Why did getting fit not improve my dating life? Still ignored by women IRL, zero matches outside of bots onlineDid I do all this lifting for nothing?
>he though lifting for girls would work
>>84161211I was reading a thread on the fitness subreddit and everyone was talking about how much more girls found them attractive after lifting and I figured it'd be the same for me
>>84161226>believing everything you read on the internet
Being fit doesnt make up for personality flaws as a male who knew
>>84161175Women like tall guys with wide shoulders, a v taper, lean, and large veiny forearms. Muscles are a bonus i guess but women mostly like things that gyms dont always fix unless you already have them. So if you want to go to the gym i guess focus on delts and forearms. And be lean. Thats really all they want, all the big muscles stuff is for women with a big muscle fetish
I was taking my grandma somewhere once and an older lady said she was lucky to have a big strong guy to keep her safe. That's really the only comment I have gotten from someone who isnt family but I also dont leave the house almost ever
>>84161239This happens because gays are actually attracted to men, unlike "straight" women.
>>84161245>Being fit doesnt make up for personality flaws as a male who knewThis is some cunt gaslightingHere is the thing: women only care about looks, dick and money. Being "fit" i.e. having more muscle maximizes the potential of what you already have and that's itIt's fun being strong regardless, especially if you practice sports. Branch out, do new things and stop thinking in terms of what women want (gynocentric mindset)
>>84161270>He didn't fuck the old ladyWhat are you, gay?
>>84161226Lifting can't fix face.
>>84161281They only care about face and height. If you think money matters youre still bluepilled. Youre buying sex like a prostitute but they will never actually love or feel attracted to you
>>84161175Plenty of people out there are fit. You're ultimately nothing special.
>>84161175Lifting for women is gay. You should be lifting for yourself.
>>84161245>Being fit doesnt make up for personality flaws as a maleIt absolutely does if your only goal is getting laid.
Dating apps are a meme. The average woman swipes on 0.2% of guys she sees. Did you lift your way into the top 0.2%? You should lift because it makes you healthier, feel better, and improves your inner sense of self.
>>84161175>>84161226some women are into it.some women want the six packmost want the chiseled faceall want the heightall women want to fuckall want a guy who doesn't give a fuck what a woman wantsbut don't listen to me, I haven't had sex in 2 years.
>>84161245>Being shy is a personality problemMost honest foid.
>>84161281>women only care about looks, dick and moneyI wonder why you can't get laid, truly a mystery.
>>84161175The difference in falling for the redpill grift and reality. If you had studied what women find attractive, or better yet actually LISTENED to what women have been saying for decades you'd know it's face>hair>height with muscles beyond a surfer's lean physique being completely pointless. Shamefur dispray!
>>84161245Lying fuckung whore. Jeremy Meeks is a gangbanger murderer and he got a billionaire's heiress to pay his bail and marry him just from a single mugshot image. Look up his life history you lying femoid cunt
>>84163613>a few instances of psycho women falling for psycho guys>this means that every single woman on the entire planet is exactly like thatmight as well throw "all men rape" in there because it's the same fucking logic.
>>84163851Except 97% of rape cases are proven false accusations, whereas 100% of women go absolutely insane for a tall, handsome bad boy, you fucking retard.
Most guys online that complain about how getting in shape didn't help them still don't look like they lift. They either don't have an actual impressive physique, have a super chopped face, or are super short.Trust even if you're boring and awkward, if you have a legit 6 pack and have an amazing body, you'd be able to hook up
>>84163863>100% of women go absolutely insane for a tall, handsome bad boysource?
