how can i stop being dependent on someone who treats me like shit i dont want this anymore but i cant leave i dont want to give her the feeling that she won
>>84172604Repost without the nigger and get a responce
cold turkey stop thinking about her
>>84172825i try to but i crave for her to love me again i just dont wanna be lonely again but i cant stand the way she does me anymore
>>84172604best way to do this is stonewall them, without blocking or deleting. it's more effective if you can make sure they know you're there
>>84173013ive been doing this lately whenever she starts saying hurtful things but her words still make me feel bad i just try to not show it to her
>>84173059i hope you're not replying. are you using discord?
>>84173001>>84173059if you want to get closer you have to talk more and she has to not be opposed to it, if you want to go you just have to be decisive and not look back
>>84173077yeah most of the times i just ignore her and shell text again usually a couple hours later or if she sees me online on instagram or tik tok angrily saying why i havent replied to her, other times i just start saying random shit or song lyrics lol> are you using discord?no, whatsapp mainly
>>84173079> she has to not be opposed to itthats the difficult part, shes become pretty defensive and rude these days>if you want to go you just have to be decisive and not look backthats another problem, i cant stand the way she treats me anymore but ive became too attached to her that its hard for me to not look back whenever i try to leave, just last night i tried to end things but the thought of not being able to know how shed be doing came and i couldnt go forward with leaving
>>84173101>why i havent replied to hergood. you're actually doing great. keep doing that until she has a full blown meltdown, then tell her you aren't willing to be anyone's doormat.>whatsappthen just archive the chat and leave it there
>>84172604im in a sort of similar situation, and i can tell you that if you are even thinking about how she feels at all you have already lost (do you think she does the same for you? think about how you feel? haha)you are going to be dependent on her forever
