my gf cheated on me three years agothe anger and hatred i have for is what gives me energy to move up in the world, and it's taken me a long way these last few yearsi don't want to let go of these feelings because they're very useful, but i also understand that most people would view it as pathetic to hold on to them for this long
>>84170883Its kinda pathetic, just move onLife isnt long enough to hold a grudge this long, especially since you dont do anything about it except put in 5% more effort in your lifeWow you do 1 extra push up per week, you so sigma
>>84170911i went from NEET to student to business owner, i improved my life substantially all because of how much i want to kill my ex girlfriend
A girl I dated revealed to me years later that she cheated, and I pretty amazingly felt nothing
>>84170883Nah bro. I'm the same. She cheated and my hatred and anger have given me new clarity. Plus her life went to shit after which gave me great satisfaction.
>>84171075telling a guy i emotionally cheated on him was the second worst mistake i had made that year, the downhill path i've taken has lead me here, and i've made other mistakes along the way, none of it was worth it in the end, i just feel so empty now
>>84171169Good. Cheaters should bare their cross for the rest of their miserable lives. Know that you deserve it.
>>84171200i was 21, you expect me to be 60 and still miserable?
>>84171475kill yourself you deserve nothing
I had a revelation recently that if a girl who legitimately loved me at one point could turn around and do that, ANY female could do that to mei've completely lost respect for the entire gender
>>84171485people have done worse things, and the other guy rejected my feelings anyway>>84171502you lost respect for an entire gender over communication issues? every gender has those, you don't see me saying all men are bad
>>84171584>cheating>communication issueYeah I guess I should've communicated that I didn't want her sticking another guy's dick in her better. My bad. You women are a meme.
>>84171633no i was saying i had communication issues, looking back i should have just broken up, but i wasn't really good with initiating breakups back then
i did almost everything the patriarchy told me to do, i was receptive to advances and i wasn't difficult to deal with, but as a naive pick-me i was very easily swayed
Been cheated on years ago too and I became bitter and jaded. Forced myself to be alone for 3 years. Nowadays I feel empty, and needy again. It's so weird, I believed that I would be fine alone for the rest of my life. Anyway, don't cheat on anyone. It can break their souls, and all memories they have of you will be corrupted.
>>84171763i wish i could press a button that made most of my exes forget me lol
>>84171828Eventually they'll forget, or the memory will become nebulous, rewritten as they get better experiences (It really depends, but that's a possibility). But the most important thing is... Don't do that again. Lies, disloyalty, etc. not only corrupt the soul of the one who suffered it, it corrupt the soul of the one who cheated.If you like to fuck lots of guys just become polyamorous or some shit like that. It's more respectable.
>>84170943sounds like she dodged a bullet, women have sixth sense for this stuff
>Just move up in the world bro with all that pain and sufferingspooked
>>84172200yea typical fucking foid/normie blaming the guy for everything, even when a bitch literally treatsshe's fat and i'm in the best shape of my life and wealthymeanwhile you're a fucking loser