>>84163868Here's the copypasta for you, retard-kun:http://archive.is/ZGvcFArrogant and manipulative bullies have more sex, Brock U. study says>http://archive.is/e6p19What did Carter and his colleagues find? Women found the Dark Triad personality more attractive than the control. This result is in keeping with previous studies in which Dark Triad men reported their increased level of sexual success.>https://www.newsweek.com/study-finds-men-nice-women-not-other-way-around-261269Guys like nice girls, Women do not feel the same way about men>https://pdfs.semanticscholar.org/9c55/a8cae3c8a5d238002a261fec643f767d1126.pdf39% of psychopathic patients had a consensual sexual relationship with female staff members (Gacono et al., 1995)
>>84163868https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jeremy_Meeks#Modeling_careerGangbanger who killed a kid and left his wife and children with her to become an international superstar male model and get married to a billionaire's heiress and even then he willingly divorced her because he got bored of sticking to just one woman. He must just be misunderstood and a gentle soul at heart in the Crips. Teardrop tattoo is just a coincidence tooAlso foids keep sending fucking hundreds of love letters to serial killers and terrorists. Ted Bundy, Jeffery Dahmer (who was literally gay but still got nude images in his letters from female admirers), Richard Ramirez who married one of his numerous admirers, the Columbine Shooters who had Tumblr fan pages for years, the Chechen Boston bomber, and many many many more.https://www.womenshealthmag.com/health/a27397635/ted-bundy-hybristophilia-definition/
>>84163886>>84163946These studies were not done on 100% of all women though.
>>84161175Getting physically fit can improve your attractiveness. But it's not a cure. Remember, you can't lift away your genetics. A pretty face is still most important. A pretty face with a developed body is even better. Meanwhile a balding, poor eyesight, chud with a roided out body will still feel uncanny to women and give them the ick. A pretty boy with a more modestly muscular body will dominate.
>>84163973>These studies were not done on 100% of all women though.Tranny bait. You will never ever be a woman. Kill yourself now and spare us the shame. You know you want to kill yourself anyways why not do it now?https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2023/07/a-staggering-81-of-trans-adults-have-considered-suicide/>>84164079>Censors face>Didn't censor the reflectionKek
>>84163868Reddit tier cope
>>84164123>calling others trannies when he acts exactly like the women he claims to hatekek, never gets old.
>>84164079>Meanwhile a balding, poor eyesight, chud with a roided out body will still feel uncanny to women and give them the ick.Our societies are so shallow, it's sad. Women also have defects or unattractive traits, by the way>dominateDominate what? Women are never happy. Stop playing the gynocentric game
>>84164188No choice unless you're willing to be a volcel hermit and the overwhelming majority of people, even incels, are not cut out for that life. If debasing yourself and groveling like a dog is what it takes to get a crumb of pussy (Chad gets it with a few swipes and with infinitely more enthusiasm because he's genetically superior) then most normies will do that because they cannot fathom going without pussy.
>>84162134Women know this but they have to say it in order to make you feel bad.>>84162162yeah that's true
>>84161175Because it has no bearing on what women want. As crazy as that may sound. Women fuck anything if they feel like it. It has nothing to do with you.
>>84161175>>84164079Lifting doesn't make you much more attractive besides helping you lose weight, assuming you aren't "bulking".Women are attracted to low fat low cortisol men's faces and strong agile hunters who would have high protein from lean game meat and fish, not fattened farm animals soaked in seed oil for "mouth feel" and lathered in corn syrup BBQ sauce. You also have to be "confident", "chimpanzee" instinct. This does not necessarily mean having high social status or being richer, just giving off the right cues, women are repulsed by men who show signs of submission or get upset and turned on by men who seem unphased, women don't really care who wins just how it comes off.
Women have different things that they find attractive. Some like twinks, some like ottermode builds, and some like beefcakes. Its your job to find the girl that likes you accordingly.
>>84164274>what women want>if they feel like itDoesn't what they feel strongly influence what they want? It is not like they want random abstract objects, they gravitate towards certain men and sometimes go crazy and gush over them.
>>84164289>doesn't what they feel strongly influence what they want? Yes, but it's hormonal, so it comes and goes. One minute they like to be raped, the other they want to be cuddled. They're not creatures of reason, that's a man's job. It's why I see good looking chicks with ugly ass fucks all the time. It boggles the mind.
>>84164286>Women have different things that they find attractiveLol lmao
>>84164300Lol? What do you mean? Go outside and you see ugly motherfuckers with cute girls.
