clav says he's a failure with womenhe regrets it all
I don't like him simply because he hangs around blacks and befriends themMore than enough for me to disregard him as a human being.
>>84314172That's not at all what he said. Did you even read it? He regrets not spending more time around women.
This nigga is being used as a social expirement
>>84314172Nigga, no way I'll use my energy to talk about that. Bye.
>>84314172That's why you don't date older women. They expect you to be as experienced as the guys they slept with.
>>84314176Based and agreeable anon.
>>84314180That's not at all what he said. Did you even read it? He regrets not spending less time around women
>>84314340Kek. You could be right.
>>84314172There are a lot of guys on r9k who are tall, look alright, make decent money, have a career, and aren't able to date because they don't socialize at the levels of skillfulness that modern women require. Meanwhile, women don't do anything at the skill level that a man expects but are forgiven. It's not good enough to be handsome you also have to socially amazing and impress all her friends. And then you have to finance many vacations so she can share fun vacation pics with all her friends. You have to be handsome, socially awesome, and wealthy to be dating material. Clav is only handsome and wealthy and so he's having problems.
>>84314576robots being terrible at socializing with women is true but the opposite is true too. Women in general are clueless on how to socialize with guys in general. Guys give women a pass because they want to fuck them and thats it. They dont know how to talk to guys at all. They spend all their time socializing with other women
>>84314172dude is a manlet who cares lol
>>84314576the blackpill is that you can pull more women by being a low inhib high charisma LTN than if you were a spergy chadlite
i'm feeling a weak clav to a light white chad on this thread
>>84314576>There are a lot of guys on r9k who are tall, look alright, make decent money, have a careerThen there's me.
>>84314596women currently have all the power over relationships they could unironically be all fat ugly and retarded and we would still be chasing over them like they are prizes
>>84314172Y this chud always crying
>>84314658No and clav and women on social media prove you wrong. In reality you will connect with more women having looksmaxxed your face than by having low-inhib/charisma.Clav walks into a club with no charisma and the women approach him anyway and some get in his van and go home with him and watch him play games on his computer.Women do not approach non chad. And if non chad approaches, it's sexual harassment and women have agreed with this en masse.First comes handsomeness. Then charisma and/or wealth. All the bluepills about rizzing and jestering your way to a relationship are long debunked.
>>84314576>>84314596I tried talking to a chick after she made me played rock paper scissors at the bar of the nightclub I was at. She called herself a retard after I won twice and disappeared in the crowd.What the fuck do emo chicks want?
>>84314902just dumb drunk women things
>>84314902>>84314902The short of it: You weren't chad enough for her. The full explination: You weren't chad enough for her so she needed to turn you down, but turning someone down too quickly "feels like" dismissal. (Remember that socializing correctly requires being competent with feelings and sensitive to what things "feel like"). Dismissal is for people who are being rude/nasty. Dismissing a guy who is being nice can be awkward, vibe-ruining, and anti-social. It feels like an incel thing to do.She was being polite and socially competent by being friendly with you for a while before going off to whomever she really wanted to talk to.
>>84314576im an ugly woman and i've only dated "ugly" men, do they somehow not count for men who were inexperienced but gained it?
>>84315011You have not dated ugly men, you have dated average (5) and above average (6) dudes but you're a female so anything under the top 10% is ugly to you
>>84315018Ah okay, thanks for clearing that up
>>84315011women cant be ugly you dumb slut theyre all so cute
>>84314172Yeah its pretty brutal not being NT. I cant even talk to nerdy girls let alone stacies.
