Anyone else feel like they're in a kind of limbo when it comes to forming relationships? I dont mean just dating, friendships too. I'm too normal to be able to hang out with oldfags or talk to people in 4chan discord servers, but I'm not normal enough to be with people IRL. 4chan is the only place I can make friends on, talk to people, and just have fun on. I can just let go and fuck around here. IRL, I'm nervous and can't really make friends, and the people I do hang out with still see me as the weird one. If I wasn't there at all, people wouldn't really care. I want friendships irl, I want to date someone irl, but the only people who I like, and the only people I can actualy have fun with are online. I'm tired of online shit, but I can never get something in real life. So I'm too weird for irl, but too normal for 4chan, I want real IRL relationships but I'm too awkward for thoes. I dont know what I'm supposed to do anymore. At this point, I'm settling for online only shit. But it never feels real. I get forgotten about when they find someone cooler, or they're just looking for a quick fuck/sext. I obsess over people, talk to them all the time, because I literaly have no one else, but that just drives people away. Anyone else like this? How the hell do you fix it.
>>84272057you will never have a middle school or high school level friendship as an adult. i don't personally believe that's possible. any contrary example is just one person being an emotional sponge for another person or another person taking up a burden. your best bet is to join a band, unironically.
You stop pretending you're speshul and learn to deal with people irl.
>>84272080I ain't special? I just don't know how to talk to people. How tf do I learn in the first place? If I go out and just try to make friends I just weird people out and fuck it up>>84272076No bands in my area sadly :/ I used to be a singer for a band back in HS but that shit went nowhere.
>>84272161>No bands in my area sadlyif you live in the middle of nowhere and are complaining about this i don't know what to say to you
Man fuck it. Only way to grow is to try. I'm tired of being alone. I guess the only way is, yea, just fucking go for it. Crying aint gonna solve shit.>>84272080Thanks bro, I honestly needed someone to tell me to get over myself.
