i got a license, i got a job, i got a car.ive been trying to normalmaxx for 6 month now and i feel even more mentally ill and hopeless than i was when i was a complete shut in
>>84311466That is genuinely one of my biggest fears. Do you have a social life at all or do you just work and go home?
>>84311466Thats not normalmaxxing. That's like buying a set of dumbbells and only working out once a month. That's the bare minimum, that's below the bar. You need relationships to be a normie. A normie can be a normie with no job or car, because they have friends they can leech off of and hang out with. Get a girlfriend or a good irl friend.
>>84311482i just work then go home i'm deathly scared of opening up to my coworkers and them finding out how meantally ill i ami will be working with them for a while so i just wanna be professional and nothing else >>84311488>get a gfnot possible>or a good irl friendid like to but idk how.......
>>84311515>get a gf>not possibleIf you don't consider a gf a possibility, you're not ready to be a normie yet. Every normie, not matter how fucked they look or their situation is, expects to find love. It's kinda dumb, but that dumb hopeful thinking attracts more normies.
>>84311466That's the normal path. It always gets a lot worses before it gets better. Change.
>>84311530it will take a lot of social training before i get one at leastim already 26 doe>>84311532hopefullyeven though im already tired of the wagie life
>>84311568>lot of social trainingProtip: you can never ever learn a skill by easing yourself into it. If you wanna get skinny, you don't start by buying skinny clothes, looking up skinny inspiration, and hanging around skinny people. You start by dieting. It's fine to start with talking, flirting, or texting girls to work yourself up to dating. But you can't get handsome, muscular, become a normie then suddenly dating becomes easy. That's not how it works. Looksmaxxing is for your own vanity sake, not a viable way to date women.
>>84311568took me like 18 months just to really get used to the new routine. youre 1/3 of the way there, keep it up