How does one find a female that isn't bpd? My last ex would refuse to talk about any of my issues with her, instead breaking down into "waaah everything I do is bad to you!!" How the FUCK do you deal with women today? There's no responsibility at all
>>84173663I think this is just regular woman nature. My hypothesis is that women exhibit all the BPD traits naturally to some degree, and that "BPD" women just turn the dial to hyperdrive.As I age I start seeing them less and less as equal companions and just as people to fuck and maybe have children with if I ever want some. I'll probably do that through surrogacy and have my mother help me raise the childIt's a grim situation with no solution. That is their nature: unstable, flexible values, not fit for commitment, which requires some degree of self-sacrifice.To answer your question directly: you deal with them by seeing how they are and adjusting your expectations accordingly
>>84173663honestly after years interacting with women with BPD I have learned that dealing with BPDs is not nearly as hard as people make it out to be.In my experience you just give them some tme and space when they have their melty and 9 times out of 10 they'll come back and apologize on their own.
I'm actively recovering from my BPD this year with the help of my partner. It's very confusing for both of us but I'm starting to recognize when i am getting possessed and putting a stop to it.
>>84173704I think there were a few more worthwhile women in the past but yes they're all histrionic and over the fucking top. Combined with how they're told they need to think of themselves first, can hop from man to man, etc. it's just becoming worse every fucking day. >>84173771How? nobody ever let me try and push them to open or ever dealt with me trying to have them confront their failings and emotions
>>84173714Sorry r I don't buy that
