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My life got exponentially better once I got past the barrier and became an asshole
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>>84212113
how do i assholemaxx?
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>>84212113
are there any steps i can take to lower my empathy level or whatever it is that makes me feel like shit whenever I do something bad. I feel like that's the only thing holding me back from ascending.
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>>84212119
>>84212153
Let the world break you and eventually you'll become such a jaded fuck that you can no longer tolerate bullshit, and then when you find yourself in situation that is inherently bullshit, you'll react naturally (like the animal you are)

Girls love me because they see that I'm a man
Men respect me because I have a back bone
and my bosses and co-workers don't start shit with me because despite it all, I'm good at what I do
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>>84212304
>Let the world break
How to do this without being a wagie tho? Because I work for myself lol and avoid bullshit situations like the plague.
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>>84212308
Not from wagiedom lol, wagiedom breaks you into being a servile fuck, a "yes man" at all times
>avoid bullshit situations
That's the thing, to start breaking the barrier, you have to face the barrier

I've gone through a lot of mental breaks, anon
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>>84212113
I've been unironically thinking about this daily dude. I finally completely snapped and I'm no longer nice at all IRL and my life has substantially gotten better. I'm downright a cunt now and people just apologize to me like I wasn't the one out of line.

Who knew letting the hate take over was the best thing
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>>84212304
Doesn't work for guys like me I'll get humbled, get my ass kicked, humiliated.
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>>84212304
I just wish I understood this sooner. The meek will inherit the Earth
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>>84212324
You think I didn't get humbled, kicked, humiliated? That's the ultimate lesson, dude
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>>84212335
It's what being a man is, realizing none of this shit is fair

but you're strong enough to deal with it, and they aren't
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>>84212113
I think you're right. But I also believe it's low hanging fruit. It's easy to be an asshole, it's what the world wants from you ultimately. Step on others or be stepped on yourself.

It's harder but also more impressive and respectable to be assertive but not an awful unpleasant person.
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>>84212362
It's only considered respectable and impressive by a certain kind of people, and those kinds of people are going extinct

I don't doubt that being kind AND assertive is better, but on the way there, you have to be content to play the fool because everyone WILL try to step on you
Very few will actually see the value you hold and how you've held it
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>>84212393
In my experience it's just knowing who's worthy of your respect and who isn't. Which is usually pretty easy to judge. There is also a few different ways to approach it.

You can be an ass and be more kind when you get to know people, or start out kind and be an ass when people try to take advantage of you. Personally I start out cold, but mostly neutral to others. If they piss me off I tend to be an ass in return, but everyone who treats me well knows me as the nicest guy ever.



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