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Why do people with no friends still try to put on a "oh I don't wanna seem too keen or desperate so I'll selectively ignore your messages or reply hours later" act?

I know you're a NEET with nothing else going on, you asked to be my friend and I took pity on you so why are you doing this. It's SO fucking common.
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>>84162411
Because every time I've replied back immediately, they've gotten the "ick"
If I reply back too late, they get the "ick"
I just no longer try or care anymore
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>>84162411
put in effort
>Anon you are too much, stop being so needy and desperate
Don't put in effort
>Anon clearly doesn't care enough to by my friend
Why are neurotypicals so fucking confusing, I'm so dam tired of being ignored then accused not trying.
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>>84162411
because they're liars and get off on it
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thats what you get for messaging foids on /soc/ with a million friend request
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>>84162411
buddy it's not that deep even if i'm a miserable lonely wretch without anyone i still have a bunch of things to do in daaily life i can't be on chat 24/7
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>>84162450
>Ummm I'm busy!
I have a full time job and chores and still manage to reply to people in a timely manner. It's called being polite. Your problem isn't that you're busy, your problem is you don't respect anyone else or value their time. Which is fine, but like, don't string them along in a fake friendship you have 0 interest in.
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>>84162464
you're just throwing accusations around man it's as simple as not being on the pc and/or not having the phone with you it just happens and time passes
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>>84162501
>pull phone out pocket
>send message
now move the goalpost
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>>84162511
>go somewhere without phone
or
>do something where i can't pull out phone
or the good old
>leave phone in different room and don't hear the ding
could also be
>intend to reply after doing x but get sidetracked and forget
i dunno anon there could be a lot of reasons that are not malevolent
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>>84162411
nobody wants to be friends with you ack
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>>84162464
take a moment, and reread this once you've calmed down, then maybe you'll see why people don't want to be your friend.

I do the same shit, I get obsessive because haha I didn't get nearly enough attention in my life, so when I do it's great
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>>84162411
I reply when I want to, and how you feel about it is your baggage. Direct messaging has always been a "reply when you feel like it" activity.
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>>84162411
You sound insufferable, I reply when I feel like.
I don't like having conversation all the time, sometimes I just want to be alone and chill.
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>>84162541
>what if the phone was...LE DEAD
hey at least you tried, sis
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>>84162585
>t. avatartranny
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>>84162579
>Direct messaging has always been a "reply when you feel like it" activity.
No, that's a modern disease.
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>>84162595
you need to calm down and stop being tilted at normal stuff like that anon you're being a bit ridiculous
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>>84162541
>go somewhere without phone
Literally never happens. People hold onto their phones tighter than their wallets.
>do something where i can't pull out phone
So you finish your activity, check your phone, spend 30 seconds replying to someone. OR you tell them in advance you'll be busy. WOW, SO HARD.
>leave phone in different room and don't hear the ding
So you just don't look at your phone for hours on end while being on your PC with the same communication apps open? Come on man.
>intend to reply after doing x but get sidetracked and forget
aka you don't care about or respect the other person.
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>>84162628
you seem to be the one getting tilted, nigger
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>>84162585
>I reply when I feel like
So like I said, you don't respect the other person. They're just a toy for you to play with when you're bored.
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>>84162411
really desperate people reply in less than 2 minutes.
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>>84162650
>really desperate people reply in less than 2 minutes.
So if you're talking to someone irl and they respond to you in under 2 minutes, they're desperate?

The reality is you're a bad person and you feel comfortable being rude online because there's no physical reprecussions for your actions. If it was irl you wouldn't dare act like this.
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>>84162649
>>84162660
You got your answer op, its because narcissistic foids get off on it. Message them back when you can and dont think too deeply about it, caring any deeper is exactly what they want and they arent worth it
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>>84162641
do you do this every time you talk to someone? taking their words and adding your own to end up with points that weren't said at all?
>>84162642
it's fine anon we're all friends here
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>>84162678
In the modern world there's no excuse to not reply promptly to someone.

I only keep people in my life if they're people I ACTUALLY care about. So I will always respond to them as soon as I can, which is never more than a few minutes at worst. It's honestly not that hard when you're not a shallow friend collector with 500 contacts you don't care about.
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>>84162678
My friends respond back in a timely manner. I've talked to enough foids to know how their games work, I was just letting op know he can rise above it
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>>84162411
I don't owe you a reply to every one of your inane messages. Half the time I look at my phone, read the notification, and the only appropriate response that comes to mind is to call you a retarded faggot, so I just put the phone back in my pocket and continue my day.
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>>84162719
>I don't owe you a reply to every one of your inane messages
Why are you friends with people then? Like seriously, what is wrong with you?
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>>84162719
When you added me, a invisible contract was signed that requires you to treat me with respect.
If you reply whenever you want, then i'm no different to a chatbot that you use from time-to-time.
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>>84162737
>Why are you friends with people then?
I enjoy hanging out with people in real life. Messaging is just a way to arrange meetups.
>>84162739
>i'm no different to a chatbot that you use from time-to-time.
If all you do is chat online then yes, that's exactly what you are to me.
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>>84162719
>call you a retarded faggot
I think this yet still respond back because I'm the better man
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>>84162770
If the response you give is 'you're a retarded faggot', good for you. If you suppress that to jestermax, you're pathetic.
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>>84162798
I act like a normal human being, your brainrot is showing
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>>84162822
>I act like a normal human being
Normal people don't expect a reply to every message
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>>84162411
>I know you're a NEET with nothing else going on, you asked to be my friend and I took pity on you so why are you doing this. It's SO fucking common.
hate the game not the player,
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>>84162938
I never said I expect an instantaneous reply to every message or even every message, you would understand this if you weren't a terminally online retard
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>>84162964
*or even every message to be replied to
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>>84162411
>It's SO fucking common.
If you smell shit everywhere you go, check your shoe
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>>84163114
What an odd thing to say. Guilty conscience?
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>>84162411
I only have so much to say, I might have to wait a bit to recuperate some social energy



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