What's possibly even stopping you from having a girlfriend? It's easy for a guy these days.
>>84238175>What's possibly even stopping you from having a girlfriend?I literally have autism
>>84238175This is a demoralization thread to make you feel bad about not having a gf by claiming it's easy to get one (even though it's never been harder in human history) and thus make you feel like you must be especially bad to not have one.If you must reply, remember to put sage in the email field so you don't bump it.
>>84238187Most autistic men have girlfriends. Even the most famous ones, Elon Musk and Kanye west
>>84238191>This is a demoralization thread to make you feel badNot OP but this is a shitpost/botpost on a shitbot site
>>84238175I don't feel like getting hurt again
>>84238194Most *rich and good looking* autistic men
>>84238194My daddy didn't own precious metal mines in Africa.>>84238209>Elon>good looking
>>84238175Women are never going to speak to me and women have never spoken to me
>>84238175Never trying. I was watching some anime earlier and during a couple of the dialogue parts I found myself losing focus and needing to rewind multiple times to remember what was said; if I had a gf sitting next to me, she'd probably be annoyed that I was pausing and rewinding all the time. Being solo is just so easy and convenient.
>>84238187These people have no idea how bad autism is when it comes to forming relationshipsNormalcattle are inhumanGood luck anon
(yes i am writing this reply again)>What's possibly even stopping you from having a girlfriend?cuz i am a misogynist who advocates for women's rightswait is that girl dic->>84238191>This is a demoralization thread to make you feel bad about not having a gf by claiming it's easy to get oneimagine getting demoralized from a stupid thread , some anons need more self respect
For what purpose? To get divorce raped?
>>84238279I just want a qt asian gf to baby trap me without divorcing me why is baby trapping bad mann
>>84238175Because where I live all foids are boring and normie.If any Hispanic nerdy girl is reading this hmu
>>84238301Use tagmap anon, that's probably the best way out but it's mostly homos
>>84238175Its fundamentally impossible. You might as well ask what is stopping you from teleporting to the moon.
>>84238347Barely anyone uses it and, as you said, most of them are fags and troons.
>>84238175I do not know how to talk to women, and I have no idea how you are supposed to even initiate contact.
>>84238397You can just read guides though
Having one is so much work. Why have a gf when prostitutes and sugar babies exist?
>>84238191This is a demoralization post to make you feel bad by lying to you getting a gf is hard when it's actually never been easier.
>>84238678This and you're just a creepy incel if you cant
>>84238175I'm too mentally ill for even male friends dude
>>84238175Do you want the read the entire list of my own issues or will the "problem is me, not you" be sufficient?
>>84238175>talk to ugly girl, she's ugly>talk to mid girl, she's boring>talk to hot girl, she's weird (not in a good way)I just can't win, bros
>>84238175Why are you pretending on the internet, on 4chan especially, on r9k in particular, to be implying you are "successful" with women when you goddamn well know why its hard and why you also, behind your LARP threads, is an incel.Responding to people like you are like trying to talk to a fag who is in the closet but puts out his hand once in a while with a sock puppet on, pretending to be someone else and that "im not in here, its just me the sock puppet".That is what it genuinely feels like when I post reply to people like you. So I sometimes don't even know why I bother.
>>84238175I am a autistic neet who lives with his parents and i have never had a girlfriend so no it is not easy
>>84238939Does moving out make it easier to get a girlfriend?
>>84238175I thought that was her girldick at first. Disappointing it wasn't.
>>84238194Most autistic men definitely don't have girlfriends
>>84238175I don't go outside and I don't talk to people :(
>>84239205what how is it not
>>84238187Not a real problem.>>84238191Focus on yourself instead of getting a girlfriend. Women can smell desperation a mile away.>>84238208Probably the only valid one statement here. It's okay to take a pause but know you can find love later in life when you're ready.>>84238225>doesnt initiate>"waah women dont talk to me!!">>84238235>makes scenario up to justify why they're aloneAs long as you're comfortable being alone and don't blame anyone else for your autism then you do you.>>84238278>namefagging & interrupting selfopinion discarded, you deserve to be alone>>84238279>makes scenario up to justify why they're alone>>84238301>Translation: "I'm a social failure but I won't reflect on myself so I need to fetishize a race I view as exotic to make up for my lack of personality"Many such cases!>>84238887If a woman is boring or weird to you it's because she's not interested in you. You've told on yourself.I think I've outgrown this site. It's embarrassing at this point.