>>84314930Fuck>>84314968Mega fuck>You weren't chad enough for her.Chad friend got to fuck some open relationship Brittany Venti looking bitch at the club so yeah. He too can't pull any emo ladies surprisingly.>but turning someone down too quickly "feels like" dismissal. (Remember that socializing correctly requires being competent with feelings and sensitive to what things "feel like").I rather be dismissed or told to fuck off.>Dismissing a guy who is being nice can be awkward, vibe-ruining, and anti-social. It feels like an incel thing to do.I think something is broken with me. Feels weird having Chad friend and co workers be nice to me. >She was being polite and socially competent by being friendly with you for a while before going off to whomever she really wanted to talk to.Then why did she bother asking me to play rock paper scissors of all things when I just wanted a soda(I was designated driver that day).
>>84315011Your post is unclear, what are you trying to say here? Keep dating and pick the guy who treats you the best.
>>84315048>Then why did she bother asking me to play rock paper scissors of all thingsif she was trying to flirt with you thats a weird fucking way to do it and maybe she ran off because she was embarrassed with herself
>>84315054>You have to be handsome, socially awesome, and wealthy to be dating material.Yeah to be wanted by most women, but the average person is not this. Average people still get into relationships
>>84315062you're thinking of literal npcs that god doesn't give a second thought to. they're background noise so it doesn't matter what they have in life
>>84315076Oh, I see why no one likes you. You're an asshole
>>84315085yea, surprise
>>84314172Assuming he said all that, why is this deplorable grifter lying? He by his own admission lost his virginity at a very normal age and has dated and had sex with many women. Does he expect his audience to just not remember he told them all that? What a pathetic attempt at trying to be more relatable to actual losers. Fuck this guy.
>>84315059From how I remember it she is the one who initiated contact with me. I won the game she started, introduced myself and my buddy, and asked for her name. Also I don't really see what's embarrassing about it. Then again I'm a retard who's friends with schizo tards(which includes the Chad) so maybe I am missing something.Did I do something wrong?
>>84315154i dont think you did anything wrong i think she might be kind of an idiot and thought it would be cute and flirty but it wasnt and she left out of embarrassment
>>84315062Average people SETTLE into relationships.
>>84315175What's wrong with "settling"?
>>84315048>I rather be dismissed or told to fuck off.You and me both.I was being too terse, I should have said that *Most likely* you weren't chad enough for her. In cases involving normal girls who are interested in dating, you have to be chad enough to pull and then charasmatic enough to maintain it. The exceptions are rare and the possibilities are many: Some girls are out with friends and aren't interested in dating, some girls are anhedonic (especially emo girls) and some anhedonic girls stim themselves in social environments to try and feel positive. Many introverts hit an extravert phase before settling on being an ambivert and you may have just been part of her extraverting phase. To best understand what happened with emo girl specifically, I'd have to interview her specifically. And keep in mind that most girls aren't emo for long, they just have an emo phase.>I think something is broken with me. Feels weird having Chad friend and co workers be nice to me.Look up "imposter syndrome" and see if that describes what you're feeling.>Then why did she bother asking me to play rock paper scissorsMy best guess is that she was experimenting with coming out of her shell and seeing that guys aren't all that scary. Girls aren't born knowing that random stranger guys aren't scary and they aren't born knowing how much pull they have on guys.
>another spam advertisement thread about a who that suddenly appeared oht of nowhere on /r9k/Fuck off.
>>84315190It's a recipe for disaster
>>84315062>the average person is not thisAnd that doesn't contradict anything I said. Many men are not dating at all. "Average men" who are being settled for are most often getting cheated on and are in relationships that will end in divorce statistically, most of which are initiated by dissatisfied women, etc etc.I think you're a contrarian jeet larping as a foid to start an argument because you love debatefagging as a hobby. Go away.
>>84315207>anyone who challenges my worldview is something I don't like"Go away"How childish
>Forgot pic.Many emo girls become normie once they work out their issues.
>>84315230I like how she went from frowning to a beaming smile, how cute
>>84315214Wrong. You didn't challenge my worldview correctly. Instead you used the NAXALT fallacy, which I don't waste time with. What's childish is trying to have an adult conversation with someone who argues like a child.Have a good night, jeet.
