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>Pic related
I have had this happen to me multiple times. The weirdest time way my ex roommate.
>Have roommate who has sex with me occasionally
>Refuses to be in a relationship with me and actively tells me to never say I love her after I stated interest in being a couple.
>Don't take it hard, it's cool and we still have casual sex regularly.
>Publicly says shes a lesbian and only sleeps with girls. Says guys and being "bisexual" cause drama in lesbian circles. Always sticks to me being just a close friend and even invites me to entertain the girls shes dating. (I even became friends with a few on my own)
>Doesn't care when I hook up with other girls which while not happening as often as her girl of the week she'd date, did happen occasionally.
>Never cock blocked me once nor cared if I was casually seeing someone.
>She gets the sims 3
Oh cool. Me and her used to game together frequently (though it was usually co-op, MMOs, or passing the controller.) While I was playing something and she was focused on sims I notice shes quiet and peak at her screen as I go pee.
>has me and her as a married couple raising kids.
>Is doing all these romantic things with my character.
WTF?!
>Stops playing until I go back to doing something else.

Why the fuck are women like this. I legit would have dated her and been a good bf, but she was being ms. Tough Goth Girl pretending to be a bad ass.
I've had this happen with friends I haven't been dating too.
At least when my GF's did it I could understand why. This shit or my platonic friends makes no fucking sense.
Like bitch, I ASKED YOU OUT AND YOU SAID NO!
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I knew it was over with my ex when she started a sim playthrough without me as the husband
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>>84305976
How about you stop expecting regulated behavior from the mentally ill? You are retarded .
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>>84305976
Women are mentally ill.
/thread
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>>84306018
but all humans are mentally ill
especially women
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>>84306018
>Expect
I don't "expect" anything.
I am hoping a female can articulate this phenomenon
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it's a cope like having a dog/cat, she wants easier version of responsibilities than actually having babies
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uncertified foid here. in the sims she can control everything you do, and also she doesnt actually have to talk to you. if shes sick of you she can close the game. and having you as a game character isnt like being arund u irl either. its a kind of just "it would be nice" like when we get attached to fictional characters we would dislike or at least not care about so much irl, but kinda the other way round. theres none of the actual responsibillity or issue that would come w doing it irl.
>>84306129
yes.
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>>84306129
Kinda makes sense.
But to not even date. Like bitch, we could have been a couple.
I mean I guess I would have kinda understood if she was torturing my sim or whatever, but she was doing romantic stuff with it.
Like bitch, I can do that with you IRL. WE ALREADY LIVE TOGETHER!
>>84306002
Lol.
Okay I did have an ex who created me as a sim but did not create herself.
Turned out it was because she had trouble making a character that looked like her, but I found her playing me cucking her pretty funny.
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>>84306129
women like to play with dolls. simple as that
they are not good at it irl because is takes two to tango
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>>84306164
Huh? This actually makes a lot more sense.
And yeah, she was kinda a control freak in weird ways. What you are saying makes sense. I am surprised she didn't make sims of other people she knew.
>Like when we get attached to a fictional character
This actually tracks cause she had a bad habit of overhyping me to important people in her life, then when I didn't live up to the reputation she built for me (mainly cause she didn't understand inside jokes are only funny for the two people in on the joke or I may not 100% agree with someone who wants to hear their own opinion spewed back at them) she would get upset with me not being the imaginary person in her head.
Actually a lot of time it felt like she hated herself for having feelings for me because she was concerned about her image and what others thought.
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>>84306129
Of course, it's just vidya
Sims is semi realistic so she has to get someone male to have kids with, can't just put le lesbian there
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>>84306531
I mean, if I took up drawing them made a bunch of art of me and that girl doing sweet romantic things..... it would be a bit odd.
Thing is this isn't a single instance with a single girl, this is the continued behavior of 99% of women
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>>84305976
Some women want you to take charge.
She maybe wanted you to tell her she's being stupid
you're dating now
and she's not allowed to complain.
>wuh really? no
Yes, OP.
I had GF.
She broke up with me
Drunk dialed me every weekend for Months.
she misses me and never should have broken up with me, the whole nine
I tell her
>well let's get back together then
No Anon, we can't
_You never should have let me break up with you_
>uwatm9
Perhaos what I should have done knowing she wanted her man to make her decisions for her, is tell her, shut up, we're dating again, stop crying, I love you, now tell me you love me
Reflecting, perhaps that is what she wanted
And reading your scenario, perhaps it's what your roommate wanted
And if you read enough forums,If a woman is into you, she wants you to tell her how it is
>we're going to a steakhouse tomorrow night, dress code, plan something fancy
>I'm getting takeout for us tonight
>take off all your clothes and come over here
>your boss is a piece of shit, quit, raise my children
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>>84305976
Every time I go to pol. I see a bunch of he things posted there reposted here with some shitty foid/moid filter applied. You guys fucking suck.
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>>84306662
Same Anon
I did this with a girl I was seeing on and off once
It had been a few months maybe almost a year of me traveling
https://youtu.be/EGSqUHxHNFE
I called her
Invited her to dinner at my new house tonight
told her to pick up wine
she replied
>but Anon, I'm babysitting right now
I replied
She's not invited
>I can come over tomorrow
and she did.
and we christened every story of my 3 floor house
with sex
The Family Guy bull tactic worked.
I was laughing my ass off that it worked
I have not really done it since
oh, one time
a new gf, said she liked having her face commed on
and now I always wanted to do this
in the middle of the night I J/O in thr bathroom - right before I busted I kept it there and went to her side of the bed and ejaculated on her face while she was sleeping
she was spooked at first
and then she enjoyed it
and we recorded it the next few night during normal coitus
If a woman wants you, she wants you to take charge
But
you know, don't screw it up
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>>84306662
I get what you are saying, but that 100% was not the case with her.
She did move to the state I moved to years later to get her masters at the college I suggested and was near my families home.
Trust me, we're 100% done.
Want a fresher example of putting up with her?
>Meet up IRL after we had a big falling out and I moved out
>We catch up. It's nice, but she tries pretending to be some bad ass tough girl I know she isn't and forgets I knew her for well over a decade.
>Call her out. She nervously laughs.
>She asks me if I ever thought about her when we weren't friends and didn't talk. Tell her the truth. I didn't.
>She admits she missed me every day and thought about me all the time
Oh cool, things are good right? Nope.
>Starts being bitchy to me via texts pretending to be too cool for me but getting upset if I don't respond to her.
>publicly makes a big scene drunken ass of herself at an event I organized and leaves me to fix everything up
>Throws a tantrum that I mentioned me and her had a past.
Yeah.... we're done.
I prefer peace in my life.
I don't want chaos trying too hard to act cool.
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>>84306698
Axtually this is the one I did.
Thought the other clip included it.
https://youtube.com/shorts/Zvl33oC95ic
pick up wine on the way
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>>84305976
Dude, a girl I traveled to see was like "I can see us having a wonderful relationship, but I can't stop being attracted to this guy who wants nothing to do with me".

