whenever I truly fall in love I ignore all of my responsibilities. I go to sleep much later and stay on my phone all day hoping from a text from him. I need to get out of this loop. It hurts so much waiting for his text.
>>84161042That's called limerance, you fucking dumb idiot, and it's not love.
>>84161052fuck how do I stop feeling that
>>84161042https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5H2Dy_sNSdQ
>>84161059You grow-up and mature (note: this is impossible for a foid).
>>84161042Are you texting him during work hours and acting anxious about getting a response?
>>84161104yes I'm an anxious wreck
>>84161139You should text him more. Guys really like that. It shows you care about him.
I used to get so obsessed with people. Not sure what stage you're at but it helped me when I realized that there is nothing special about this person, take them off the pedestal; we're all future worm food. You can like someone and not obsess over them, its healthy
>>84161152fuck health. who cares about healthy attachment? we're dying, just like you say. let's obsess while we can.
>>84161156You should definitely text him more when you're anxious and fearful. That's healthy. Guys like girls who are like that. It shows him that he's special and makes him feel good.
>>84161192i'm not her, but yeah, i do find that flattering and endearing. i know because that's how it felt the time it happened to me. i've seen therapy-speaking "healthy" relationships being oh-so-reasonable, and honestly, i'd rather die.
>>84161148what if he thinks I'm too much and annoying
>>84161215anon's taking the piss, but you know him better than us. has he said that you are? yes, don't, no, could try it and see
