I wish I had a gf that I could to talk to about my emotions.I don't really want to talk about them with my family, my friends don't want/care to listen and I refuse to see a therapist.If she tolerated listening to me rant about the state of our society and complain about stuff it would be a plus.
>>84210635It'll last for a while, they're not capable of caring long term unless you bring them significant value
>>84210640thismy girlfriend is sick of me
>>84210723Sucks cause that caring person who loved you suddenly disappears and you're now alone stuck with someone who can't stand you
>>84210640I know. I wish foids were capable of feeling love towards non-chads.
>>84210761> Sucks cause that caring person who loved you suddenly disappears and you're now alone stuck with someone who can't stand youfuck you really hit a nerve there i really wish she would love me again or at least pretend to
>>84210635your girlfriend does not fucking want to hear you talk about your emotions retard never act this way or cry in front of your girl or wife this is the fastest way to give her the ick and permanently ruin her attraction to you just find male friends who care and talk to them but talking about your emotions to your girlfriend is literally cucking yourself
This is why therapists make $80 an hour.Nobody wants to hear your bullshit unless youre paying them to.Stop being a little pussy bitch.
>>84210635>I wish I had a gf that I could to talk to about my emotions.Lmao women hate when you do that. My gf gets icked out when I cry in front of her or get too deep in my feels. My mother has complained to me about the times my father has cried. Women will love and support you, but they are NOT your therapist. They love the idealized masculine ubermensch version of you, not the real you.
>>84210949Then whats the point to be in a relationship if you can't be your self
>>84210983>Then whats the point to be in a relationshipDepends on the kind of man you are and what you seek in relationships. Some dudes just want pussy. Some want to avoid being alone in middle and old age. Some want a servant to cook and clean. Some want a trophy to flaunt on Instagram. You can be yourself, just don't be any of the unpleasant parts of yourself. Only women are allowed to reveal the absolute worst parts of themself and receive support for it. We don't get a pass as men.
this is what therapists are for.anons are right. if a girl says she wants guys to be more emotional, you can be open with her, etc, she probably doesn't know her own limits. do it a little bit, but you'll have to rein it in.
>>84210993So many limitations as a man i rather die completely alone than have to jester and lie all day to woman or people in general.Whats the point to play a game which you cant win
What else exists either be a chad and you can say anything you want or be gay and be treated as a girl
>>84211001>Whats the point to play a game which you cant winThe alternative is being a 40+ year old man who is utterly alone and crushes zero pussy. Acceptable if you're mentally ill enough to spec into the Hermit class, but most dudes don't have the base stats required for such a life.
>>84211001you sort of have to fake it in life, dude. shit sucks but this is true for everything from work to relationships. you'll be lonely and bitter purely in yourself if you don't compromise and put up a bit of a wall/mask.
Jews give rights to woman create a new whole culture based on them, suddenly be a man is hell you are completely alone while girls get everything for existing.Be a fake npc goycattle and larp 24/7 and get some form of companion which is fake or die alone and people will find your corpse months after.Men would love to be in womans shoes what not right get treated with respect and their words matter in a relationship cherished for existing.Men have it so worse i observe more and more brutal it gets ,woman aren't attracted to men anyway now they aren't forced to do
>>84210635you know, they don't really like a whiner. that's a major ick.
>>84210903Sounds like boomer tier advice. There's a difference between sharing your emotions and talking about your thoughts rather than bawling your eyes out or trauma dumping. I've talked more about my emotions with my woman than anyone I know, the thing is I don't make it an common thing, and I also don't ever want my problems to weigh her down. It's one thing to complain about something or express a feeling, it's another to unload baggage and expect her to solve your therapy issues.
>>84210949>They love the idealized masculine ubermensch version of you, not the real you.That is the real me.
>>84210635I have no need to talk to her about my emotions
>>84210635Same, anon. Sadly, even a perma-incel like me is well aware that they get the ick from that stuff.Even venting anger about this fucked world pisses them off, let alone the misery about it.
>>84210635same. it always felt underwhelming interacting with others and I feel a lot of limerance towards a non existent significant otherI think I ended up coping by being attracted to emotional dependency. I want to tend to someone during debilitating mental agony and the sort. I guess I'm hypergam
>>84211513>guess I'm hypergamnevermind me lmao
>>84210983When you reach that realization about female nature, you do either a couple things >Keep doing what you're doing>Stop caring about women>Or become exactly what you think they want, so you can benefit yourself women do not love men, you are a resource to them, that it, that's how we've been our entire human history. The moment you stop providing anything other than positivity, care, and materials, you are no longer a desirable man. Women are not meant to be loved the way men love, it's a cruel joke
if a man just dated me to use as a therapist, I'd use his penis and wallet til I'm satisfied and leave
>>84211536There's this incredible disconnect with women that just can't understand that men need someone to confide in and they wish it was their partners. We get zero support and we're expected to be Superman constantly and women just keep fucking creating that environment where men are miserable. Women are the biggest pushers of "patriarchy" because women benefit the most from men being essentially slaves in this modern economy.Like bitch, I listen to you complain about problems you created and won't fix, daily, but if I break down and need to be treated like you know a human being, it's the ick.Women deserve every shitty thing to happen to them
>>84211536This kind of people deserve hanging
>>84211552what do you people want, when a woman is honest you have a meltie. I know no one wants to hear someone bitch all the time, it's why I have a therapist and a journal. why would I want to be a man's therapist and journal?
>>84211561But females expect men to understand them and listen when they have hard times and they bitching about everything so why u can not do that relationships must be equal
>>84211556you sound more emotional than me, pussy
>>84210635look, normalnigger, nobody is going to listen to your retarded rants for hours. we're all eating shit our entire lives. toughen up or go see a therapist. No, therapy won't help. But you pay them to listen to you. Or pay a hooker and make her listen to your retarded bullshit and regret all of her own choices in life.
