Did your parents ever give you any relationship advice? Mine didn't say a fucking word to me my entire life and then they got divorced when I was 11 putting a horrid taste in my mouth. They haven't even ever brought it up, as if it never even began for me.
both my parents were massive spergs. So anything social I usually literally learned the inverse of what you're supposed to do. My Dad literally said to me once regarding girl troubles. "maybe you just need to be a bit more submissive"
>>84310503I've never really gone to my mom for advice because she always says the same thing. >women are crazy, evil and just want you to give them children so they can extort youShe's not wrong, everything she says comes from experience. That's exactly what she did and how I was created so I believe when she says she knows how women work. That's not really the advice I'm looking for though. I want to know where to find women that aren't crazy like her but they don't seem to exist.
>>84310503No. But my grandparents did. Both grandma and grandpa had interesting advice for dealing with women. My grandpa's advice was romantic and very old school. My grandma's advice was a bit more psychologically manipulating but not in a bad way. But certainly a bit more methodical than my grandpa's.
my parents have one of the most miserable depressing relationships i have ever seen in my entire life, so i wouldnt have listened to them even if they did give me advice
>>84310503My dad is a misogynistic sex addict and my mom was a mentally ill schizo who hated men and told me the standard oofy doofy b nice shit and shamed me alot for basic expressions of emotions so yes an astounding amount I wonder how much its to blame for my inceldom I wish I had an uncontaminated view of dating without my having to listen to my dad fuck some whore he met at a bar and give me a pep talk later about how women are whores and basic pua shit (I was 10)
yeah but it was all terrible boomer advice like "just be yourself"
>>84310503Honestly to have their marriage end in complete failure, it's humble of them to keep their mouth shut and not give bad advice. Most boomers would give you unsolicited advice despite having 3 divorces.
>>84310738>My Dad literally said to me once regarding girl troubles. "maybe you just need to be a bit more submissive"Mine told me in a joking way "Stay away from them" and that was it.>>84310796At least she didn't lie and set you up to be a beta like a lot of other 'mothers.'
>>84310873>My grandpa's advice was romantic and very old school.Must be nice living on complete tutorial difficulty your entire life.>>84310889Same, it such bullshit.>>84310895>My dad is a misogynistic sex addictAt least he could actually get women, which is a skill. Brutal how your mother intentionally set you up to be a beta, absolutely knowing that it doesn't work. Pretty much evil if I think about it.
>>84310503when i was like 16 my dad just told me that if i needed money for dates just tell him and he'll give it to me im 20 now and i still havent been on a date lol
>>84310910Crazy how parents set up their own children for failure.>>84310970>Honestly to have their marriage end in complete failure, it's humble of them to keep their mouth shut and not give bad advice.Didn't think of it like that.
>>84311599That's nice of him at least and I think mine would have done the same. Some woman told me when I was about 9 that "diamonds are a girl's best friend, so think about that when you get a girlfriend." 25 and never been on a date despite trying. Fuck this.
>>84310503I learned from my dad just watching what he does, he's just the ultimate provider to the point everyone respects him and kowtows to him. The successful business guy of the family. Step-Mom once told me, (paraphasing): men and women have their own seperate roles, and men are supposed to be the leaders. The man and woman can argue and disagree, but if a choice has to be made, then the wife should follow the husband.Step Grandma told me women really just want value providers more than anything, but she's single so I took that with a grain of salt. My grandma has been single since I've known her and she never gave me advice, but once I told her I wanted to date a white princess with blonde hair and blue eyes. I watched too many disney movies. All the men in my family are short, so while manlet comments affect for awhile, eventually I realized that aggression and dominance matters more to women than height. They only care about it because they precieve it to relate to stuff like dominance or dick size, but lurking the internet will tell you otherwise.Finally my mother told me she thought I might be gay before I showed her my GF. I told my mom I was bi, but I preferred women. She said: "Oh, that's common with men".
>>84311708>but if a choice has to be made, then the wife should follow the husband.I also think that women think in this way, but they make it so fucking hard because they won't just shut up and let the man do the decision in current year.
>>84311721They're like a pet, they constantly for freedom, but really they just want an alpha and structure. If you can't provide that (and that matters way more than money), then they will try to be the alpha and the relationship just won't work.
