>>84281383
Hormones are a double edged sword. They make women mentally unstable but also lead to the best sex.

>>84281383
Pretty much everything r9k says about women is right, but they take to the extreme and also assume the worst in every possible way.
>Women are naturally submissive
>Women are naturally promiscuous
>Women are natural liars
>Women are naturally vain
>Women follow a hivemind
>Women are naturally followers
It's when you can see the good side of all these things will you realize how important women are for men (and vice versa ofc) and find peace with them. We must learn to love and hate women with a balance.

>>84281383
Your spare time and money will be reduced to zero, enjoy your hobbies now while you still can. You have to mind what you say and they have specific annoying quirks that you just have to smile and nod to.
The sex is overrated

Women want to be seen as the prize in the relationship. Anything that messes up this dynamic makes them act out.

>>84281383
They will talk and talk about the most boring shit but it's best to shut up and pretend to be listening so you get pussy. She knows you're not listening to her rambling but can't stop herself.

Don't give avoidant people a chance, they are trash.

>>84281383
Almost all of them love being choked during foreplay and sex. The wettest pussies I have ever touched were on women I was choking roughly. Only exceptions are if they have a past traumatic experience with choking or you are retarded and do not know the correct way to do it (only squeeze the sides of their neck to avoid hurting the windpipe in the middle of the neck).

>>84281437
>Only exceptions are if they have a past traumatic experience
I know this kind but it applies to all kinds of pain. Sex has to be slow, very, very slow and to her pace or she'll start crying and has to stop.
Childhood violence isn't good

>>84281383
Setting boundaries is essential for social cohesion. When you let your boundaries be stepped on or aren't clear about them and what you personal needs are, you're gonna have a bad time. Insecure women (and gays) like to press those boundaries. Either avoid those people, or be firm in your needs/demands and leave them without looking back if they don't acquiesce.

>>84281383
>Anons who've actually had a gf, what something you learned about women from the experience?

She treats you as she would her Father. She's still the little girl who wants daddy to take her to the fair and win her a prize plushie on the shooting galley. Just scale up that to more adult things like expensive bags and overseas trips and such.

And she tests you like like a child tests their Parents. You'd probably learn more about how to handle women from SuperNanny than anything the PUA guys talk of.

>>84281431
>They will talk and talk about the most boring shit
Just the same as I watch a Father biking his daughter home from school, shes just endlessly talking of what she did that day and the Dad is like "mmhm".... "mmhm"

>>84281383
You're better off jorking to anime girls.

>>84281383
they can hide their true selves for years
they will ruin their own life despite having every opportunity to better themselves, purely out of spite and sloth
"submissive" women are mostly crazy control freaks

>>84281486
if she's spoiled by Daddy, run the fuck away

>>84281383
Refuses to clearly communicate but expects you to be upfront about everything
Constant need for attention and validation
nag nag nag nag
Sex is just a tool to reel you in, not something to sustain
Shit tests for no real reason
Zero accountability, excuses for everything
Whining about coworkers for hours apparently counts as interesting discussion
nag nag nag nag

Fucking drained me but in all the worst ways. No sex is worth that shit

I learned that time spent with them didn't really trump time spent with myself. I never in my life was like "oh i wanna go hang out with this girl because I want to be around her for her", it was rare, like my friend's sister from the 90s was the last girl I wanted to be around but she smart, she was actually the person who introduced me to internet memes way back in the day.

>>84281383
You faggots are so depressing. My girl takes me out to dinner, listens well and is actually interesting because she's intelligent and educated. All you need to do is lay good dick and be thoughtful.

they actually need attention the same way we need exercise.
all the stuff about emotionality is real, they just feel more often/heavily than we do.
sex feels good to them, obviously, but it's not the same as for men. even though we're incredibly basic, they can't wrap their heads around what sex means to us (physically and psychologically).

of course there are exceptions. but it's a general pattern like saying "men find machines interesting."

>>84281383
the effect of cortisol lowering from skin to skin contact is insane and can actually fix you if you a mentally ill guy

>>84281383
Pushing 30 and I've had multiple girlfriends both irl and url. I'm just now starting to fully internalize how women actually are. The moment I started viewing everything as temporary and I stopped trying to make sense of things, was when I achieved some sort of peace. Women don't even understand themselves half the time. Their hormones make them insane and they care more about feelings than any sort of actual rational.

Avoid mixing women into anything you enjoy because women are naturally lazy parasites and will do everything possible to make their lives better at the expense of yours, because you're a man and you deserve to be used

>>84281553
relationships are pointless though. Okay, you have a good woman, so what? It doesn't solve life.

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>>84281383
That in general sex is one of if not the most important thing to a woman in a relationship. I used to be very bad at having sex, I had watch porn and masturbated twice a day since I was 15. Then when I got to 21 and went to have sex with my first gf I couldn't get it up. We tried again and I couldn't get it up. Then after that I couldn't get it up not just because I jerked to porn so much but because now I was worried about not being able to get it up, which makes it even more difficult to get hard.
This happened in maybe 3 relationships with women I had, they all left in the end. The thing is I was actually a really good boyfriend with the exception of the sex. The main takeaway is a guy who is bad in bed but "perfect" everywhere else will usually lose her. A guy who can consistently give her the intense, dominant, orgasmic sex she craves will keep her hooked much longer even if he is a dick or an objectively bad boyfriend

>>84281589
Most girls have the "Big Dick guy that pounded me into the floor" on speeddial if anything goes south for them.

