Porn has me jerking off to weird bdsm shit while the lifestyle itself creeps me out and I find it weird as shit and want nothing to do with those people. Isn't that weird? I've fallen into a kink I don't actually have because porn keeps it at a comfortable distance. Am I just sexually repressed? or is there a difference between what you want for yourself in the world of flesh vs net
>>84298608No. That is how most normal people function. Keep your fetishes out of real life or else you get trannies and furries and what not.
>>84298608>porn keeps it at a comfortable distancOh wow, that's a great way to put it into words. Anyway anon I'm the same, there's lots of stuff I like in terms of porn and fantasies, but I wouldn't wanna bring to real life. Real life has a lot of emotional, social and practical implications. It's fine to have fantasies you don't want to actually live out, as long as you are capable of drawing the line between them and the things that are actually fun to do IRL. Mind you, I mean a line that doesn't leave you unsatisfied. If it's something you NEED to feel satisfied then you have to understand yourself a bit better.
>>84298608It's no big deal. This applies to a bunch of shit. I like watching action movies. I don't plan to be an action hero in real life because everything they do would just result in prison, death or being crippled for life.
>>84298608>Isn't that weird?No.>Am I just sexually repressed?It depends on what you're into.>or is there a difference between what you want for yourself in the world of flesh vs netthere is a difference between BDSM and other kinks. BDSM is already 4 words in one. You don't have to enjoy all of them to be into one of them.For example, if you enjoy light bondage as your picrel suggests it doesn't automatically mean that you enjoy masochism too.The community is huge and ficiton, including porn, portrays a false picture of by usually ignoring all of the boundaries, and so on, of the participants. BDSM doesn't work like that IRL.And it is different from say anal. Because anal is quite clear. Means anal sex. BDSM means like hundreds of kinks and fetishes combined into one abbreviation.
i think that it is called gooning
>>84299363speaking of the devil. The stuff that's usually depicted on these BDSM videos seem borderline hellish, taken straight and being worthy to be in a horror movie in most cases.But like you said earlier, enjoying light bondage doesn't mean you like the twisted predicaments most of these videos / albums / doujins depict
>>84299325but im very unsure repression actually works at all. there's a reason they have those feelings. there's something living in them. i don't believe someone can just act like its not there and theres a quote i want now but forget that goes something like if you try bury something it will only come back but uglier. thrill seekers are something else. they're just rats looking for the next dopaminergic hit and they burn out fast -when the thrill is gone because they successfully confronted the primal mystery and conquered it (for this, i give you the sandworms of dune) only to must find another one all over again like a curse each horror more grotesque than the last until they slowly die of fatigue. no matter what they must confront their mystery face to face head on.
>>84298608>Am I sexually repressedI've been asking myself the same question. I've been thinking about something I probably wouldn't want to do IRL, but the idea turns me on.
porn fantasies are just porn fantasies. Like an orgy. Do you really want to be in an orgy? Looks nice on screen but that would be so awkward irl unless youre some extreme hedonist
>>84299517The only real problem with that lifestyle is that most people who do it are old. Same with cucking.
>>84298608>keeps it at a comfortable distancethats the point of pornography itself as a medium retardall anti porn retards are 90 IQ gooners
>>84299696even if it was like hot 20 year olds like in porn.... i dont want to be in an orgy. i would never want to be in a room with another naked guy having sex. thats just gay
>>84299830It's just the same level of gay as looking at porn. You know the old question. When you look at porn, do you want the women to fuck a guy with a small dick or a big dick?
>>84299880theres a significant difference between watching porn on a screen and being in the middle of an orgy and there are naked guys with dicks right next to you fucking...
>>84299893They aren't fucking you. I get the feeling you were one of the kids who didn't shower after Gym Class.
>>84299919i get the feeling youre bisexual
>>84299817>all anti porn retards are 90 IQ goonersshallom goldberg
>>84299924I am what they call a unicorn.
>>84298608It's pretty common most affliction. Most furrys wouldn't actually fuck a bipedal dog. All those fart fetish and feet fetish guys wouldn't actually like stinky flesh in their face in real life. Imagination is a hell of a drug and fantasies always beat reality. It's not really that complicated.
>>84299963it happens to women too. theyll read all that shit about rough degrading porn and then try it and realize they hate it
>>84299976I've always tried to explain to my friends and other people. As someone who had a pretty rough rape kink and then raped IRL they were two very different situations.
>>84299995i think women get into all that rough porn because regular porn has no emotion to it, its genitals plapping into each other with bad acting. thats good enough for guys but for women they need to feel some emotional reaction to get horny even if they dont exactly like what theyre watching, they probably get all confused about it too
>>84300028but women do have biological urges tied to the literal fact they are all trying to make sure their grandchildren and great grandchildren are strong and fit. lets not say they only have psychological imperatives. they still have an attraction to tangible, physical traits.
>>84300081That's not how that works. First off, you guys don't really understand Nietzsche's Superman statement, or that Alpha doesn't really exist. The biological things that are made to attract one another are things like smell.
>>84300100>Rat sexuality is deeply interconnected with their sense of smell, which serves as the primary driver for mate selection, reproductive synchronization, and sexual arousal.what you're thinking of is rats. thats how a rat has sex. anything else you'd like to share?
>>84298608There's a difference between BDSM as in something that stays in the bedroom and BDSM as a lifestyle. Especially in Gen Z where all kinds of kinks get spammed all over social media without people even being aware of the safety concerns, safewords etc. I like to call the bedroom people "vanilla+". Most of them are into: -light bondage-being called Daddy-light choking (even though this is a more hardcore kink which somehow made it to normfag spaces)-rough fucking-hairpulling-using vibrators and other toys-maybe some spannkingVanilla+ ppl don't need these things, they are just a means to spice up the sex.There's a more pornbrained version of this people in the BDSM community like to call fakedoms. Essentially doms who are into the more extreme BDSM you see in porn and truly only care about their own wants and pleasures. They think it's dominant to not have a safe word, they think the sub needs to do everything they tell them to do without any say or discussion beforehand. So basically, abusers hiding behind a label.Being into BDSM as a lifestyle means you need the dynamic to be fulfilled, you could have a vanilla relationship but ultimately you'd be lying to yourself about your happiness and needs. This dynamic is intense as you experience your partner in their most vulnerable and raw state. Of course a lot of trust and discussion is needed to achieve this level. Those dynamics are couple specific, you won't ever have the same dynamic with someone else, similar to any romantic relationship being unique.So yeah, only being into kink in the bedroom or even only being into watching it is common.
>>84299940>antiporn jew running credit card companies>has onlyfans subscriptionsyes
>>84298608what does that thing on the pic even do? you can't reasonably have sex with that on
>>84298608I have thought on this conundrum myself for quite a while, and I've concluded that my notions of sexual excitement are very idealized in the hypothetical space. To execute them necessarily asks for much muddier waters, many more half-measures and compromises, which I believe would disappoint me greatly after I have set my own expectations so high purely fantasizing. I am also rather terrified of people, so I never expect to have to face the contrast, fortunately. I will just enjoy my solitary ventures into bondage and the vividness of my daydreams, and be content to the extent I am able.
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>>84298608I would never fuck a tranny but used to like trannies in porn. Maybe I would try it but the idea of poop dick and the fact i'm literally seeing a cock makes it not as enticing as in porn.
Wow, someone who knows the difference between fantasy and reality. You are a rarity, OP. If only most men would knoe the difference and stop pushing this degenerare shit on us thinking it's normal.