Honestly? Dodged a bullet. She's fucking nuts. Unfortunately it's been the best sex either of us have had in a long time. I'm probably gonna go visit her again next month.
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>>84306598
Drawing is a more complex activity than playing a lifesim, yes.
It's not odd at all, I'm sure everyone does that at some point, even if it's naming a pokemon or a random team or whatever
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>>84306711
Soundsike she wanted you to tell her how it is.
Wanted you to dominate her.
But yes, xo standby putting out fires and tantrums when she wants attention st the most inappropriate times
fuxk that
I had a BPD like that
kicked her out
I don't think about her except as bad examples for others
Peace is better than whatever those foids have going on
It's like having a big stick to beat them with but preferring a partner you can build things with instead of beating them.
Some women want the rod.
In their bratty way they demand it.
And what sucks is this girl was going for her Masters.
Was she actually smart?
I've dated a Programmer, Lawyer, Specialized Medical Doctor, and a Data Scientist
Smart/STEM women.
Unfortunately they are all women at their core and do dumb women shit that's not worth your peace.
Theater was fine... my dicn was just too big or something, which, I know, never happened, but "bad sex", where I think she was a virgin or something, you could feel the wall spreading instead of just being slippery.
Anyway she was "smart", but she had the worst defenses for her clients... I would ask her what about x, y, z, and she'd ask if I was opposite counsel, and I'm thinking no, I'm just not a dumbass. This defense worked on judges and state attorneys??? If I used that defense the prosecution would throw the book at me wtf.
Women man
>Can't live with them. Can't shoot them.
Peace was the right choice.
Wish I knew why they do what they do so I could share how to live together peacefully.
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>>84306737
I'd agree if she was making all her friends and family. It was just me and her.
It's like that with almost every girl I know.
I also never see women do it with their chick friends.
>>84306732
Yeah I did. When we get along we click like no one else can.
But when she starts putting up whatever facade she feels like putting up for image sake or throwing tantrums, its a mess.
I see her as larping as someone she isn't depending on who is around her.
Your situation sounds kinda like my updated explanation here >>84306711

