Hot take: Women that were in really long term relationships and then broke up with their boyfriends have more "baggage" than the girl that just had casual situationships and sex throughout her life but no real relationship.On one of them she has a guy she is actually in love with, who can take you back from you at any time, and that is just using you as a way to move on from him. The other is more likely to actually give you a real relationship and you'll be able to make more of an impact on her emotionally.
I agree with you OP. A long term boyfriend can do a number on a woman's head, especially if he dumps her. She's unlikely to get over it. I was with a woman with a body count of 2, but her first boyfriend was an actual NPD who dumped her repeatedly, used her for sex for years while having another girlfriend, and basically abused her endlessly. She was really not but not smart. She was completely ruined by the experience. She cheated on the second boyfriend with the first and fucked the first one after he was married, because she felt she has to do whatever he said. Needless to say our relationship went very badly. I dated another girl with a body count of 10, but only one serious LTR that she broke off due to lack of attraction. She had never had an orgasm in any of the short term relationships and all 10 of the guys were dumped by her and in love with her. She had issues and would dump anyone who actually liked or loved her. Therapy fixed it and she was an amazing girlfriend who was extremely trustworthy and healthy
Hot take: I shant bother with either type of whore
>>84271804That guy she was with before must have been something special. That's high level manipulation. Like dude must have knocked that pussy into a comma on the regular to have her acting like that.
>>84271808Those are your options if you're dating a woman over 21. Too many of you guys keep on larping like you'll find some cute, untouched women when even fat ugly autistic women have double digit body counts.Too many guys think the LTR girl is better because she has a "low body count" but likely her level of trauma is actually higher than the girl that just slept around
>>84271720Yeah if you can't get a virgin you might as well get a Bonnie Blue It's not like 3-4 boyfriend cocks are good, so you might as well go for the woman that slutmaxxed, chances are she won't remember the cocks she had lmao
>>84271720yeah i agree, serial monogamists are worse than sluts. at least sluts have a chance to experience real connection emotionally (obviously sex is meaningless to them at that point). serial monogamists aka most roasties are not just used up sexually but also mentally and emotionally. youre just the 6th-7th "love of her life", everything she feels for you she felt for many other men and probably more
>>84271809You really are just thinking with your dick.It's not just sex. It is daddy issues. A woman can have fucked up expectations for male behaviour based of a traumatic childhood.
>>84271841Correct, you can never be memorable to her. She'll date you for a few months and then a year later she'll forget you ever existed.
>>84271720Wtf is this cosplay? just asuka's suit with the ass cut out? whats the point in this? since when did cons just become other places for women to act like its onlyfans?
>>84271921Ever since anime became mainstream, these cons aren't even worth going to post-COVID. Like maybe a third of the people are true fans, a third are entry level shonenwatchers, and a third are just straight up normies that want to be whores.People say the conventions in Japan have the "old school" feeling, but they're all in Japanese.>>84271846True, but dick does more harm to her than emotional trauma will. I would much rather help a virgin girl navigate a fucked up childhood than a woman that is dickmatized by her ex.
also, almost for sure the ex-relationship girl will have had a lot more sex
>>84271921Have you not met women before?
>>84271809>>>84271804 (You) #>That guy she was with before must have been something special. That's high level manipulation. Like dude must have knocked that pussy into a commaShe actually couldn't cum with him. There was something more going on. She was not a smart woman and had very low self worth. She got spanked constantly as a child and sort of just let people decide for her what her life was going to be like. But she was also mean as fuck. She basically took the second boyfriend and abused him as hard as she could. You know how a dumb person who gets bullied just bullies someone else to feel better? The guy was a half Asian fat dick head. I actually told his wife that he cheated on her and blew up his life. He deserves it for messing her up, which made my life difficult. What goes around comes around. He's a fat bald loser at this point. His claim to fame is cheating on the only decent woman he ever got
>>84271941>I would much rather help a virgin girl navigate a fucked up childhood than a woman that is dickmatized by her ex.If I could post a picture of this retard you would understand how off you are on this. I'm not saying that isn't a problem that happens but that is not the game this guy was running. It was more like petulant narcissistic manipulation.
>>84271957True, likely had it outside, in the car, in the bushes, in the ass, and did everything and everything.hookup girl likely was just sexually involved with a few chads.
>>84271804this is why widows were buried with their husbands in traditional societies, it's only natural
>>84271964shitty ass millennials
>>84271826>It's not like 3-4 boyfriend cocks are good, so you might as well go for the woman that slutmaxxed, chances are she won't remember the cocks she had lmaoI would say women regret 95% of the hookups they have or can't remember them well enough to actually compare you to him. Hookups and one night stands are absolutely disgusting, but if you're up against three or four attractive and impactful ex-boyfriends, that's a lot worse than double the number of hookups.There's always going to be something the ex-boyfriend did better than you. Better conversation, better sex, more fun, more money, taller, stronger, better arms. Better eyes. It could be anything. I still think of the best bjs and best ass I ever got
>>84272095Depends anon. Some women have hooked up with celebs and athletes and those hookups stay with them. Most of them though are just drunk flings and don't matter
>>84271720butt full of pooppoop butt sags
>>84272095Worst girls have 10-15 partners. 1-19 is second worst. 0, or 100+ are where the quality is found.The 100+ girl is in a relationship with you for reasons other than the way you make her pussy feel, these reasons are probably pretty stable over time.The virgin might stick it out with you, the lowish bodycount girl doesn't have a statistical sample and hasn't worked through her FOMO yet. She will for sure leave.