>>84211561If it's near constant then yeah it's a problem. In my experience, women would literally BEG me to open up and talk about my feelings, then when I actually did, it's always the ick. Therapy is for women, men do not get anything out of talking shit out with some random fuck who is only there for your money. Men want actual solutions, and usually when we're like this, all we want is just the care and love from a woman but noooooo. Caring about your partner is too much worth for the average spoiled rotten whore
>>84211567you are really retarded and lack nuance, I pity anyone who has to interact with you
>>84211574yeah you're right no one cares about you, not my problem though kek
So woman are ok to do anything they want but a man cant ok i see but men will wake up and nobody will ever pay you for your wide hole drop dead and die you disgusting slut
>>84210635My only friend is a woman and trust me they get literally disgusted if you complain about anything. The same way a straight dude feels natural repulsion when seeing two men kiss. You listen to their bitching, not the other way around.
>>84211578wow, really got me there. I'm shaken
>>84211580you have to wonder why men expect women to put up with that and they never consider venting to males
>>84211574>women would literally BEG me to open up and talk about my feelings, then when I actually did, it's always the ick.and you call yourself a normie? holy shit, what a cuck. if you can't even pretend to be chad, then don't talk to females. If you wanna have a sensual dialogue then talk to a fucking llm.
>>84211591are you living under a rock? you know the bear question? The alternative is a male opening to a female or to a tree. All males choose a tree. Nowadays with have LLMs and whatnot, but yeah, point still stands.
>>84211598Llms are isreali data collectors better talk to your self
>>84211591Men crave their mother's love in every woman they meet, and women are just husks these days incapable of actual thought and love. We do vent to men but the fucking point is we just want you to actually care about us, I don't get how women are so stuck up their own ass that they can't see someone who is strong all the time, coming to you as a safe place, is extremely telling of how much he loves you? But yeah love is not a real thing for you demonic holes
>>84211596me when I'm a retarded 4chan poster who needs to stop replying to me
>>84211603go tell this to someone who cares bc I don't lol
>>84211619don't you have some other simp to go manipulate, bpdemon?
>>84211601correct. which is why you run a local model offline. 32-70b is plenty to have a discussion. fine tuned for emotional rp models are decent enough at 12-14b.>>84211615correct. you make no fucking sense. females want to hear about the lust of a smut novel protagonist, not about the time you stabbed your toe.
>>84211603>Men crave their mother's love in every woman they meetwhat? no, I fucking don't.
>>84211637>he doesn't know>denial
>>84211630No man is talking about the time they stubbed their toe you dumb fuck. I'm bored of talking to you because it's obvious you're a real idiot, I am jealous of that
>>84211591that's how it should be. You vent to male friends not a womanhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5LGEiIL1__s
Woman are not suffering enough
>>84211603>Men crave their mother's love in every woman they meetA good man doesn't. You are trash
>>84210635>talk to about my emotions.y'all are such low T crybabies. The only way i'd care to express myself is through writing and art.
>>84211658I'm sure you're the shining pillar of masculinity as well, r9k anon poster 84211658. I'm sure you're a real firecracker out there my man
>>84211641>I have a mommy kinkokay. Not every male wants to larp as a little mommy's boy. Esp. not a straight male, esp. not chad.>>84211646>I'm bored of talking to you because it's obvious you're a real idiot, I am jealous of thatI'm simplifying everything on purpose. I know what you want to bitch about, I've see other men like that. It is approximately the same hardship as stabbing a toe. Fucking get over it. Do not ruminate. You're wasting time and potential.If you're turbo damaged then seek out psychiatric help.
>>84211666What is it that I want to bitch about, Satan?
>>84211670how lonely you are, how you want a trad wife, how economy sucks, what kind of a new cool aircraft engines they're using in modern day F-35 or something, how hard it is to wage slave your entire life, how annoying your co-workers, bosses, and higher ups are, how you are tired of wearing a mask, how you're tired of pretending and acting tough, how you'd like to live in a better world of tomorrow, and the list goes on...You are a fucking human. All humans are the same. A female does not exist to listen to that. A female serves another purpose. What's next, bitching about not being able to play chess with females? Get a grip on reality, faggot.
>I spend hours every day imagining myself with a woman who is so useless that she would willingly enable me to spiral further into despair about a world I'm unwilling to participate in bettering, and I expect that this will make me happyWe dump billions of liters of toxic waste into our oceans each year and burn up our planet's limited fossil fuels, reducing our chances of ever colonizing space, so that people like you can enjoy the right to do nothing, even for themselves. You exist as a baby man, and your lack of forceful recruitment into any meaningful agenda is costing the world its future one miserable day at a time.
>>84211686Every accusation is a confession. Let it all out anon, I'm here for you
>>84211699Nice attempt at a projection, but I really don't give a fuck about any of that. I was making a point that went over your head.
>>84211701You're screaming into the void and throwing out points that actually do not apply to me, so it's entertaining watching this.I'm genuinely curious, what are you biologically and how old are you
>>84211706I'm a straight millenial white male.
>>84211713Oh that makes complete sense now lmao, yeah go fuck yourself faggot, how dare you accuse me of not doing anything to stop this entropy of our society when you should have killed your boomer parents, the ones who started this
>>84211717I did not accuse you of not doing anything. Multiple anons exist in this world, you know, you moron. I'm just saying that you don't know how to talk to women. And obivously you don't know how to get a career either.
>>84211723I don't feel the need to defend myself on an anonymous board, I enjoyed talking with you and arguing with you
>>84211575Foid moment. Care to elaborate on how that lacks nuance? (You won't)>>84211561maybe try not spending money on a random fuck you talk to and pills
