Background (possibly useless)-I am a sophomore uni student. I caught feelings for a girl that attends the same degree as I, though she's a Junior. We got there as part of a special program that lets HS students start their academic studies before graduation (I'm 18, 12th grade. She's 17, 11th). Each yearly cycle creates its own groupchat, and several times the older guys flow into the younger years to speak from experience (but mainly chat there as well). I use it to chat, and from there I know of the girl. My admiration is a result of her beauty, wit, academic performance that rivals mine, and a sense of humor that I resonate with. Over a year we slowly learned very little about each other, through short conversations and memes. We've noticed each other on campus, despite the absence of a formal meeting. Main event-In one coversation, I suggested to tutor the girl in a quick discord session about a subject that appeared to confuse her for a while (Circuit analysis, which I enjoy nonetheless). Two-three months later, the girl brought up the matter, saying that sometime during [time period] she'll need it. I kept my promise, asking the girl to pick a time and date. That was about 40~ days ago. Would you text her, inquiring about the matter, or should I wait for a request ?We never dm'ed one another. [time period] is over in 3-4 days. The girl is highly social and has a rich circle of friends. I possibly suffer from undiagnosed social anxiety/autism, which made me come out as cringe (not the cute type, lol) many times before. As such, I fear she'll view my inquiry as desperate or out of place with respect to our social situation. Perhaps it is better to wait.I have assessed the situation which is made up of many other small details, but I think its better to keep those for the replies.
>>84304982You won't get better answers here because I'm not reading allat lil bro xd xd
>>84304982wait for a requestif you want to talk to her just say hi and nice shirt. Stop trying to impose your services upon her if you don't know if she still needs them that's advertising/begging
>>84305005Fair. I regret that my situation is too complex for reduction of dscp>>84305017I agree with your concern, though you did type "Stop" which makes me curious considering I am yet to ask her. I am scared to enter that desperation zone in her mind exactly once I confront the first time.
