If you are over the age of 25 and have never done anything with a woman despite wanting to, it is over. Just give up. You are too far gone and no woman will ever like you. Either make peace with it or kill yourself.
>>84251657*27-28 but otherwise agreed
>>84251672Nah 25 is when it starts getting unacceptable to women
im in the weird position where i could have had sex and women did like me even when i was a teenager but i mess it up every time i come a breath away from becoming intimate in any way. i havent even tried with a woman in a long time because theres something off with me. probably has something to do with me getting molested as a kid
>>84251657>despite wanting toIt wasn't until my 30s that I actually wanted to so I guess it's not over yet.
>>84251657yeah I know. I've given up, just trying to find a good cope so I don't feel like killing myself.
define "wanting to"if your thoughts on the matter boil down to "ehh, it'd be nice" but not really trying that hard to get a gf, it's possible as long as you start actually tryingif you already were trying, then either radically change what you're doing or you're just totally fucked
>>84251657I've never really felt upset about still being a virgin at 27 personally. It's only ever been other people who go out of their way and ostracise me in social settings for it. The bad feelings are never internal, always external. And when I learn to truly stop giving a fuck about what others think then the world is mine.
What if I have done stuff with girls, multiple girls at that, so I'm not really an incel, but I am definitely still a virgin, because I'm waiting until marriage, but now my girlfriend is an ex girlfriend because she left me, and now I'm 27, almost 28, and a virgin by choice, and single again?Imagine it like this, you have three Apple Watches sitting on the display counter at Best Buy. Apple Watch 1 would like to share a bluetooth signal with Apple Watch 2, but isn't sure if that's possible because he hasn't been used by a customer yet, even though he has been tested by the employees, and Apple Watch 3 has the same passcode as 1 and 2 but won't be unlocked just because someone put the code into Apple Watch 1. You understand what I'm saying, here?
>>84251657Pretty much. It's a lot easier to smash bitches who are out of your league when you're young
>>84251657Kinda this, except use escorts. I have since I was 21. It is crap, but still better than virginity.
30never had my own roomnever bought my own clothesnever had sexnever asked anyone out (unless anonymous online account counts, then 1000+ rejection)never had a friendnever managed to get a job
>>84252337Same but 31 and I had 1 friend. So we're kiiiinda even.
>>84251657Yes I did "want" a gf. That doesn't mean I actually did anything about it, even when they showed obvious interest I was too anxious and autistic to function around normalfags. Notice how normalfags (OP included) can't discern between wanting and actually acting, because in their mind if you wanted it you must have acted, why wouldn't you? They're so normal that they can't think of any other reason why you would fail even in the case of wanting and girls actually showing interest.
>>84251815Same (except the molested thing lol). As a teenager I was a volcel, could've had sex with multiple (hot and cute might I add) women but it never worked out.Now I'm 21, I'm too old for this. I'll never meet the one person I want to be with. I don't have women friends no more so even harder.
>>8425270021 is far from old nigga
>>84251657Are you above 30?
>>84252714Oh really? Where do I met a non nerdy foid as a grown ass man.Let me tell you, there's no place for that.
>>84252731>>84252700Fuck I meant non normie*
I never held a girls hand and i am 26 i will never get over it though because it wasn't my fault
>>84251815>>84252700Same, i rejected everyone because i didn't see a future with any of them, not to mention they were the kind of women you sleep with a couple of times and then cut contact.
>>842516724% virgin at 40 is a lot desu. to put that in perspective if youre top 4% in say valorant, youre barely past diamond rank, not that impressive.i wanted to feel more special desu
I wish i was white all this problems start with this
>>84252901The data is not broken up by sex, so most of them are probably frigid women.
I had seggs for the first time at 28 with another virgin. It isnt over.
>>84251657Shit gets over the moment you finish High School and you really cant cope with uni or job
Why do people keep making these incel demoralization threads full of lies?
At 27 i also thought it was completely over, i gave up on trying to impress and attract women. Then i met a girl on discord, that i thought i obviously dont have chances with too, i was just chating with her and i lucked into her being obsessed with me.Had the whole thing of cute dates, sexual tension of being nervous with butterflies to touch inappropriatly turning into free use, grabing her ass under pants whenever i felt like it.The thing i have to say is:>its alrightBut it's no depression curing, life solving, purpose giving thing chud-cels, like i used to be, put it out to be. After a month of a super high you realise that all the same issues persist, if you were lazy/depressed/unmotivated it will still persists, only now you have a foid's feelings to take care of too and you need great patience and time for that. There will be days where she will ask to erp over text and you'd rather play games, but you have to do it or the inevitible "you dont love me anymore" crashout will come.The most important thing i learned is in a weird sense normies were right. >Relationships are nothing specialBut from the incel perspective it's the most important valdiating thing ever, once i got it it became nothing special. Even if i am single now i dont obsess or care for relationships anymore. Yet at the same time 5 years ago nothing could convince me of the beliefs i have now. I think that is the best thing i got from that relationship, freedom from the obsession of gender and dating dynamics.
>>84252740Depends on where you live. Go to anime conventions and meet ups and shit. If you're in university, there are nerdy societies you can join.
>>84251657>If you are over the age of 25 and have never done anything with a woman despite wanting to, it is over. Just give up.I had my first kiss (and everything that comes after that) at 28 due to being a morbidly obese NEET up until that point, where I got a job and lost weight. I did alright in the hookup/dating market after that.You can unfuck your life as long as the reasons it's fucked are identifiable and fixable
>>84253178>Find another woman into me on discord>Lives across the planet>Get too scared to fly over>Give up, break up and cease contactI fucked up, didn't I?
>>84251657It's very easy to make peace with it, if you feel a need you just have a wank really. The real fear is growing old without nobody at your side for support
>>84253195Anime conventions in 2026 are filled with a bunch of annoying normies. If you aren't getting laid IRL, you won't get laid there
>>84253677More proof that fatcels and neetcels are fakecels. I bet you're white.
>>84255083It doesn't matter at all, you need to put yourself out there and talk to people. Nothing will happen otherwise
>>84251657damn i got 5 more years to do something then
>>84253195I'm Spanish, and there's nothing like that near where I live. I wouldn't mind taking the train (or go by car, when I get my license) to go to those events, the problem is that I'd be going by myself.Isn't it weird to go solo? I mean everyone goes with their friends I guess, but mines aren't into that sort of stuff. >>84253722Online, long distance relationships usually don't work out, take that as you will.
I m 25 and autistic it hard two do good speaking to them though
