn't like balding men but my partner is just so amazing I can overlook that. And looks are... I know they're important, I know, but- it just kinda stops being important when you just *feel* that connection with 'em.
>>84162461>>84162846I bet it was "having a job"
>>84163065Do you want me to have a job or be rich? Because due to circumstances i can't do both.
>>84161562I don't know anything about you, I had a rapport with the other anon and we discussed dealbreakers.
>>84161003>57 min and 95 agonyYep. Looks like I'm setting myself on fire