>>84239265>I think I've outgrown this siteThen leave already, normalfag
>>84239265>not interestednigga she made the first moveI have never made the first move, I have my own set of principles
Extreme fear of sexuality combined with social autism. It also doesnt help that Im ugly and fat khv nearing mid 30s. Theres no hope for me anymore.
>>84239265>initiatewhat do you expect me to say? what do you expect me to tell them when i am a neet and everyone has a phone? what do you expect me to do in my east asian corporate shithole? women are never going to have a conversation with me
>>84239265>opinion discarded, you deserve to be alonenuh uh
>>84239265I'm neither of these guys, but this makes me laugh.Yeah, the site's been dead for a while now. It's just like going back to the Chuck E Cheese that shut down a year ago across the street. Yeah, everything is still there, just not used or maintained anymore.
>>84239326I find these posters who go against the grain and call out the people in the entire thread so fun and I only wish for them to post again but they never do
>>84238175Haha tranny with big enough boobs to require a bra, woah she has a whole sausage and an ass built to breed.
>>84238194If you're autistic you need to be exceptionally good at something (something that normalfags understand, like if you make some weird niche art and you're really good, it won't matter because they don't understand what that means) to offset the autism points, then people will accept you, if you're just a mediocre normal person + autistic you're ngmi.
>>84239333adhd makes you unable to get good at something really well. adhd is like a recipe for failure.
>>84239338Depends, it makes you hyperfixate on things that you find fun, if those things can lead to success they can outweight every other downside that comes with it.
>>84239290>Makes the first move>Realizes you're as boring as a brick wall>Gets the ick and stops enthusing youMany such cases!>>84239308Learn to be more social. Not to try and get a girlfriend, but just to be more adventurous in life. If you're that socially stunted then get some books on socializing and do some exposure therapy. You're giving up before you even tried. >>84239326I view it more like going to a high school reunion and seeing that your former classmates still haven't matured. Like a classmate who still holds a grudge over a small thing. Just move the fuck on and grow up. The shit these anons complain about are things I whined about when I was 15, then I realized I have to take life in my own hands. Started going outside, excising, and forcing myself to be social. Now I feel much more at peace with myself. Sometimes I regress, but I know how what to do to be better.>>84239330Sometimes people think it's bait but I don't care to make separate posts to every single dumb post.
>>84239390Every time I tried it never led to anything. I don't want to be seen as odd, what do I start a conversation with when everyone has a phone or earpods on their ears? No girl would speak to me because they're all hermits who always spend time on phones. I doubt being more social would help me get anywhere because being asocial is a virtue here. Women hate anyone who never conforms. There is no point.
>>84238175Every woman I interact with acts hostile towards me, even if I've never met them before. I am inherently unlikable to women.
>>84238175>It's easy for a guy these days.
>>84238175what an exquisite bulge... but yeah, I don't need a girlfriend anymore
>>84238175I don't leave the house and talk to women
>>84239215Very very puffy vulva
>>84238175my drug and alcohol addiction. mostly my misogyny
>>84240764You don't have to be misogynistic
>>84239265>>Translation: "I'm a social failureI was. Now I'm good, got two ok groups of friends.>I need to fetishize a race I view as exotic to make up for my lack of personality"Not really, but I understand that it came across as that.I'm Spainard and want my partner to speak the same language I do.I'd prefer to date someone from here, but I wouldn't mind dating a LATAM foid as long as they're nerdy like me.
>>84238175>be fat>be alcoholic>still have girls coming over to my mother's house to hang out, drink with me and buy me weedI literally don't know how you retards can't do this.
>>84238175personality of a fish + autism
>>84242349Why don't autistic people just date each other?
>>84242773Because even autistic people don't like autistics. It's like trannies kvetching because nobody likes them.
>>84242828I'm autistic and prefer autistic people. So speak for yourself.
>>84242847Then answer why you aren't dating another tismo if you prefer them
>>84242870I am dating another autistic person.
>>84243044Please be real. I can only imagine the cute, awkward sex you two retards have.
>>84242773not even autistic people like me
>>84243078We are both trans as well and we frot
>>84243202Please don't be real :(The tranny mindvirus is destroying young autistic men.
>>84243213E cleared my acne which is a literal virus
>>84238175>Easy for a guy these days>Dating apps are a humiliation ritual with endless swiping, fat low quality women with insane demands, grifts, and attention-sucking narcissists>Social media not any better in my city, as the the average woman here has a very low IQ and just seeks some sort of primitive ape for a bf>Women met IRL on a literal college campus or at work are just playing games and/or already in relationships themselvesLiterally where?
