robots living with your parents, what is your plan? saving for a home or moving out to pay rent? I have savings and am reluctant to move out just to live with roommates (ok relationship with parents). the downside is i realistically cannot get a gf while living here.the only way is to get a better job which is kek. that leaves me with building savings, and Idk what to do with it. I cannot afford a home with my current amount (<60k), and I know I won't make any major expenses within the next 5 years. I think I'll just throw it at the market, explore CDs, HYAs I guess. I don't wanna be a rent cuck just to get a gf.
>>84306027>what is your plan?AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHH
my parents have money and my dad keeps on talking about retiring to florida but i dont think he wants to sell the house we're living in, so i may have the house to myself for 6 months out of the year if they do end up going down there
>>84306046>he wants to sell the house we're living in, so i may have the house to myself for 6 months out of the year if they do end up going down therewhy doesn't he rent it out? of course it would be better if u could live there and not pay anything
>>84306027Use them for the cut rate living and logistics help while working my shitty job, discretely setting up my next big career move they will surely disapprove of and surviving until they drop. Then inheriting their millions and finally executing the plan, after telling the rest of the assholes we share DNA with...sorry I meant extended """family""" to go fuck themselves, which my parents didn't have the balls to do for whatever fucking reason decades ago.
>>84306058he would never do that unless he went broke and had to
>>84306027ill meet a cute femcel and move into her house. i cant afford rent...
>>84306074>ill meet a cute femcel and move into her house. i cant afford rent...are you a chad? if not, it's unlikely. maybe an ugly femcel
>>84306061Oh and before one of you smarmy assholes gets any funny ideas, this career is unironically becoming and MD-doctor, not e-sports vidya gaemer, gambling addict, vintage reseller, dropshipper, or whatever you retards thinks constitutes a """career""".
>>84306027I'm going to school to become an international school teacher in asia. In about two years I will be able to move out. Today I went to a deli near my house looking for hires so maybe I can get a part time job for a bit, that would be cool. I'm trying to finish school as fast as possible because it looks like the USA is just getting shittier and shittier for the time being. If I move to Asia and teach I could be financially independent.
>>84306090>constitutes a """career""".what's stopping you from being a MD right now? parents? debt?
Does anons not even worry about their ageing parent when you move out?
>>84306143I'm worried about my father dying before I can move out. He's 47 and makes about 300k a year. My mom doesn't work so if he dies I'm fucked. He's about 260 pounds and I've been exhorting him to lose weight but he won't listen. I hate having this anxiety over me that he could just have a heart attack before I finish college and move on with my life.
>>84306027>robots living with your parents, what is your plan?inherit and sell the house probably, have to split 50/50 so renting it out won't be an option and i won't have the money to buy out my brother, i also just really don't want to spend my entire life in this dreary suburb
>>84306143>Does anons not even worry about their ageing parent when you move out?they aren't sick. I would be worried if they became sick. my parents are health conscious now that they are aging.
>>84306116Parents groomed me to be one since it was the trophy crotchfruit career, until the tech boom hit while I was in undergrad, then it was techbro or bust. They think anything besides "working in AI" is a failure career since they can't gain a much face among their fellow narcissistic yuppie fucks. In fact, I did work as a brogrammer for a time after graduating and fucking hated it, especially the backstabbing coworkers fighting over who gets to suck manigger cock more. Didn't make anywhere near $100k/year losing all $5 in stock options when I quit was unforgiveable and ended up taking a ~10% paycut I still haven't recovered from to go to grad school (PhD, the "other doctor") also unforgiveable. Parents and family reacted to this by doing the sort of PR work and simping the corp would normally pay 6-figure sums for, FOR FREE, so merely "unsupportive" is too nice.Already tried to apply several times to medical school and failed to get accepted in spite of my grades, work experience, and MCAT score (over 95th percentile). The common denominator during those attempts was that I listened to their advice during the interview, and I'm starting to believe intentional sabotage since I met with my college's premed advisor and they're telling me totally different things not to mention they're suddenly claiming it's "OK to switch careers" total about-faces like that are a common interrogation technique to keep the victim off-balance. The only reason I'm putting up with this is that there's a few million bucks at the end for me. Anyone else would have told them to go fuck themselves years ago.
My parents are moving out soon and expect me to start paying rent that I can barely afford.When they die I have to split the house with my siblings, which means I'll no longer be able to live here which means I'll become homeless because housing is too expensive.
>>84306181>failed to get accepted in spite of my grades, work experience, and MCAT score (over 95th percentile).interesting desu. So what are you doing in the interim? Still doing tech waiting it out? Are you in biotech/healthcare tech at least given it's related to your goal? Would be cool to be there to see what these companies are trying to do with AI and the other fields i mentioned.
>>84306218I'm doing research, which they used to deride as the career for people who "couldn't make it", but now are "encouraging me to stay" as a method to later pressure me into going into private industry to die for their stock options and bragging rites again. This is after they spent the entire first half of my PhD years trying to encourage me to drop out. Always gotta be on your toes around these people.
incels got especially fucked over because the system is deigned for 2 incomes to have an easy life. i know there are some people here that have amazing jobs and support themselves. or they are just smart. most men are getting fucked over because they dont have a 2nd income from a woman.
>>84306256>This is after they spent the entire first half of my PhD years trying to encourage me to drop out. Always gotta be on your toes around these people.sounds interesting. I wish you success. do you have people in research shilling hard for integrating AI day to day, or are you free to manage its use?
