>work with mainly women and gay men>got my first complaint today from themApparently I'm too "emotional" whatever the fuck that meansLike, I speak my mind when it comes to shit I know is wrong and they don't like that
>>84237687The only person who gets upset when you say something to correct their assumption or negative narrative they're making up to harm you is the person who is making up the negative narrative to harm you
>>84237687Have you considered that they may be correct? That the discussion of certain topics should be done in a more thorough and logical manner and not through sophistry and platitudes?
>>84237729Deception is deception. There's no negotiation to that. When someone lies you either speak up over then and tell the truth or you say nothing and the lie stays there for others to be decieved.
>>84237748When you're working you should be focused on work, not winning arguments. You're not going to be paid more or less for speaking "the truth"Everyone's truth is subjective. Just focus on generalities and steer things towards an agreeable area. You don't want to be seen as contrary and an agitator, lest someone tries to undermine or sleight you in spite. Or perhaps you are the kind of person to go down in flames for the sake of what you "believe in"
>>84237791If I am silent and she is deceived by the words here by another then it does not matter what I do here and how much I built. The entire reason why she's not here and I lost her is because of his lies he put here and how I did not catch them in time to correct them.
>>84237729>>84237791I'm not trying to win an argument lmaoI had two complaints against me actuallyCase 1: I said something off-hand and they took offense to that>do thing>"woah, this is way different from what I learned in school!">they took offense to thatIt's implied like, I know shit better than them so they think I'm a smart-assCase 2: there was a misunderstanding between me and top management, top management got mad at middle management, and middle management is trying to twist it into being my fault eventhough it's not
>>84237811From my perspective the best thing to do is just be myself, stand up for myself when needed and don't let others walk over me. Those who matter should see me for who I am
Blitzcans? Drinking songs about torture? Inshallah no kings
>>84237808How can you lose a person? You don't own them. If you wanted to be together you should have made your intentions known.>>84237811Those don't seem like complaints. You're describing minor friction of interpersonal relationships. If you want to minimize it you could always state your intentions after doing something "I'm just trying to learn/help" but you probably already know this.
>>84237861When they are deceived about me and their emotions manipulated to perceive me a certain way as well as taking things that I write and using those to Make her feel things about him. All I can say is that he is lies and deception, I am the truth. I believe she'll hear my voice over everything now and his poison will be washed away in the rain So we are together again
>>84237861Dude, my supervisor pulled me aside and told me that everyone else hates me
>>84237911kek not that anon but I found out everyone hated me from a very honest lifeguard>work as bartender at this seasonal resort thing>waitresses keep being obnoxious roasties despite getting 2x their salary in tips>frequently call them out>dudes are literal pussy-licking simps who defend them>lifeguard barges into break room once during lunch>aaaaaah you're the guy everyone wants to get rid of
>>84237918it's a weird feeling when the only complaints you get at work is that you're too good at your job
>>84237911It feels like I'm missing some exposition here.>>84237888You are really drunk or high
You guys talk to your coworkers?
and then these failed normalniggers bitch on r9k. jej.
>>84237932Normies don't care about efficiency, they care more about CoHeSiOn and HaRmOnY
>>84237811>>"woah, this is way different from what I learned in school!"This is a very risky thing to say, even if what you mean is "wow, that's a really good idea" and I'd suggest just never commenting on other people's processes unless you already have a good relationship with them or it's your job to ensure they're doing it right and not killing themselves. People get defensive about that kind of thing. Since you're constantly talking about how you know better and you include "like" and "lmao" in your writing, I highly doubt you have the tact to convey these things in a diplomatic manner. If it's not your job to correct people, then stfu if it doesn't involve you, simple as that.
>>84238405I can be diplomatic and agreeable ....but only between other menWhen it comes to women, it's a whole different ballgameIt's like I'm used to playing football but now I'm playing baseball
Who respect muh stoic guy i dont.
>>84237687>was too emotional for fags and womenop is definitely a gay woman. show us your tits
>>84238567Pop time to turn the other buttcheek
