Most people live the kind of lives in which meeting someone and getting into a relationship with them is pretty much normal and expected. They have numerous encounters, various exes, many sexual experiences, and even if they break up with someone it doesn't take that long for their life to lead them to meeting someone new.This is completely alien to me.
>>84170683Do you go outside and initiate contact with people routinely? In the past month, have you done hobbies or went to social events or joined clubs and genuinely talked to people?Or have you stayed inside all year, only going outside to get food, and never making an effort to relate to people?I do the latter. The difference between me and you is that I acknowledge I don't try and don't blame others for my inaction.
>>84170683To an extent, I'm just... misallignedThe kinda guys/girls I'm into, are NOT at the places I frequentIn fact, they're in the exact opposite of places I'd ever go to find a partnerIdk man, I know what I want but for the life of me I just can't get what I wantI keep getting tastes of it, I've been in situations where it's just oh so close but so far away...I just need a lil more push, a lil more uumph for me to get going
>>84170707>Do you go outside and initiate contact with people routinely? No.>In the past month, have you done hobbies or went to social events or joined clubs and genuinely talked to people?No.>Or have you stayed inside all year, only going outside to get food, and never making an effort to relate to people?Yes.The reason is they've already pre-rejected me so it's not worth trying.
