I am certain she's interested in me as she keeps coming up to my desk just to small talk and specifically waits for all the other workers to leave so that we can have more intimate discussions. She told me she is single also and asked me if I had instagram, but I don't. I don't know what the next step here should be. I feel a little too timid to just ask her out or ask for her number. I need a more discreet way to escalate as this is a business professional environment. Any ideas?
just ask her out, shes giving you major signals manother men ask a woman out just for saying hi to them, here you are having full blown conversations
>>84335084Get drinks or do something fun after work with her, invite her offhandedly like it was something you were going to do anyways and ideally it should be. Embrace sexual tension but keep it kosher until you know her better. If she likes you she already knows it, and she will enjoy being strung along for some time especially if you never make a move on her but don't seem like you are too cowardly to do so. Basically, you want to wait until you know her better so you can more accurately judge her crazy level then just kiss her at the next opportunity.Dating at work is fine, tons of people meet at work. You probably don't want to stick around in the job very long anyways.
>>84335084instagram is the step before getting her number, just ask to her go some place or ask her what she likes doing
>>84335111I mean, what if I somehow misread her intent? I have seen her get chitchatty with the interns and some of the female coworkers, but it seems like it is more intimate and non-work related when it comes to me. Like, she came up to me and said happy birthday, telling me all the restaurants, told me to come to her to get more recommendations on where to hang out.... and then she followed up with me after to see what I ended up doing. She found out that I needed a beach parking sticker and was like oh i know where to get those! she pulled out her phone and was let me find it for you.... So I feel like she is showing more interest in me, considering where these convos tend to go, but she is definitely an extrovert, so there is a slight chance here that she just likes talking Oh and i plan to stay with this company for at least 2 years, so it would be awkward to somehow misread what is going on here
>>84335131So, I kept telling her I want to explore the restaurants ride outside our workplace. I see some of my other coworkers go out together during lunch break - would this be a fair play to say hey how about we go explore the other restaurants? I feel like it's also somewhat low risk because it's not an official date
>>84335084It's hard to tell(for me anyways)if a woman is baiting you so she can file a complaint or she's actually interested. Fuck w*men
>>84335131Post pictures of all the w*men you've slept with
>>84335148Do you want to go out with her? If so, ask. It's that simple. Don't worry about HR. You're inviting a coworker for drinks. Do so unapologetically and she won't think you are a creep anyways. Girls are like referees, they notice you reacting to your own fouls more than they notice the fouls themselves. >>84335164Close by is good. More casual. Do it.
>>84335084>specifically waits for all the other workers to leave so that we can have more intimate discussions
>>84335184What is this suppose to imply? That the anon is a virgin faking knowledge over women or that he actually knows his stuff?
>>84335148>I mean, what if I somehow misread her intent?then you can move on and at least have a chill work buddy
>>84335184>>84335266Posting nudes without permission is degenerate and I have nothing to prove. Recognize good advice or don't. OP if you actually want to get laid I recommend you start trusting your own intuition. I'm Anon and have no credentials you can trust.Also, instead of asking yourself if you have a chance with this girl, ask yourself if you actually want to spend time with her. Don't diminish yourself for female attention.
Got her # already? Text her. Ask if she'd like to meet.
>>84335302>degenerateUr on 4chan retard
