Is there a point to trying to use dating sites and apps if you're an older NEET hermit with nothing going on in your life? Or would it just be debasing myself with an embarrassing digital footprint for no tangible gains? Can someone just get lucky by not being hideously ugly and finding some weird person that finds that lame "sadboy" routine of extreme authenticity about being a mentally ill loser endearing?My attempts at fixing myself always fail, medication doesn't work, doctor says my T levels are fine and that there isn't anything medically wrong with me. Is it time to just roll the dice and see what happens? I feel like one of the only people on the planet that has never really used any traditional social media in the modern era including dating apps. The only things I know about them are from reading about people complaining here and online.I'm not especially lonely but I find my life to be extremely boring as a shutin.
I doubt it, I'm ashamed of my life, I cringe at the thought of trying to meet someone with like a real life. Plus what would I even talk about. It's called over for a reason.
Force yourself to go outside for your sake first, on a dating site you know you have nothing to offer.
>>84273273What does "go outside" mean in this context? I've gone outside regularly for all of my adult life to hike and exercise. I already do all the things people recommend to "escape" depression, and it just sounds absurd when I hear people talk about them. I brush and floss, I workout, I fast and eat properly, I routinely spend time in nature, I've had a strict sleeping schedule for over a decade.I don't know why people expect that to have any notable impact on the lifestyle of a NEET. I still ultimately just want to chill at home. I still have that underlying core apathy towards the typical productivity milestones normal people feel organically driven towards.
