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Has a girl ever really intensely liked you? What was that like?
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>>84349403
>*guns cock*
>*shits his blow off fr fr*
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>>84349403
yeah, she offered me every hole on her body, she never ever asked me to pay nothing, she was always down to fuck, she loved my hobbies, she didnt cared i was jobless for a few while, she tried to impress my parents, she put me first every single time, then she cheated, but yeah, when a girl likes you enough you will notice
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>>84349403
>Has a girl ever really intensely liked you?
Many

> What was that like?
Awful. The amount of shit talking they will do if you reject them is life-altering. It's why attractive people have to shoot everyone down and act cold.. Otherwise everyone falls in love and then seethes about how awful you are for not being their best friend/lover/husband forever and ever.
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yes, one. we went on a date and she changed her mind.
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>>84349403
both of my girlfriends were madly in love with me but I got over them quickly once the honeymoon faded. shouldve stuck it out with them though because its been more than a decade of pure incel life ever since.
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>>84349403
That first image is way older than 2019, I swear I saw it back in the 00s
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>>84349403
that's a less important question than "did i deserve to be liked by a girl?" or "would she like me as i am now?" and the answer to both questions is no. girls should never have liked me and they have rightfully learned not to.
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>>84349429
>about how awful you are for not being their best friend/lover/husband forever and ever.
this is me, I'm a bitter woman that comes on too strong. but I'm sure there's some dynamic going on where I fall hard for people who were never serious about me in the first place
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>>84349496
>some dynamic going on where I fall hard for people who were never serious about me in the first place
that's a mood if I've ever seen one. being raised lonely and being overbearing because you want a crumb of reciprocity sure is fucking hell
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>>84349508
were you largely neglected by your parents too
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>>84349403
Probably but I ignored her and went for abusestacy instead
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>>84349517
in an odd, gaslighty kinda way. where I was heavily criticized for any mistakes but my successes weren't celebrated.
I mainly get it from being ostracized or bullied by my peers, so I either shut down every social interaction or get invested trying to be liked (and failing misserably because I'm inherently insufferable)
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When I was a teacher, a girl I used to teach in middle school confessed to loving me after she left the country to study highschool. She was 15, I was 24. That is the last and only time someone has loved me.
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>>84349538
it's like i'm looking into a mirror, i deserved getting bullied but as an adult it's been needlessly cruel. even therapists have bullied me so i'm never doing that shit again. some people are just destined to be fucking losers, but i doubt people like us ever pair off, we just desperately seek out the same dynamic from parents/peers who treat us like shit kek
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>>84349423
>then she cheated

why are women so evil
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>>84349543
You wasted the chance of your life
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>>84349558
Its their biological imperative.
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>>84349546
>i deserved getting bullied
I don't believe I deserved it. I'm spitful of them all for picking on me for things I couldn't change.
therapy is worthless and the only time I went I was forced to, and the therapist told everything to my parents. they can rot.
one of the people that bullied me stopped when I stabbed him. I should've gone apeshit long before that, then maybe I would've been respected and been able to respect myself instead of going to sleep wishing I didn't wake up
>we just desperately seek out the same dynamic from parents/peers who treat us like shit
I've never had anything irl, but if I'm treated the same way I'm disappearing. I've suffered enough, I'm not gonna take a single shit from a bitch. it's me or the fucking street.
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A girl with BPD liked me. It was very nice until she abruptly stopped liking me.
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>>84349403
this picture is fake, she is still a whore goth but nos she has all her face pierced
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>>84349496
>this is me, I'm a bitter woman that comes on too strong. but I'm sure there's some dynamic going on where I fall hard for people who were never serious about me in the first place
It's a constant problem for attractive people who also want to be open, warm, and loving.
It's a death sentence for a woman who wants to be like this. A beautiful woman who wants to be kind and open has women and men thinking she is their future wife or best friend. They turn her kindness into a NEED they want delivered consistently. Any deviation from this expectation will lead to an absolute freak out like they've been totally betrayed.

You actually CANNOT ACT NORMAL around people and be nice because 1 out of 10 will flip out like this. My warmth is not a service to you, you messed up person. Get it together. I am human. You don't get to just have me because you stomp your feet.
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Actually desirable attractive people end up just hanging out with small groups of old friends who don't care how attractive they are. The hottest, smartest, kindest women you've ever seen are hanging out with their two best friends from high school not socializing at all and just appearing in grocery stores like ghosts from a better world to tell you they aren't interested because they're married. That's the truth
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>>84349403
yeah, but she got a bodybuilder bf and at the end i didnt fuck her because the tism'. she was just throwing herself at me, going to my house, giving me the weed she planted, getting drunk together, watching porn together, lap dancing me, letting me suck her breast, i even went to a lingerie shop with her and took photos, yet, yet, i didnt have sex with her and now she is gone and i am a 24 year old virgin, i should blow my head desu
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>>84349630
>It's a constant problem for attractive people who also want to be open, warm, and loving.
i don't care about attractive people and they don't care about me, we live in completely different worlds and their problems are hardly real
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yeah I have known her for years but only see her like twice a year for sex and then drop her back off.

