>>84164888
Bud give it up. Unless you're hiding your part in this, just face the fact that broken people end up hurting each other and more often than not it's the woman who just walks away for good cause they're all conditioned to "do better"

>>84164888
I am beset on all sides by betrayal
Every fembot I have spoken to from here has stabbed my back until I've collapsed in a puddle of my own blood and excrement
How dare you tell me you love me and then hurt me so
Anyway, any fembots single and ready to mingle? This guy is a bachelor on the prowl *thumbs at myself*

>>84164907
I didn't walk away and just get betrayed still

>>84164914
What did they do I am really sorry

>>84164917
Well then stop choosing shitty dudes. Unless you mean he did something to hurt you and you decided that it wasnt worth it, hard to say in that situation without knowing more details.

>>84164926
Told me how much she loves me and then dumped me with her very next breath. She had kept telling me every day how much she liked me and how much she wanted me. If there were problems she should have vocalized it. I still don't know why it happened.

>>84164934
people don't always show their bad behaviour at the start

You weren't betrayed. You (explicitly) refused to care about or listen to what I thought and felt, so I stopped trying to engage with the issue and I became numb to it. Take accountability for your own shit instead of victimizing yourself and asking for pity. Conversations, caring and relationships are two-way.

>>84164943
Yes I agree, but what makes you choose these people in the first place?
I tried telling my ex gf that people don't show you who they are at first and she literally broke down into "WAAH YOU DONT THINK I DESERVE PEOPLE BEING TRUTHFUL AND NICE TO ME?!" which was utterly insane. Like you I put up with too much bullshit for someone I love

>>84164952
They seem nice at the start I mean how would you prevent this

>>84164888
are you looking for friends or something else? i can be friends with you if it's the former

>>84164958
I don't really know. How old are you? I'm probably way older than you but I mostly end up with women that glaze me and are obsessed with me for months before growing cold (typical bpd)
And no I'm not into that. It's at the point that it annoys me. All I can do is just try.
Do you know this person btw?>>84164948

>>84164976
You are the one who said choose better yet you admit it can't be done effectively

>>84165000
>Avoiding the question
Well in my case I don't know if normal dedicated women would ever be into me. It only ever seems to be people that promise a lot, get highly sexual, and then fuck off if they don't get me fucking them irl constantly which I find gross to do if in don't get actual commitment.
In your case just don't give too much of yourself away early and stand your ground/don't keep making excuses for someone that doesn't care. I think we could both do with that advice

>>84165012
>>84165000
Forgot to mention that there's more guys out there desperate for a relationship than women at this point so the odds are in your favour. It's shit for everyone but slightly less shit for you

Being alone kicks ass.
>no one bitching at you
>no one starting shit with you
>able to walk around the house naked if you live by yourself
>able to blast porn on the TV and shit off the neighbours
>able to do whatever you please

>>84164888
You got tricked into sending your dic pics and now they're blackmailing you?

>>84164888
>Betrayed again and this time from someone from r9k, I am lonely and want to talk to people again but I guess too soon? Idk
Me too, they got a business parters email I was using (I was managing some of his side hustles for a cut). But at least they don't know who I am. Still I hate the fact someone would do that.