>>84243222Estrogen can't cure acne, it can only suppress the symptoms which is primarily testosterone. I don't believe you're in a tistic tranny relationship tho
>>84243243For me, the solution is looking increasingly likely to only be moving the fuck out the States and finding a girl in the Philippines or something.
>>84243250Why would you not believe that it's called t4t
Racial demographics mostlyIf im not into dating outside my race or working in a job that is prominently female anymore i cant just summon a gfIts p simple
>>84243369Anon that's just being gay but whilst wearing women's clothing, growing your stringy, unwashed hair, and poorly applying face paint (make up)
>>84243387What is your race? What race are you looking for?
>>84238175Since this thread isn't done yet.My boss is flirting with me, and I don't try because I love money and can't just jump to a new job yet.
>>84238175>it's easy for a guy*its easy for chads, people with real jobs, and people without mental illness. None of which apply to me.
>>84238175Because I don't deserve one, because I hate myself and what I became.I just want peace and quiet until life finally runs out.
>>84243428Get over yourself and get a job then. You can change both of those things.>>84243431Why don't you deserve one? What did you do?
>>84243400Huwhite and an even genome spilt between french and scot Simply just a new world mutt like me Im not picky just no fats
>>84243439>get a jobI have one. I make about 45k a year. not even enough to get a 1 bedroom apartment in my area. good luck bringing a girl back to my shared house with 7 other roommates. not to mention I cant change my mental illness, which is the real problem. I am desperate for any sort of love and women know even when I try to hide it. I cant hide my immense self hatred. And men arent allowed to feel that way, it's never okay. Of course if I were a woman who felt the exact same way, it would be completely fucking irrelevant.
>>84243447How are you unable to get a yt girl when you live in a yt country? And don't bother with the coomer BBC gaslighting shit. Be normal.>>84243458Where do you live? What's your mental illness?
>>84243396All women would do irl yaoi in women's clothing if they have the opportunity
>>84243514>coom-brained babble by a man who wears a dress
>>84243504a gentrified suburban area in the deep south. Connected to a big city, basically the place where the people with money in the city go to to "get away" but still can commute to work. So there is fuck all that is affordable to rent for people like me unless you have friends or an SO to split rent with, and I'm completely alone. And my job while nothing special is way better than anything else I could get if I moved to some shithole with cheap rent. I COULD move to the shithole and commute to my job, but that would require buying a car and all the associated costs would be the difference between me saving 1-1.5k dollars a month to breaking even and saving nothing. I'd rather just save the money and not have a commute. Because even with my own apartment I'd still be alone. I have crippling depression and bipolar and likely borderline as well, and even though Im sober now I was a hardcore junkie for 10+ years which fucked me up big time. I will never be normal and its impossible for a man with a truly broken spirit and unavoidable daily depression to get a gf without being rich or stupidly good looking.
No women are willing to settle for men who don't make effort to become chads. Even if the man isn't a Chad and never becomes one, he at least has to have the ambition, the positive attitude, to agree that he should become a Chad, and have some vague plan to become a Chad. If he just outright rejects those ideals, and doesn't even pay lip service to becoming a "high value male", then women, the disgusting shallow pigs that they are, want nothing to do with the man
>>84243568Hank hill is very disappointed in you
>>84243504>How are you unable to get a yt girl when you live in a yt countryCity became a majority nonwhite city and i refuse to date jeet/pinoy/nammer/jamican womenWe burned a unicorn a decade ago and im not going to settle for a woman outside my race
>>84243620Cars don't cost 1.5k a month anon, even with these oil prices.>I will never be normal and its impossible for a man with a truly broken spirit and unavoidable daily depressionI don't agree with this. It sounds like you're creating a self-fulfilling prophecy here. You can overcome depression and unless you were a methheead who melted his brain there's probably nothing lasting other than ugly marks on your arms.>>84243650Are you in London anon?
>>84238175>What's possibly even stopping you from having a girlfriendMy wife
>>84243797Why don't you let her have a boyfriend? Then you can both be happy.
>>84243779L O N D O NO NDONnah surrey BC The city that forces men to fuck at 16
>>84243779>meth head who melted his brainthats exactly what I was. and I was already fucked in the head before doing any of that. its been a year and a half of no drugs at all now and Im still just a shell of a human being. >cars dont cost 1.5k a monthI did a lot of stupid shit when I was using. insurance alone is going to cost me like 600 a month. a note is easily a couple hundred more, if I could even get approved for one as I have no credit whatsoever, another side effect of wasting my life on drugs. Could easily become 1000 a month. Theres just no point. I have a gun and Im just waiting for the day my dad passes away so I can finally use it.