>>84164313You retards always say shit like this and then have nothing to back it up with. Yeah, go ahead and post a news story about the ugly fat guy with the attractive girl (btw he just won the lottery teehee). It's a news story because it's so rare
>>84164330You retards keep saying women ''only want chad'' yet as soon as I get into contact with the real world, all I see is fat ugly niggers with beautiful white girls. Like, where are all the chads? I don't see them. I NEVER see them. Ever. And it's not possible either because these ''chads'' only make up like 2% of the population or less.
>>84164436>all I see is fat ugly niggers with beautiful white girlsOh, you're racebaiting, you should've said so in the first place so I could disregard you
>>84164443I'm not even the same anon, dumbass. Your worldview isn't just stupid, it's a statistical impossiblity. lol
How fit are you for real though? What bodyfat percentage?
>>84164293>>84164313>>84164436>brooo i keep seeing ugly men with gfsI dont understand that. I have been to all kind of events and places and the only people i see with wives and gfs are attractive or visibly rich
>>84164233Sadly it is our burden as men to adapt and be satisfied with loneliness>genetically superiorI find this mindset dehumanizing. Superior to what end? We're no longer in prehistoric times where physical strength is the only thing that matters. Ironically, women focused on "eugenics" don't realize that it's mainly women that pass off these "undesirable" traits, since they face little to no selection pressure
>>84164079Unironically that dude would be OK if he could grow a beard.
>>84164881It is not inherently sad it's just reality. We will all die and turn to dust, sub5s are cooked, the sun will rise tomorrow, etc.>Superior to what end? Superior to 95% of the male population which appeals to female hypergamy>We're no longer in prehistoric times where physical strength is the only thing that mattersNo we're in modern times where hypergamy is completely unfettered by material considerations like paternal provisions because the state just extorts men for money or brings over brown slaves to get women enough gibs for anything so only raw attractiveness matters. And the instincts that evolved to make female clitties tingle evolved during prehistory, so tough luck.>Ironically, women focused on "eugenics" don't realize that it's mainly women that pass off these "undesirable" traits, since they face little to no selection pressureYou are correct again but these darwinist arguments are ad-hoc rationalizations for the unbalanced leverage females hold in the dating market. Females are less horny (on average), more willing to go without relationships or sex, infinitely more willing to share high-value Chads (not many men are okay with their Stacy wife fucking 5 different guys tho), and more uncompromising on their pickiness. It doesn't matter if eugenics actually applies because none of this shit is natural so naturalism stands on extremely dubious grounds, and to add insult to injury there is no actual point because the traits selected for (physical attractiveness) have no real import in the modern world nor do they improve the species' survival in the least. We don't need 6'5 average heights to advance but we need more 140IQ geniuses and neither are being chosen in favor of the most mediocre betabuxx fathers imaginable once they're done physically masturbating on Chad's cock carousel.
>>84161175Can't lift the tism away
I haven't spoken to a female outside my family in 8 years. (The girl at the grocery store doesn't count)
>>84162131if you lift a lot you become clinically obese too
>>84165303Lifters who are "clinically obese" are like 1-3% of the population. Completely negligible and you can't seriously believe that elite lifters are skewing the obesity statistics in any meaningful way.
>>84161249unironically the best fucking /fit/ advice ive crossed on this board in several years
>>84165403/fit/ is honestly useless and they all have body dysmorphia and social media fitness content brainrot. If a guy wants to go to the gym to get huge muscles then whatever have fun i guess, just dont expect women to care much about it. they mostly like lean guys with moderately sized muscles and big forearms, biceps are a meme, dont even bother with biceps, big biceps with shit forearms looks awful
>>84161175>Lifting to impress othersSlave mentality
>>84165403I mean, there are plenty of women who are attracted to big guys, but yeah, roid bodies are not attractive because they're not natural. It's the same reason that makeup and fake tits aren't attractive to most men. We can tell it's fake and we want natural beauty. But a fat slob is still going to be less attractive than a moderately muscled guy. Most guys who go to the gym are not going to look like roid freaks anyway, so your negative view of the gym just seems like a psyop to keep men from being fit and healthy.
>>84161239Stonetoss made this comic to cope with being fat