Now what men have porn star bod girl that rode me like a bull on speed-dial, like fucking no one

>Women are too lazy to reach behind themselves to clasp their bra, they always do this weird thing where they hook it up backwards, and try to then spin it around on their body.
>I have learned that girl pee has a different smell than boy pee, and once you know this difference shared bathrooms get a lot more gross smelling.
>Girls complain just to complain, unless they're directly asking for help, don't offer advice how to fix things.
>Being right matters less than keeping her happy
>Girls with autism really do make for better gfs, they have far less of the regular mannerisms of neurotypical women

>>84281508
I felt this one on a personal level. True wisdom here

>>84281383
Theyre not worth it. if youre bisexual youre better off dating a man.

>>84281560
To the perpetual depressed and neurotic men this is very true

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>>84281560
low cortisol , you say?

>>84281956
go back to tiktok you niggerlover

>>84281900
>Women are too lazy to reach behind themselves to clasp their bra
I'm surprised they wear them at all when nipple shields are a thing. I had a gf who never wore bras and it was the best thing ever

>>84281383
They all love ass play

>>84281383
I've never had a girlfriend but I can tell by that fleshy fold at the top of her chest that those are really ugly flappy tits and I prefer if she didn't pretend she was worth anything.

>>84281554
I don't need exercise.

>>84281560
Women hoard those feel good hormones like serotonin within their own gender. This is highly obvious if you are observant. They don't want men to have those hormones. They feel privileged to dish them out in small doses if you are stupid and useful enough, aka their boyfriend. This is an obvious truth about women, those fuckwad dykes, and relationships.

>>84282318
Hence why a woman who hasnt been given attention for prolonged periods of time will be as neurotic and mentally ill as a shutin schizoid 4chan poster. There arent any women like this though.

>>84281589
wow not reading all that beta male dribble, look he even conditioned himself to be attracted to a fuckwad dyke lmao who's the butch in the relationship, buddy?

>>84282324
still not exercising

>>84282315
Nice to see a fellow titty connoisseur on here. It's so annoying that women get to fake everything with corrective underwear and push up bra's. That titty fold is at least a clear sign to steer away. They probably drop past her belly button when the top comes off.

>>84281383
They'll do anything for you if they think they're getting something out of it.

>>84282328
You sound as though you need help

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>>84282472
>They probably drop past her belly button when the top comes off.
Near enough

>>84281421
>makes them act out
they don't act out if you're hot

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>>84281931
more specifically
>"submissive" women are mostly crazy control freaks
if she is naturally submissive, you'll know because it will be extremely obvious and effortless.
if she *tells* you repeatedly that she is submissive, she's probably a nutcase.
also avoid women who read too much fanfiction/girlgooner smut. they are looking for a wealthy billionaire vampire werewolf prince to simp for them (aka they are crazy)

>>84281531
>Sex is just a tool to reel you in
some are too lazy for that, even.
recently had a girl tell me on the first date talk about her nasty ex that didn't brush his teeth and had a piss-encrusted toilet. then she casually mentions how they had a pregnancy scare.
then after several dates she tells me how she has issues with intimacy and i need to qualify to be her boyfriend first, and buying her shit will help her decide.
LMAO

>>84281383
What I learned is that everything about having a gf is highly overrated. The sex, cuddles, love, whatever, all of it is extremely overrated. Doesn't mean it's bad, it just means that, if you're anything like me, you will be initially disappointed by all of it.
>>84281411
Agree with all of these except the vain, promiscuous, and liars. Not all women have all of these, however most of them have at least one or two of them. Very rare to find a truly honest, chaste, and humble woman. All the other things stated here are true though.

Also when women lie, they usually tell half-truths, never full on lies, and for some reason, they always come clean over time. For example, the last girl I dated lied about her body count, even though she was the one who brought it up, and I gave no indication that I would even care that much what it was. First she said it was three, then a few months later she said she had a lesbian threesome, but didn't count either of those girls as a body. Then she revealed that she didn't count anything that wasn't penetration as a body. This is the kind of lying that women do, they tell you a half truth initially, and then reveal more details over time.

>>84281421
I married a woman that looks a lot worse than me, and she's more stable than any woman I've ever been with. It's so strange because it's patently obvious that I don't find her physically attractive, yet she treats me far better than any woman that I did fawn over. The moment she does anything even remotely annoying, burdensome or time consuming, I just fuck off and do whatever I want with no whining or complaints because she's scared to lose me. If you can stomach it, I'd recommend it.

>>84282912
I had this for awhile but fucked it up because I was too honest about not actually being attracted to her. I don't think she would have made a good gf or wife but it was nice having a woman actually fawn over me and not be a shithead manipulative bitch

God I hate being a woman I need someone to kill me so I can at least be of value to the soil where I will be buried

>>84282785
>What I learned is that everything about having a gf is highly overrated.
This really depends on which type of autism do you have
If you have the hyper sensitivity to touch, stoic, robotic autism then yeah I can see why you find these mid
But if you're like me and got the sensitive, affectionate and highly emotional autism then it's genuinely life altering everything that comes with the gf package.

>>84281383
I wish i had an gf

>>84281383
As someone that's only had a few month long e-relationship, the only times I've felt alive were when I was talking to girls

>>84281436
"avoidant" just means that they aren't into you that much

>>84285312
Nah I'm an avoidant dude and I've ghosted like almost ten girls I was very into

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>>84281401
can you not use phrases like "good sex" or "better sex" or "best sex" when not a lot of people even know what sex is?