>festivals full of high school girls >coffee shops full of high school girls >public venues full of high school girls>bars, clubs, concerts full of high school girls
After people graduate they used to meet each other through friends, like someone would have a get together and they would their friends and those friends would bring someone new and introduce them to everyone, but that doesnt seem to be happening anymore.
>>84298235In the US, dating apps unfortunately. Most are going to hoe around till they settle in their 30s.
take em to the bridge
>>84298256ah yes the normies with their hiking obesssions, I don't belong into that world.
>>84298275no i dont mean hiking thats some weird modern thing. im talking about like bbq parties on fourth of july and shit like that. no one gives a shit about doing that anymore, last 4th of july i barely even heard fireworks
I hate the inorganic sports and clubs groups people make just to try and date people lol pathetic.
>>84298289it is corny but theres really not many other ways to meet people today, so you either have to get over it being cringe to meet new people or dont do it
>>84298235I play badminton religiously every weekend for 4-6 hours at the gym with my friend from college and a woman has not approached me. Reddit said that I needed a hobby, and a woman would be a available, what's going on?
>>84298284Everyone's become very isolated and depressed. It's even worse when you live rural. 95% of people are already taken and established. Bars are usually just full of worn out old guys. I don't go to church. The dating apps are almost comically bad. Single moms with about 5 too many tattoos and piercings still getting 200 matches so it's about a 5% they'll even respond let alone try to hold a conversation. It's awful. I'm trying to find peace in solitude. It's not working.
>>84298235????? just date high school girls retard
>>84298310you need to join a public hobby group that has a decent ratio of men and women. Or you can try getting into a more lucrative private group by befriending someone in a public group.
>>84298329The gym itself has a balanced ratio of men and women. >lucrative It's badminton.
>>84298336By lucrative I'm talking the private friend groups people have that aren't tied to any hobbies and are not publicly advertised. At a certain age people just don't want to add new people to their friend group and everything is set in stone. I haven't been in a private friend group since middle school (10 years ago), fuck.
>>84298336gym girls (even the "ticc" aka fat ones) go for ripped gymbros, you can't be just a regular lean guy there exercising there and expecting to be seen as attractive as the whole culture is tipped in favoring extreme fitness. I'm a male version of an arthoe stuck in a enviroment where the male standard is outdorsy and sporty.
>>84298344So my badminton opponent and I are a lucrative friend group on account of us being reticent to newcomers and not being inherently partial to badminton. >>84298357Come to think of it, I've never seen a man and a woman meet up at the gym ever. I've never walked past something that seemed like a first time encounter. All couples in the gym seem to have gone in as couples to begin with.
>>84298344 I know at least 2 female virgins in their 20s. Both refuse to use OLD and have very few friends. One is autistic, the other one is kinda normal and cute, but socially kinda inept. They both have no idea I am an incel and think I'm some sort of a 'badboy'.
>>84298310>I play badminton religiously every weekend for 4-6 hours at the gym with my friendI went to badminton club recently too because I just like the game with no intent of socialsing .And unironically it's place where it's possible to find women. There are women of every age there and they seem to be well adjusted , ie they come to this hobby not for attention whoring but game and fitness.>and a woman has not approached me.You need to be top Chad for that and you would have such attention regardless of clubs, and anyway woken prefer to be asked not initiate yourself.
>>84298317>I'm trying to find peace in solitude. It's not working.Same here, I relate to what you said a lot. Dating apps are especially bad now. I'm a year out from the end of a 5-year relationship and having to go back into that whole scene is a horrifying prospect. Honestly, 50% of the time I'm content being by myself and the rest of the time I'm in existential terror. You can be single and have a fulfilling life, but the fulfilling life part seems harder than ever these days and society's been circling the drain for a while now.
>>84299024NTA but I absolutely love badminton and would do this just to stay active, but as far as women go, are they all Asians? I only want white girls.
>>84299024Badminton is very high quality cardio. It's also superior to pickleball because the shuttlecock doesn't roll off on its own. Pickleball players probably spend a fifth to a fourth of their time chasing after their ball, running around and disturbing the other court players. They're also really loud and annoying. True badminchuds patiently await the day of Total Pickleball Death >You need to be top Chad for that and you would have such attention regardless of clubs, and anyway woken prefer to be asked not initiate yourself.I've seen a chadstruck woman beam the fuck-me-eyes at a male acquaintance before. I know that women get infatuated with men and don't leave them alone. Just, I'm not one of those men.
>>84298235My parents find them for meI'm 18 and I'm looking to get married to a chick from back home
>>84299064>are they all AsiansImplying badminton is Asian codded sport (in US)?I am in Russia and they are mostly Russians. There is one very little bouncy asian girl, 20 about, ( Korean, Russia has Korean diaspora).
>>84298235I took salsa dancing lessons years ago, and unironically I did not do it for pussy, I just wanted finally learn how to dance and build confidence in myself. But yeah it ended up being a pussy magnet thing too. There were like 8 women per 1 man and every man was a senior citizen or a desperate short pajeet, so I was pretty much the pick of the litter there.
>>84299167Same except there wasnt a single woman below 50.Young women dont exist anywhere past university>>84298329>you need to join a public hobby group that has a decent ratio of men and women. Doesnt exist
>>84298235i thought that was a ukranian model or something but it's actually a filtered shitskin bimbo with bad implants lmao camera magic>>84298317rural is a video game 4chan hell I thought my friendly howdy doody neighbors would hook me up with prime puss but they are all degenerate zealots>>84299151your parent should be sending you to iran instead because that's pathetic and you should wait until 40 to marry if you surviveI'm going to have to sit on my ass for 24 upcoming hours on a plane to get decent human interaction but so be it
>>84298235I just go to the dog shelter. Bitches love bitches.
>>84299339This desu especially if you're volunteering. It's a win-win if you like animals; you get to feel good making the dogs' lives a little bit better and you also get swooned over by the 90% female staff at the shelter.