Professional NEETs of r9k, how did you survive your first year of NEETdoom and what did you do to make your parents don't bother you? I don't plan to be a NEET for the rest of my life but there are some troubles which I want to resolve alone first, and it may take some time.This only applies to anons who to don't get neetbuxx btw
>>84310401Suck up to them and do random chores throughout the day even if nobody asks, and never ever cross or argue with them and generally avoid being too close until you become one with the background. It requires a lot of experience to find the right push and pull balance that keeps people off your back
>>84310401I was able to neet for a year pretending I had an online business and semi-neet for another year doing some trade class bullshit but now I have a job.They always bother though and get very angry when they uncover big lies.My advice though it's to not NEET. Either get a part time job where you work like half a day or 3 days a week or enroll in some bullshit class so at least you're pretending you're doing something with your life and your parents will bother less.
>>84310401I was very sick, developed a chronic autoimmune disease when I was 20 and just stopped doing everything, so that gave me some sympathy points from them to not bother me. However, I got hospitalized when I was like 27 and that's when I realized I had to do something with my life even if I was sickly half the time. Worked for a couple years and now doing uni in my 30's.I don't think NEETdom is productive for getting stuff taken care of either. Most people get too comfortable to do anything else. Why make that appointment today when you could do it next week or next month or whenever? etc. etc.
>>84310428>do random chores throughout the day even if nobody asksI've been doing it lately, but they still want to put me into college/find a part-time job to me. I think if I say no, they could wait a little bit more, but I'm afraid of doing so... I could take the middle path and only accept one of these options too, maybe.>>84310430>Either get a part time job where you work like half a day or 3 days a week or enroll in some bullshit classBecoming a semi-NEET, I see. This is a realistic choice, probably the only thing who will work for me now. I won't deny the part-time job they found for me then, I think. Thank you for your perspective on this.>>84310461>I had to do something with my life even if I was sickly half the timeI'm tired all the time and have a lot of other problems too, sometimes this same feeling crosses my mind.>productive for getting stuff taken care of eitherIt's stuff related to my OCD and some phobias, but you're right with this thing of becoming comfortable. I did nothing this year despite not having any responsabilities, after all.
>>84310401My Mum is just relieved that I haven't killed myself yet so she doesn't really bother me about being a NEET.
>>84310603I thought about ODsing with sleep pills since it wouldn't kill me but this is my last plan.
>>84310401>how did you survive your first year of NEETdoommommy made chicken tendies and washed my clothes>what did you do to make your parents don't bother you? mommy only bothered me to get me to apply for neetbux
>>84310838>mommy made chicken tendies and washed my clothesYou took it too literally, the question was more targeted to possible discussions and fights between you and your family.>mommy only bothered me to get me to apply for neetbuxWhat about the last line in the OP, anon? -_-
>>84311390>possible fightsno fights>What about the last line in the OP, anon? -_-you shouldn't neet without neetbux because feelsbadmans
>>84311408>no fightsI realized it in the previous post, I was just explaining what I meant initially now>you shouldn't neet without neetbuxI can neither work full-time nor go to college because of paruresis, and I prefer to die than to say it to someone in real life. I also have some minor problems to solve before I can finally live as a semi-normal human being.
>>84311454>and I prefer to die than to say it to someone in real lifeThis seems like a minor issue? I was agoraphobic for years so things like paying for buses or shopping was an issue to me. I learned to be shameless and "play up" retardation to get neetbux.
>>84311473>This seems like a minor issue?I can't stay out of my house for more than, like, 4 hours.>I was agoraphobic for yearsI have it in a lesser degree too if it matters
I get 'bux, but...My folks were on disabilitybux by the end. I had just finished college when my father died. I'm an only child.As my mother was basically a lifelong NEET and over-protective, she was chill about my perma-NEETdom.Sadly, just as I was finally to escape into a 12 month apprenticeship, I randomly found her dead one morning.I passed the year for her, but it was a miserable time, and it outed me as an unemployable autist anyway.After I lost a second job after a week, I resigned myself to my NEET fate. Over, 7,200 days and counting.