>>84271720>The other is more likely to actually give you a real relationship and you'll be able to make more of an impact on her emotionally.The other doesn't understand what love is
Women really go outside looking like this at cons and wonder why men objectively them.
>>84272487The 100+ girls always have other issues, but you're dead on about how they're over FOMO so you don't run the risk of her trying to "see what's out there" or whatever girl's say these days to justify cheating.
I just hate all women tbqhwya
>>84271720I ain't gonna lie 9/10 tomes i am taking the slut. As long as they are self aware and are willing to bring me a good time that i can give a shit about their past.
Someone said that manwhores can never be happy in relationships. They can get an amazing woman, and they'll still want to fuck other women even if she's perfect
I don't even care about this point. I just want someone who will love me.
>>84274004that is the point of this point. is she more likely to actually love you if she's a 3-5 count monogamist or a 30-50 count slut with no previous relationships
>>84274040I'm saying, I don't care what the actual answer is. I'll take either or whatever is in between so long as we actually care about each other.
>>84273790no woman is perfect and anyway the theoretically perfect woman would actively recruit other sluts for me to fuck, rendering it impossible for me to cheat on her
>>84271720Here is something you haven't considered: sex bonds you to people, so the casual sex woman is probably pretty damaged and unable to pair bond, but it is what it is. It's unlikely to have had sex with many people and not had a relationship with at least one of themI get your point, though, and agree to some degree, but there are ways to screen if she has truly moved on
>>84274095>but there are ways to screen if she has truly moved onNot OP, but what are they?
>>84271820That anons still rightAll youre saying is that most women are trash now
>>84274244Watch out for>Having her exes on social media or any sort of contact with them>If she makes comments about them at all>If she compares you to any ex and verbally expresses it, that's a turbo red flag, even if the comparisons seem favorable>She intentionally frequents social circles or events where the exes are still around, doesn't avoid them. Unless it's work (and even then, there are solutions), this is 100% intentional to keep a door open>Keeps gifts or things given to her by exesAlso, and maybe most important: if you're dating a girl whose last relationship was less than a year ago, the chances of her coming back to an ex are kinda high, unless it was a very short and not so meaningful relationship. For a relationship of several years the proper time to get over someone, before being ready for a new relationship, is at least a year, in my opinionAfter having some experience it's really easy to detect it, just trust your guts. You'll know when a girl isn't 100% in the relationship
>>84271809I have an ex who apparently has told people a similar tale about me.Thing is, she never mentioned this boyfriend she was forced to cheat on.So we fuck for a few months while she's working out-of-town near me, job ends, she goes back home, a couple weeks later I see on her social media some guy has taken her out to her favorite sushi place to celebrate their "one year anniversary".She probably never mentioned him because a) she didn't realize that guy thought she was his girlfriend and/or b) she knew I'd tell her to focus on her new guy and refuse to sleep with her.
>>84271720That seems pretty obvious to me, cornpop.
>>84271720>Women that were in really long term relationships and then broke up with their boyfriendsis this a tiktok thing of the current now time?
not a hot take everyone already knows this (it also applies to men)however if the woman isn't legitimately retarded or ugly then she either wasn't the one who initiated the past breakups or wasn't very affected by them so she probably doesn't care anymoret. woman who has dated people
>>84274095sex does not bond you to people. you're just more likely to have sex with people you bond with.
>>84271720>Hot takeEither way, they are all fucked in the head and insufferable.I just want to have lots of sex, but I am trapped forever as an incel.Even if I get a chance, it's certain that I have to deal with a landmine.
>>84271720It's actually more important how her past relationships went. A long-term relationship doesn't necessarily mean a healthy one, and a short-term relationship doesn't mean she necessarily doing one night stands.
>>84271720>It's more disgusting to sit in one shit for a long time than sitting in several shits for a short time I'm not sure what your point is here, neither are wanted
>>84274056amen brototype
>>84271804I know exactly what you went through and what kind of a girl the first one you are describing is because i had the same experience.Back when i was 19 i got together with this 21 year old girl, i had some hookups and shit, but this was my first girlfriend, and holy shit i was so blindly and madly in love. And she only had 1 previous boyfriend, so not a slut too, awesome. Well the problem was that the 1 previous boyfriend was exactly this dynamic. A turbo abuser who completely rewired her head and ruined her mentally for probably the rest of her life. She was desperately addicted to him and his word was gospel no matter how bad it got.We stayed together for about a year and a half, she cheated on me with him for about a year of that relationship. The first couple of months i had genuinely no idea, there were signs, but i was just so blind to them, because love. Then i just flat out caught them. She was saying sorry and crying and saying how she hates herself and is trying to quit, and stupid me i wanted to help her on that journey and forgave her. Half a year more of her constantly cheating anytime he ordered her to bend over was the most painful time of my life, but i just kept falling for her crying face and pleads that she loves me not him and is trying to fix herself. Then the dudes gf dumped him, and he wanted her to break up with me and get back together with him, which she did. Wanted to lowkey kill myself after that shit. Thankfully i recovered and got together with my current wife who is an angel. I cut all contact with her but if she is still alive, i doubt she is any better.