>>84311735>then they will try to be the alphaTrue, and it's just stupid behaviour that everyone deep down knows doesn't work. Yet they still do it.
>>84311745They can't help it. Their instincts tell them to do it, and evolution taught them: "This behavior is successful because if your man can't control you, then you need to find another one."It's why women constantly forgive their own cheating, to them it seems like the obvious solution if their man doesn't have the spine to physically/mentally/verbally beat that behavior out of them. The real problem is that we're taught by society that challenging women is inherently toxic when in actuality, women want toxicity from a man they can trust and won't abuse their control. It's a simple game that few can tell you about. And no one can teach you how to play. That's why manosphere shit is just them blindly trying to reverse engineer being a chad. And why chads just do it naturally, they're trained to be toxic in just enough way that appeals to women. But incels look at thugs being way too toxic and think that women are retarded, when it's like a man beating the shit out of a dog - if it comes down to that, you shouldn't have the dog in the first place, it's just not worth it for anybody.
>>84311793Brvtvl trvth nvke.
>>84311587>At least he could actually get women,Well he was an unironic incel in a time where it was actually rare until his late twenties and geomaxxed with a woman in korea. I don't think you should view him as a healthy example of a human being.
>>84312201>geomaxxed with a woman in koreaBrutal taking the easy way out pill.
>>84310910Imagine the bliss of sticking your pp into that
My parents gave me 0 life lessons. I'm talking zero. In fact they gave me negative life lessons>Stop trying to show off>you are being too emotional>stop crying or ill give you something to cry about>laughing at me for showing emotions>bullying me>downplaying any negative emotion I have>thinking distress is attention seeking>using bully tactics to make me shut up rather than to consolidate emotions and understand them>dont try to get me any mental help once rthe cracks show, probably because they feel ashamed they messed upThen when I get older they leave me alone probably because they deep down realise the damage they've done but also give me a hard time for not being fully functional.
>>84313366brutal>>84313344i prefer OP
>>84310503 No. Then when I was over 18 and playing games r home my dad berated me for not going out and fucking lots of girls. He was a pathetic loser of such magnitude that his level of ignorance to just how bad he was is unparalleled. A real demonstration of genuine retard level moron.
>>84313399the weird thing is it seems normal to me. If I call out my parents for this they will go down the standard narcissist playbook.They will deny it ever happened, if I can produce any evidence it happened they will say I am being over-emotional, if I can counter that they will threaten to cut all contact with meIts liekly I will cut contact with them. They're too cowardly to say sorry, because they dont realise they did anything wrong. They are narcissists. The more true dynamic is my dad is a narcissist and my mom is the enabler.
>>84313401Crazy, they expect you to just get it after doing nothing for you.>>84313432I can't imagine treating my own child like that.
>don't have sex>be careful around grillsi took it too serious
>>84313462yes it all very weird and it explains why im a bit of a loser. My dad sees me as direct competition to himself. To an extent where he feels the need to bully me if he feels like his ego is being threatened. The only real solution is to cut them off but the emotional damage is already done by that stage.
>>84310503My dad used to tell me that if I liked a girl and she liked me, I should do my best to fuck her and fuck her good. If I didn't, she would find a black man who would So I became a man whore with regret wasting my best years fucking mostly virgin and low body count girls with attachment issues and mental illnesses.I should have just tried to find and stick with one girl. I'll be alone forever
>>84313507Mine were more avoidant rather than aggressive.>>84313520Imagine imprinting a cuck fantasy onto your child. Brutal.
>>84310503They were afraid I was gonna drop out of school to mope around at home the moment I get broken up with like a supposed family friend's son. Later on, I found out this character is completely fictional since apparently every other family knew him too.Their advice was pretty much "don't" then "it will happen later on"...oh wait that is too kind. It was "I can't wait until you get rejected so you know how it feels like to be completely destroyed".
>>84313526I don't have a cuck fetish though. My fetish is women with big butts facesitting on men. And reverse gangbangs/women raping men
>>84313582Did he really have to bring up niggers?
>>84313610Probably not but we live in a city that's about 50% black so a lot of cringey rebelious white girls can be seen with black dudes