Blocked her for long spells when I had another gf. She's actually really sweet and cute though. I want to breed her
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>>84349649
that's actually insane that you didn't fuck. I considered myself awkward and a late bloomer but I have been getting constant sex since a young age.

The fact that you screwed that up at 24 but apparently have the balls to visit sex shops and do drugs together is astounding
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2 girls in england messaged me after i went back home basically one cussed me out and the other one cussed me out nicely. it was because i left them out of nowhere like just disappeared without even saying anything. there was another girl in a different country i did the exact same thing to. i asked someone later how she was doing and they said she lost a whole bunch of weight and looked really sick.
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>>84349403
Yeah, it's awful every time except if the woman is very mature and can just take a rejection. But that's also under the condition that you don't want her or can't have her. Women are hard to deal with in any circumstances. And it's not worth it for feeling loved. Feeling loved is really overrated, you get a slight confidence boost and a hundred times more responsibility for the person who can act unpredictably and fuck up your life forever.
>>84349659
Was that the play all that time? Should have been avoidant and let her have a bare minimum of attention so she can have an obsession.
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>>84349649
>watching porn together, lap dancing me, letting me suck her breast, i even went to a lingerie shop with her and took photos, yet, yet, i didnt have sex with her and now she is gone and i am a 24 year old virgin,
WHAT
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>>84349668
i still cant believe that i did cocaine and tusi before losing my virginity.

actually, i had several women interested in me, and i mean, pretty, hot stacy women. i remember this girl asking me for my socials, she was a 10/10 stacy blonde blue eyes sydney sweeney megawhore with russian/french heritage, and the first dm i get from her is i wanted to make out, i ignored her because she was underage. is interesting because i am a 6'0 tall, lean muscular white guy, yet, i fumble every fucking single time a girl is interested in me in any capacity. my dad is a 6'6 deep blue eyes muscular hung gigagigachad that had so much babymamas and cheated and fucked so much that he got plenty of venereal diseases. he used to get jobs by fucking the female in charge, he even told me one day her boss harassed him for sexual favours and i do believe him, yet, i am an absolute incel abort of a guy, consumed by autism, so every single robot that says that autism isn't really a excuse for inceldom, fuck you. i have all the genetic predisposition to be a chad and yet i am a sore loser who will die a virgin
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>>84349735
A chick was literally grinding on you while doing drugs and you didn't make a move, its beyond autism, it's just you having down syndrome
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>>84349403
No. No girl has ever liked me.
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>>84349403
When I was in high school, there was this girl who crushed on me hard. She would hug me out of the blue. Like, I would be talking to someone and she would lean over and wrap her arms around me. She made some weird comments too. She made a joke about my dick and me fucking my mom (yes really). She also leaned in real close to my face when it was just her and I at the lunch table and only years later did I realize she was leaning in for a kiss. She also slapped my butt once, but that happened years earlier in middle school. I told her I was moving away and she hugged me deeply and put her face in my chest and said something like "Ohhh I'll miss you."
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no. not once has a girl ever shown the slightest hint of being into me in my 34 years of living. consider yourself lucky if you ever have got something
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>>84349403
Yeah but only from distance since I'm autistic and can't make connections naturally irl
Finally planning a meetup with one this summer since they've always fallen apart before then before
Hopefully I lose my wizardhood
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>>84349761
yeah i know, she used to put her pants down and just let me put my face between her asscheeks as she started bobbling and twerking in my face
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>>84349423
>then she cheated
Yup. Been exactly there. Women deserve the hate.
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>>84349403
Yeah. it's a weird feeling. like if prey suddenly started chasing the hunter.

I've gone on ~4 dates with a girl who I am realizing that I'm not attracted to, but she's already becoming obsessed and possessive with me. women don't really have game so it's annoying. a lot of repeating herself, calling me cute, etc. the flirting is becoming unbearable. It's tough because I am NOT attractive but I do have a really good paying job. I'm maybe a 5/10 and she's a 3/10. she has a good personality but is not interesting to talk to. I deeply missed the feeling of intimacy and physical touch, but I don't actually like her.
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>>84349735
my dad also got a bunch of awful veneral diseases and cheated on my mom a ton before killing himself sounds like a cool guy huh
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>>84349703
it wasn't always the play and I just use her body basically. I've kind of come around to her though, she has a great personality and is good with kids.

Also most other women I meet are gutter trash I don't even want to fuck, much less spend time with.

Also not (too massive) of a whore. Its just really nice to have someone reliable and consistent no matter how I ignore them. Time for me to man up and put a baby in her and have a happy family
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>>84349403
No, no girl ever liked me
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>>84349403
no lol
maybe one day!
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>>84349869
That's fucked up anon sorry
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>>84349403
No
Either they had a schizo break on me( despite being friends with me for years(the cutter), have no time for me(the tan one), or pitied me(one random chick and one random stripper).



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