I've heard that some people have spent up to $10,000 due to continuously failing to land a relationship
>>84302192-$300I gave the foid in question $2k for her dogs treatment though so it probably doesn't count
spent 0.032 calories holding the door open for a woman
It's insane to me how women will abolish most to all of their gender norms, but will ignore not having to pay for dates.Women know it can only benefit them and they'll change out alter the narrative however to coerce men into conforming to the double standardI've heard countless women justify how who ever initiated the date should pay, but that'll just end you up at square one since it's men who ask out the majority of the time. Another justification is them saying how you shouldn't look for love if you don't have enough money to give them which just really exposures them as gold diggers and it's superficial.Overall, foid are genuinely terrible when I think about them and the situation is worsen by the fact that so many men are push overs and will comply with what's expected out of them
>>84302192four relationships with three long ones and one short one. in dating directly as in meeting i've spent $10 or so for one movie ticket for myself and she paid for hers. met the first one at a track meet in hs. second at a hospital, third at a theater and fourth at the mall. didn't spend any money on the first girl, if you count driving around the second to a few places while she didn't have a vehicle sure some gas money there but maybe $250 total over a couple years. third one i spent nothing on as we split everything. and fourth one i got her this coffee thing or whatever as a treat for always driving to my place. so if you don't take into account what they spent on me then altogether over the last fifteen years of dating including technical shit like gas i've spent probably i'm guessing like $750 or something with like 80% of it being gas money
>>84302237> she paid for hersIt's so pathetic to me that women are fully capable of paying for themselves and can get jobs, but are still expecting men to finance their dates for themThey'll gladly exclude men who don't do so and will label them as loser or red pillers to deflect the fact that they're gold digger and want to use others for their money
>>84302254yea exactly, i agree. i've always been against paying for a girl in really everything so that's why i always split everything with them and simply never go to restaurants with them unless they want to pay for their own which i've done a handful of times, usually not a big restaurant person otherwise. that's why i prefer meeting girls at neutral places like malls now days as it's somewhere just to walk around a bit with them and not have to pay for anything. i'll be doing that for the rest of my life. parks and malls are my favorite places to meet at
Women have spent more money on me (like $100 overall) than i have on them ($0)Im not a chad and my autism gives girls the ick within 2 minutesAre there any other men like me?
>>84302272i beat one of my ex's in court and she was ordered to pay me within 30 days or whatever he ordered. i'm up a couple thousand so your $100 is nothing
>>84302305I dont have an officer of the law accompany me to bars serving court orders for random women to pay me $5 of drinks
>>84302192>I've heard that some people have spent up to $10,000 due to continuously failing to land a relationshipAre these people on weird cuck/incel forums?I've been with my wife for 6 years and have probably spent 1/2 that and that's mostly because I'm the one who wants to go out
>>84302192with random women? nothing, I just invited them to drinks and maybe got them the first round but then a few in they'd get loose and get me a drink too so it evened out. Or sometimes it'd be a free activity like thrifting, walking, hiking etc but usually first dates nuthin, I dont really spend on a woman unless my penis has been in her or else I dont want to. My current gf though who ive been with a while I like to randomly buy her small gifts, usually food and she also does that and occasionally I'll pay for a fancy meal somewhere, im not broke but the idea of spending money on some random foid is ridiculous to me unless its a drink or coffee as thats so cheap its nothing but a full on meal for a first date? you gotta be joking. I have been successful in dating as well.
>>84302305oh wow a woman beater how brave and strong
>>84302192idk, probably a few grand. total waste>>84302358on a long enough timescale that's not much money. hell even on a short timescale that's not much these days
>>84302192I'm old so it would have been thousands over the years. All of it for nothing but for a few retards on 4chan/reddit asking "Did you even try?" No, I don't even bother with women any more.
>>84302192On a date, nothing. Overall, 50 cents because I gave a cigarette to a random woman on the street. I'm still at a net gain from two other experiences. In the first one I went to the store to buy a $5 box of raisins and the line was really long. The woman in front of me had it scanned with her transaction and told me to "pass it on," but I never did. On the second occasion I had a coworker give me her coffee because they gave her something different than what she ordered.
>>84302192I spent probably around 15k on plane tickets and accommodations over the past 10 years to visit a couple of women I met online or have them visit me. Both attempts ended with me getting brutally cucked.I've learned my lesson now and no longer seek out long-distance relationships.
>>84302192Literally zero dollars
>>84302192>How much money have you spent on dates in totalThankfully, I've never been extorted for that dating shit, and am not looking to be extorted. They're lucky if I buy them a coffee.Either they want to fuck, or nothing. As an incel, I know it's the latter. They don't expect shit from a Chad, except his cock.
0 dollars and I'm married.