Women are insane and them not being held to the same standards as guys makes them horrible people
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>>84305976
My wife did this, she wanted have children so we did. I thought it was cute.
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>>84306793
You only make one or two sims because it's the characters you're going to control. Adding the friends as NPCs doesn't really add value to the game because the options to replicate behavior and stuff are limited af.
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>>84306772
Maybe dominate her... she liked me being her dom...
But again, you are missing the full picture. She wanted me to impress everyone into feeling how she felt about me so she felt like it was socially acceptable, then she wanted me to tame her... but in a way that made her want to submit.
Basically all the unreasonable unrealistic shit women expect.

Yeah peace was the right choice.
Part of me wonders if there was some secret long term plan to get back at me but I don't know or care. If there wasn't she's crazy and fake. If there was she is petty and crazy.
She was hot.
Sex was good.
And when we were actually on the same page the bond was like nothing else....
But yeah, it wasn't worth it. I am not gonna try pleasing a fake person who enjoys power tripping and tantrumming.
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>>84306831
Why not make us roommates like IRL
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>>84305976
You should have impregnated her
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>>84305976
most people who have the ability to at least somewhat self-reflect, are incredible insecure.

its just the way it is. you shouldn't expect most adults to leave their teenage angst behind, even if they've achieved some status in their adult years. such people will cope with their insecurities until the day of their death
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>>84306885
I inseminated her countless times.
I honestly lost count of how many times I came inside of her.
I did my part. Rest is on her.
Lol
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>>84307395
You may have some point there.
I think she struggled with how she felt and being upset I didn't meet her spcial status expectations.
But I'm not a door matt. If I saw her now I dunno how I'd react or what we have on common anymore. I don't drink anymore (no reason, just grew outta it), she's an alcoholic (most lawyers are).

Unless she mellowed out and stopped acting like a bitch I'd have no interest in playing the trying to dominate each other game.
I do miss her as a friend sometimes.
Not just the sex.
Legit friends. We got each other. You don't find many bonds like that.
Romance between us is 100% dead. Even if magically we patched things up, the trust is gone and I don't have the patience for tantrums, drama or attitude
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>>84307395
I guess to add to this.
Her mom ended up telling me she was bullied like crazy in elementry and middle school and it changed her.
Irony is when she was going for her law degree, she sought out a community that actively was known for bullying and tried dominating and controlling it.
>If you want to know why she had interest in me this is kinda a good example.
>She is bright but not great at dominating people and she is obsessed with power.
>She did express frustration in not being able to control and bully the members of the group.
>She later wrote a post about how she was infultrating them to own them but got no where.
Compare this to how I handle things.
>The moment the leader of that community tried messing with me I completely tore apart him, his gf with cam whoring pics he tried denying existed, and his "business".
>Then I systematically went after every faggot friend in that community until they either left the internet or became a lolcow.
She loved it when I got enraged and went after people because it didn't matter who you were I went for the jugular, destroyed your life, and was applauded for it.
I see it as a shameful quality now, and have grown out of it.
I have no clue if she is still playing these kind of games.
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>>84305976
Why are you here if you're chad. I really can't understand why someone with your life would be lurking here at all.
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>>84307581
Nigga I know this place has a rep as the incel board, but it's not an incel board.
I have free time and felt like posting here and thought a foid might have insight why women will act one way then creat sims and live out scenarios contrary to that.
>Youre a chad
I got luck with women a few times.
I wouldn't consider myself a chad.
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>>84307607
People come here because they are miserable. You don't seem to have any reason to be feeling miserable.
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>>84305976
Of all the fucking to worry about I think her playing house in the fucking sims is the least of my concerns.
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>>84307613
Theu don't just come here cause they are miserable.
You are correct I am not miserable.
However after I saw the pic talking about the sims, I figured this was a great place to ask about this female specific behavior.
Where else would I go?
/b/? It's pornsick trash
/pol/? It's gay and retarded
/soc/? I don't want dick pics
/adv/? No thanks I want a reply that is on topic within the day.
/r9k/ is a pretty decent place to talk about boy and girl issues with that little twist of 4chan weirdness.
And actually the answers I got were so well done I ended up opening up more than I intented to.
I am glad I came her and thankful for the answers I recieved. They were thoughtful and well done
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>>84307613
>stop diluting my ocean of piss



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