ive been thinking of joining servers, just to get out there ykbut im not really interesting and im not good at talking. should i just wait until the social cravings stop and i can be a loner again, or should i try and join some? what do people even do in such places!
Life is interesting, and you have a life, so you are interesting. You have low self esteem and you are telling yourself you aren't worthy. Get out there brother. Pro tip: people never get bored if you game and chat simultaneously, and it lightens the mood. Ask people to game. You have free will. Use it
>>84167132But I don't play games. At all. I'm a nogames loser
I dont even get how it works anymore. I think the last time i felt comfortable talking to someone was almost 15 years ago. Through text or chat doesnt feel any different. I get nervous talking to AI chatbots lol
>>84167132thanks brotha, you seem wise. ill keep it in mind.
>>84167144>I get nervous talking to AI chatbots loldoesnt everyone? i only talk with AI about embarrassing things
Yeah just do it anon. I spent all of my teens and 20s avoiding human contact and deeply regret it. The few brief exceptions stand out in my mind quite strongly, even if they felt like failures at the time.
discord is a corpse of what it used to be, it's just a sea of retarded irony poisoned 15 year olds and every server has an "in" group that youll never be apart of and will be ignored
>>84167182i think so too, but im hoping to find something in the sea of shit. i cant know until i try, or atleast thats what i want to think
>>84167120>>84167194Make your own server OP. Then put out a call for other loner bots. It worked for me (until it didn't)
>>84167208i thought about it but its a bit scary innit. i feel id have to be a pretty talkative guy to do that, no? creating a server?why did it stop working?
>>84167243>i feel id have to be a pretty talkative guy to do that, no?No, not at all!The benefit of a server is that you don't have to work as hard as hard to carry discussion as you would in a 1 on 1 conversation. If you're scared of talking or being the center of attention then you can create a burner account. Then use that to create a server, and join with a second account you'll use to talk in the server.>why did it stop workingAll servers experience decline in activity after a while, usually when this happens you host activities or find new members through a few different methods, in my case I did neither.
>>84167120is that my goat doraemon
>>84167144Sup, want to talk?
>>84167794it's gegege from gegege no kitaro
>>84167208>OP. Then put out a call for other loner bots.That's asking for trouble. >until it didn'tProbably because you are a typical r9k weirdo.
>>84167984What do you hope to accomplish by being this confrontational?
>>84167993That you self reflect on your actions that caused your server to die.
>>84167999I already did as implied previouslyDo you think the health of a group depends solely on one member's efforts?