>>84306283You can kind of do whatever you want (within reason) so long as you can provide a valid, real (key word here) source to a peer-reviewed publication. It's nothing like what I've heard from private industry with mandatory vibe coding. If anything, shit like that is actively discouraged since they are well-aware of LLM hallucinations. Don't tell this to the bsnsmonkeys though...they'll lynch you for tech-heresy.
what is your plan?>continue to take care of my mother after my dad diedmy dad died rather unexpectedly 2 years ago which kind of put a damper on me moving out. it's just an excuse I use to justify my staying here at this point>change jobs - as I realize that the only solution to me increasing my salary is to job hop.I went from low 50k/yr as an engineer at the start of COVID. jumped jobs twice in 2 years. 2-3x my salary in that time. I've taken a hit to my earnings due to less overtime>finish grad school (which is my only expense right now - work covers part of it, but not much - still costs me 10k/yr at least). >continue to save and investi saved well over 100k in cash. Put must in a brokerage late last year. lost around 5k from recent economic downturn. I have been invested in crypto a long time. used to mine, didn't invest that much. have a lot. That seems to be my only hope for growth.I looked at houses in early 2021-2022. I couldn't afford any. Most houses here go for over 500k USD for dilapidated shack. I was looking in $ range of 300-400k/house. I had gotten pre-approved for a loan at the time, but every house I looked at got bought out for well over the asking price. it's only gotten worse in this area. I continue to save money, but the housing prices seem to increase at a rate faster than which I can save. looking at the future. I know that I have to buy a car soon, as my car is going to hit 200k miles soon. I know I need to find a new job soon, as I have stagnated where I am now and am miserable. No friends. Cannot date while I live here. Never have dated and feel i have nothing to offer regardless. My current plan at this point is largely just to off myself in a few years and leave all my money to my nieces and nephews. don't see a family or home as a possibility. No amount of job hopping will bring fulfillment (already tried) or financial success. I don't want to be house poor by liquidating all my assets. Too old to date or fix the issue.
>>84306027My brother is 30 and says that's still to early to leave mom's house
>>84306027My chad brother will continue the bloodline so I'll just take care of them until they die and then I'll kill myself
>>84306027It makes no sense for me to have a plan because I'm not here by my own choice. I have to stay at home because I pay 70% of the rent and I'm the only person left in my family with my brain somewhat intact, at least enough to take care of my mom who needs almost 24/7 assistance. Having responsibility that you don't want or are barely able to handle because there are literally 0 other options, is a fate worse than deathI'm literally just praying I survive mentally, emotionally and financially until my parents pass peacefully and I can finally start to live my life. Knowing my chud life, I will probably be in my 40s by the time that happens though and it'll be too late to have a life
>>84306027I'm 36, got diagnosed with adhd 3 years ago, live with narcissistic abusive parents who essentially try to keep me in a state of stress where I can't build anything to escape. I lose entire days to stress and poor sleep. Only positives are being physically attractive and having $45k assets. This is basically a domestic abuse situation (has escalated to 'reactive abuse') where a developmentally disabled person is being abused, and I need help
>>84306027Once they die in ~20 years I'll move in with my sister-in-law. Don't care about gfs or having a career. Only thing I care about is being a bum for as long as possible. I might get a shitty part time job at some point, maaaybe.
>>84306027I get along well with my parents and they'll let me stay as long as I'm not a NEET or a bother. Once I'm finished my studies and hopefully get a job I might not even move out, they'll be retired by then and probably won't be home often.I might want to be closer to work though, that's the only reason I'd move out before buying.
I'm 23 and I have no clue. I'm stuck with picking a career. College is too long, I don't really wanna do trades because they fucking suck. I dunno at this point. I guess I'll keep working minimum wage.
>>84306027>move out on own after saving up some money >apartment and bills more expensive than I planned for >parents let me move back in after a year >want to move out again, but have little money >parents getting older, dad going to retire in a few years, mom basically bedridden >sister also lives at home with 2 kids and no job >pay rent to dad, he charges me little and I do errands for them >dad also old and I'm afraid of him dying >if dad dies I take care of mom >don't have gf or ever really tried to get one >dad makes 10x what I do, won't be able to afford paying for the house if he passes away Basically I expect to either move out and then have to move back or just never move out and take care of my mom if anything happens to my dad. Inheritance should take care of bills for a while but I'd have to move to a smaller and cheaper house. Mom wants me to take care of her, doesn't want sister to. Been put in charge of both parents wills when they die. Feels bad but I accept the duty
im 35 and i think i want to move just to be able to drink and fuck like a degenerate until i die, dont want to marry or kids, i want to live near my moms tho because i love her and wouldnt dare leave her on her own, im thinking of moving maybe in 1 year
I'm still on college and I don't work so I still have time to (not) think about it. Then after graduating I'm thinking of starting a new major and so I would keep living with my parents and not working until I become 25 years old. The college I study is free (not US nor Europe) so at least I will have no debt. If my parents don't force me to work I won't work until I finish my second major, so I won't be moving that soon.
>>84306027Planning to move out soon, realized my dad is the reason why I act the way I do and he never changed
>>84306027Don't be retarted. If you save up cash, know that money is a joke. You need to put it in some asset to hedge inflation, or it's not going to hold value. Things are only going to get worse, keep your fa.ily close and build trust with them. They are the only ones you might have your back. Hopefully they don't act like retarted selfish boomers and will look out for you when shit gets rough. I wouldn't expect to have a house, a family, or a decent job until after the collapse.
