I've had no contact with the opposite gender ever since I broke up with my ex, zero, nada. Going to meetings and making friends doesn't help at all. The only people who take an interest in me are guys. I am not unattractive, I have a job, I'm hard working and cultured. But I am invisible to most girls, and I have nothing to talk about anyways because I spend most of my days inside and hate being oversocialized. It's been one whole year, the only girls who praise me are japanese girls who take my online English lessons. But they never call me back anyway, and they live far away. On the other hand using these apps for friendship and dating all over the world never works. I am ghosted or just ignored, presumably because girls think I'm trying too hard to fulfill my dream of learning Japanese and moving to japan. TL;DR there's nothing wrong with me, women just don't like men of value like me.
>>84168374>my ex/thridden
>>84168374I havent spoken to a girl my own age in at least 8 years. It feels like a completely foreign concept to me. If a girl decided to talk to me, I wouldnt know what to do other than be awkward.
go to group therapy, last week I spent 1,5 hours talking to 3 girls, i am the only man there(yes some of them have bpd)
>>84168374I'm very good with women but I just don't have a reason to interact with one. I'm not gonna simp and desperately look for them. That's just cringe. But I fear that doing nothing would just lead to a lifetime of misery. Eh, I guess misery is all I've got.