>>84243808>surrey BC>700k population>nah it can't be half foreigners>look it up>it's trueWhat the fuck nigger. I'm sorry. Why does Canada seem to hate itself?>>84243822I'm sorry for you too anon. Granted, 1.5 years after brainfucking yourself for a decade isn't a lot of time. You can still improve.
>>84243839>half foreignersIt is a majority nonwhite cityAnd it went from 90% human to sub 10% in 20 yesrsWelcome to demographic replacement
>>84238175I want someone woth experience similar to mine (little to none) and at least somewhat attractivemy problems are:1) women like this are fucking unicorns especially considering my age (32, I wouldnt mind big age gap but still)2) I literally have no idea where I could find someone like that, especially donsidering my tight social circle and general aversion to big social events3) I'm short and not particularly attractive
>>84238175I sperg out a lot and lie about stupid little things all the time to the point i have to ghost my friends every few years (when i have them) i just can't handle other people it overwhelms me.
>>84238175I gave my heart to someone else and they stomped on it and betrayed me. I dont want to get hurt again.
>>84238187>But Chudda what if-->It won't.
>>84244030Why aren't you forgiving you soulless cunt?
>>84238175right now, alot. >unhideable money problems I'm piss poor!!!>burnt out social battery, a conversationalist until I suddenly no longer have the energy.>trust issues from past relationships.>in bad living situation that is a continual drain of money and mental fortitude.>no status, training for anything important really. still on first year of college at 21.>can't really find type of person who can appeal to my needs at the moment, and considering my locale I doubt I will here at all. >militant mind that can't allow itself to become comfortable or relax. sometimes manifests itself psychomatically. >pothead.>manwhore.>no hope for my future really.
Depression. It started in highchool. I am 26 now and I still lack the energy to go out there and meet people. Just maintaining myself and working requires 110% of my energy. My house is in disarray because I lack the energy to properly take care of it. So when and how am I to meet people?
>>84244030Are you more afraid of being alone or being happy?
>>84238175It's not worth the effort believe me>Feminist bitches>Or crazy bitches>Boring in bed bitches>Authoritative bitches>Never satisfied bitchesI'm tired of having to entertain a fucking mental child on top of all the things I need to achieve. I don't see the point. Pussy is overrated most of the time, I just long for some of the girls that blew my nuts out but that's it and they were not gf material
>>84238191Incel well poisoning to make you feel hopeless and never even try. Probably a paid russian bot.Women love men very much and they're desperate for boyfriends.
>>84245565Nope and i don't believe your though
>>84245371What? No, she hurt me. The heck. >>84245538Letting myself be happy again and then having it tore away from me again. I am trying to work on myself but I cannot help but think about her and whenever I do I just get so angry and depressed taking me back to step one over and over again. Thanks S.
>>84239215i have the same question
>>84245565Regardless I am only attracted to Asian women in a majority Hispanic county so it is going to be a while before I can get an Asian qt
lol is incetears still making threads like this on here after all these years? they still write the same way
>>84238175of course autism; why is it even a question these days? r9k is just the autism hubi don't believe anyone with autism ever reproduced in history, it's the worst psychiatric illness in existence; not even an iq three SDs above the median can compensateeither they're massively overdiagnosing children these days or there is some newy introduced factor fucking up brain development
>>84246514Women getting children way later on is a very resonable explanation
>>84246514I autistic and I never had a gf! I hope two get one one day
>>84246704No it's not that doesn't cause autism
>>84245371>forgive the people who threw into the trash your trust and feelings and try again in a dating scene were women have >>>>>>>> more experience than men by the time you become desirable enough for their standars. Nah, fuck company
>>84247206https://doi.org/10.1093/ije/dyt262
>>84248020It is sad how brief the fertility window is for humans. The whole reproductive system is so fucked and inefficient
>>84248064It's pretty wide. Technically since your teens until menopause for women, so that's a good 20-30 years of wear and tear on the babymaker, and way wider for men. This wasn't an issue when women didn't have the luxury of postponing pregnancy, but that did come at a cost.
>>84248161Men postponing working and building wealth is also an issue. The whole education system needs to be reworked.
>>84248180Unaffordable housing and bad governing leading to centralization is also an issue, the entire government and lobbying needs to be reworked
>>84248289>could only afford house approaching 30s>gf also now in her 30s>can now have kids, but autism ahoyJej this is fun
>>84248354better late than later>t. late 30s no gf no own place no social life
