Everyone always says "It's better to be alone than be with someone you hate." I'm the only person I've ever known who would genuinely rather be in a bad relationship than be single. Being single for me is halfway to being in Hell. I've been single, I've been in bad relationships -- I'd choose the relationship every time. I don't quite know how the relationships manifested either because whenever I'm alone, it very much doesn't feel like it's voluntary and it feels like I couldn't even meet a woman if I tried.I'm not lying, I'm not exaggerating, and I wish it weren't this way. What does this say about me?
>>84171259it says you are mid. you happen upon relationships but you arent high tier enough to go get a relationship at will. its ok most people are just like you. you are just smart enough to be happy with what you can get.
>>84171259What if u in a abusive relationshiop n she bites ur ballswhat then nigga
>>84171296Depends on how much it hurts.But the fact that I'm legitimately considering putting up with that tells you all you need to know.
>>84171259It means you're a neurotic person who is afraid to be by himself so he prefers bad company over solitude. That is bad.
>>84171323What's weird is that I'm quite content to be alone with my thoughts.It's just the idea that nobody out there loves me is what kills me.
>>84171330I know that feeling. But being in bad company won't fix it. It might only make it worse instead.
>>84171354I'm not trying to be purposely argumentative, you should logically be correct, but for me, I've been with women I don't really like that much, and who I can't communicate with, where people would look at us and not see any reason we should be together, and for me it's STILL more pleasant than being alone. That's the thing nobody else seems to understand.
>>84171412Then you've got attachment issues. I have had so many acquaintances from both my relatives and my younger years that I had trouble accepting that they were out of my life forever. So I sort of get your thinking. But it's a waste of time to think about, because it's entirely parasocial. People who don't like you generally never think of you. So it just becomes a onesided thing.
>>84171259You're right, I've never heard anyone else say that.
>>84171259you're too much of a stupid normalfaggot to tolerate your own presence so you must seek the validation of a relationship even if both the bitch and yourself end up miserable and hating each other's guts
people who say "you have to love yourself first" what do they even mean by it?i love myself plenty so now what
>>84171259>What does this say about me?>>84171259You are a mid tier normie who wants to believe he isn't just an uninteresting normie, so you post here in between your shit relationships. You have already 100% decided on what to do yet you are asking for confirmation anyway.
