>>84273553
Your anxiety is holding you back. Get a valium script and chill.

>>84273570
idk i am anxious but also its not rly all of it? i was eased at first before recognizing how everything i say just sucks and doesnt land. like its a skill issue.
would anti-anxiety meds make me better at talking? do i go tell psych im scared of talking?

>>84273607
Yeah being calm is important. Valium helped me immensely when talking to girls. Then just be yourself.

>>84273626
how bad was it at first? sry for interrogation just feel inhuman for sucking at simple talking

>>84273553
I was the only boy in my high school who girls didn't want to dance with. Anyways after a lot of trauma recovery I've made peace with being a hikkineet.

>>84273670
feels sad af, i hope you really are at peace if so.
tbdesu i wouldnt even try girls due to being blackpilled too much. fag tendencies are saving me, otherwise id be the same way

>>84273686
I joined the latter-day saints. The whole "we are in the world, but not of the world" doctrine sold me, hoping the women are different.

>>84273692
nice i guess, religion can be a good cope
>hoping the women are different
u mean latter day saints ones? were they any different?

>>84273710
They also rarely, if ever, talk to me, so not really.
Now I hang around for the Jesus.

>>84273653
Everyones experience is different but I found it way easier to open up on valium. It wasn't hard at all.

>>84273782
okie thanks ill make psych appointment then once not scared to do so.. how were u before u took valium?

>>84273800
I was an anxious wreck with women.

>>84273553
get drunk and stay drunk
>>84273570
its this, after 5 to 10 years of alcoholic training you will have developed good, carefree and low anxiety social habits

>>84273860
the only few times ive been drunk i wanted to kill everyone around me in a chud rage lol