>>84315235Yeah its called alcohol buddy, you can see the shot glasses
>>84315250Stop being a weird asshole, jesus christ you're insufferable
>>84315230They really do, they all settle into normie mom girl lives if they can.
>You talk like a jeetforgot pic again.
>>84315171I found it fun/funny. Also talked to some other emo chick but mid way through Chad got drunk and tried lifting me up for body surfing. That one also ended up disappearing too.Probably I should just stick with the Italian chick who has no time for me. At least she says she still. Something something Chad says we "looksmatch" and both seem as equally socially retarded.>>84315193>You and me both.Yeah>terse>anhedonicOkay now I know I'm an actual retard. Had to look these words up.>In cases involving normal girls who are interested in dating, you have to be chad enough to pull and then charasmatic enough to maintain it. The exceptions are rare and the possibilities are many: Some girls are out with friends and aren't interested in dating, some girls are anhedonic (especially emo girls) and some anhedonic girls stim themselves in social environments to try and feel positive. Many introverts hit an extravert phase before settling on being an ambivert and you may have just been part of her extraverting phase. To best understand what happened with emo girl specifically, I'd have to interview her specifically. And keep in mind that most girls aren't emo for long, they just have an emo phase.Yeah, I'm not really much of a catch to begin with>Look up "imposter syndrome" and see if that describes what you're feeling.Already came to that conclusion a while ago. Better term then "abused house wife" was my other friend described me as. Friends used to be mean to me and then all of a sudden I go and get pissed off about how fucking lonely I feel and how a whole bottle of fucking Tito's can't even get me drunk and now they want to help me out. Just feels weird. Also co workers from last job treated me shitty.I got a good car, money, a stable job, and functioning legs and I can't even get a chick to go out with me while my crippled friend with non of the shit I have has a loving GF. I got to carry him half the time we out and take care of him while he's sick.
>>84314172Why are you posting this filth here? Who cares?Why is all of a sudden when his threads get posted all r9k posters turn into generic tiktok zoomer fags that speak like blackpillers but you people are never in any other thread?
>>84315258Oh you're autistic, my mistake
>>84315318My guess is that it's someone samefagging so much. It's a common tactic to make something look like there's a lot of activity. These threads looks so fake.
>>84315327I see, really wish they brought back post counters
>>84315193>My best guess is that she was experimenting with coming out of her shell and seeing that guys aren't all that scary. Girls aren't born knowing that random stranger guys aren't scary and they aren't born knowing how much pull they have on guys.Two introverts go to a night club and end up playing rock paper scissors. Feels like there is a joke in there.
>>84315330Removing them was one of the worst mistakes ever.
>>84315204Do you have a study that points to this or anecdotal evidence only?
>>84315408>>84315330the post counters were pointless because you could just phonepost, among many other methods, to get new ips. it proved nothing but gave schizo retards something to point at when they wanted to accuse someone of samefagging, or of not being the anon they said
>>84315419>t. samefaggerStop samefagging, samefagger.
>>84315313What kind of advice has your crippled friend given you?
>>84315444Crippled friend just tells me to cold approach random bitches, quite my job, make more eye contact, get a better sense of humor, work out, and gamble. Mix bag of shit and pretty sure he knew/met his current GF without having to do the cold approach shit.
>>84315510You sound like a dumb normie
I have no pity for incels because at the end of the day they want to become the vulgar hypergamists they hate
>>84315510Cold approaching is for chad only, average guys meet their gfs because of their social network. The best thing he could have told you was that increasing your chances involves increasing your social network. However large it is, it can become larger. Whomever your group is, you can always change it. It can be exhausting if socializing isn't your natural interest, but if you're a chill, average guy who isn't visibly deformed, then expanding/changing your social network is the difference between meeting your gf or not.
>>84315510he seems based>sexually harass women and stare them down>activate joker mode>hit the gym>quit your job and start gamblingyou would be getting laid if you did all of this
